Armaan - Abhira: A match made in hell - Page 4

Honestly, this FL is even worse than Anupamaa, who was not very educated or aware much about the worldly affairs so it made sense why she was a doormat to Shahs. She would've thought that it's the norm for a daughter in law to be treated like an unpaid maid. Plus she was married to her Bacchon ka Pita for 26 years so it can be hard to break free from him and his family who she would've been attached with.

Abhira on the other hand is a young, outspoken, educated lawyer who has been pampered since childhood. She does not have much trauma apart from being fatherless and having no family. Therefore, it is hard to understand how such a girl can be a doormat when it is her job to advocate for people. The irony is that she was literally advocating for her SIL who was stuck in a terrible marriage yet she cannot stand up for herself when she herself is being abused. This character is supposed to be relatable to Gen Z audience but she is not, as any Gen Z person would slap divorce papers on the face of their abusive partner and dump him. They would not tolerate any form of abuse whatsoever and would move on in life. That is what this FL should have done. Once she became a successful lawyer she should have left Armaan and moved on in life and focused on her career. Then she could've settled with someone who truly loves her. By adjusting in that toxic marriage she has destroyed her own life has been reduced to a doormat unpaid maid who is now taking care of the family members of her toxic ex husband. The man abused her, character assassinated her, mocked her infertility and then dumped her. Yet still she had hope that he will one day return to her with her daughter. I don't understand how someone can be this foolish. Any other person would've realised how toxic this marriage is and moved on in life. Not wait for that same abuser to return to their life. I have no hope for this FL Whatsoever. Worst FL I have ever seen. She is worse than any kind of doormat in this universe. It will be the end of her character if she goes back to Armaan after all this.

Originally posted by: cutepigs

Oh the minute she realizes Abhira is her mother, she'll be like who Geetu. She has Armaan ka khoon and upbringing, so she won't care that Geetu is essentially a tissue paper for both father and daughter, that's why I feel sad that she has been shown good, but am sure she'll be made into a hidden villan for Abhira Armaan reunion.

Originally posted by: Ajab.Pehchan

Honestly, this FL is even worse than Anupamaa, who was not very educated or aware much about the worldly affairs so it made sense why she was a doormat to Shahs. She would've thought that it's the norm for a daughter in law to be treated like an unpaid maid. Plus she was married to her Bacchon ka Pita for 26 years so it can be hard to break free from him and his family who she would've been attached with.

Abhira on the other hand is a young, outspoken, educated lawyer who has been pampered since childhood. She does not have much trauma apart from being fatherless and having no family. Therefore, it is hard to understand how such a girl can be a doormat when it is her job to advocate for people. The irony is that she was literally advocating for her SIL who was stuck in a terrible marriage yet she cannot stand up for herself when she herself is being abused. This character is supposed to be relatable to Gen Z audience but she is not, as any Gen Z person would slap divorce papers on the face of their abusive partner and dump him. They would not tolerate any form of abuse whatsoever and would move on in life. That is what this FL should have done. Once she became a successful lawyer she should have left Armaan and moved on in life and focused on her career. Then she could've settled with someone who truly loves her. By adjusting in that toxic marriage she has destroyed her own life has been reduced to a doormat unpaid maid who is now taking care of the family members of her toxic ex husband. The man abused her, character assassinated her, mocked her infertility and then dumped her. Yet still she had hope that he will one day return to her with her daughter. I don't understand how someone can be this foolish. Any other person would've realised how toxic this marriage is and moved on in life. Not wait for that same abuser to return to their life. I have no hope for this FL Whatsoever. Worst FL I have ever seen. She is worse than any kind of doormat in this universe. It will be the end of her character if she goes back to Armaan after all this.

Absolutely I mean , after reaching this level of doormatism , if the writers dont wanna pull her back , its their loss ..

Ur so right, anupama is still running bec she showed courage to move on..arre bhashan to deti hai , she can differentiate bw right & wrong and here we have a lawyer who fails to rise above her desires . Isko bas arman chahiye & poddars chahiye , izzat kabhi nai chahiye

Originally posted by: Krinya

Absolutely I mean , after reaching this level of doormatism , if the writers dont wanna pull her back , its their loss ..

Ur so right, anupama is still running bec she showed courage to move on..arre bhashan to deti hai , she can differentiate bw right & wrong and here we have a lawyer who fails to rise above her desires . Isko bas arman chahiye & poddars chahiye , izzat kabhi nai chahiye

Originally posted by: Debospeaks

Even Gopi Bahu moved on to become a teacher and raised her daughter alone when her husband asked to leave him. Abhira is worse than her too.

Originally posted by: Ajab.Pehchan

Gopi Bahu toh anpadh gavar thi and had a traumatic childhood so it made sense why she was a doormat. Abhira on the other hand is an educated lawyer who had a blissful childhood so it makes no sense why she is such a doormat.

Originally posted by: cutepigs

So true... progressive has become equal to lgbt, cuss words, alcohol and smoking only, rest the FL have no self respect and are actually getting worse with each generation leap being shown.

OG Akshara was a strong wife and mother, then came Naira who always ran but was still a strong mother to her kids, then came next gen Akshara who stood up against her abuser but always needed a man to survive until both her lovers died and she didn't meet another father ji, and then this one, who gives lectures and wants to make everyone stand up against their abuser but herself goes running happily to hers to do gulu gulu under the blanket. Instead of being better than last gen, they go one step backwards, next gen will be sati pratha believing FL.

Originally posted by: Debospeaks

Tabhi toh I said she's the worst in all. The only thing she wants is physical romance, woh mil jaye toh sab bhul jaati hai

Originally posted by: Ajab.Pehchan

Gopi Bahu toh anpadh gavar thi and had a traumatic childhood so it made sense why she was a doormat. Abhira on the other hand is an educated lawyer who had a blissful childhood so it makes no sense why she is such a doormat.

Originally posted by: Ajab.Pehchan

Honestly, this FL is even worse than Anupamaa, who was not very educated or aware much about the worldly affairs so it made sense why she was a doormat to Shahs. She would've thought that it's the norm for a daughter in law to be treated like an unpaid maid. Plus she was married to her Bacchon ka Pita for 26 years so it can be hard to break free from him and his family who she would've been attached with.

Abhira on the other hand is a young, outspoken, educated lawyer who has been pampered since childhood. She does not have much trauma apart from being fatherless and having no family. Therefore, it is hard to understand how such a girl can be a doormat when it is her job to advocate for people. The irony is that she was literally advocating for her SIL who was stuck in a terrible marriage yet she cannot stand up for herself when she herself is being abused. This character is supposed to be relatable to Gen Z audience but she is not, as any Gen Z person would slap divorce papers on the face of their abusive partner and dump him. They would not tolerate any form of abuse whatsoever and would move on in life. That is what this FL should have done. Once she became a successful lawyer she should have left Armaan and moved on in life and focused on her career. Then she could've settled with someone who truly loves her. By adjusting in that toxic marriage she has destroyed her own life has been reduced to a doormat unpaid maid who is now taking care of the family members of her toxic ex husband. The man abused her, character assassinated her, mocked her infertility and then dumped her. Yet still she had hope that he will one day return to her with her daughter. I don't understand how someone can be this foolish. Any other person would've realised how toxic this marriage is and moved on in life. Not wait for that same abuser to return to their life. I have no hope for this FL Whatsoever. Worst FL I have ever seen. She is worse than any kind of doormat in this universe. It will be the end of her character if she goes back to Armaan after all this.

I so agree.. Anupama was actually taught that abuse is normal in a marriage and she should be a doormat, but this one toh grew with no majboori, her mother had decent money, pampered her, loved her. I think maybe, because she had no male figure in her life, she didnt realize what's normal and what's not, but after seeing her parents in laws, where the MIL is the abuser, seeing her own great grandparents who love each other, seeing Kiara and Abhir where she stood up against her brother, if she is still blind then it is of her choosing.