Originally posted by: Sajini235
There are always two sides of the coin.
Armaan has trauma....He lost his mother, brother, bsp, was wronged by his family, now fears for pookie....Okay, but its not like abhira has an easy life.
Her mother was shot dead right infront of her eyes who was her only family in real sense, the brother she got has only caused problems in her life one after another. Goenkas always picked ruhi over her, no matter how much wrong ruhi is. She also lost bsp. Its not like poddars treated abhira like a queen. They always find a way to blame her for everything, whether she gets involved or not. Her mere existance is enough for them to blame her. She is the one who is constantly being taunted for her infertility (unfortunately now from her husdband also).
If armaan being overprotective & over possessive towards pookie is coming from his trauma, then abhira being desperate for her child is also came from her trauma (which was caused intentionally by avidya the dayan, aasmaan poddar & unintentionally by armaan). Though those behaviors of both are kind of hard to digest as for me both should go to therapy before taking a baby's responsibility.
Its not about either of armaan or abhira being overprotective or desperate for their baby respectively. Its about how they're treating eachother in this phase. Though desperate for bsp, abhira was never mean or insensitive towards armaan. But while being overprotective towards pookie, armaan is being extremely rude & insensitive towards abhira for no reason and suffocating ruhi also. He is not realizing the damage he is causing right now. Maybe when he does it might be too late.
If armaan really wants peace in his life, he should leave ph with abhira and pookie. Till they are in ph, its impossible to stay away from family matters. Now he is behaving like hdgf. But if something goes wrong, for an example if kiara or charu attempt to suicide or something, will he be this chill? He will again blame abhira as abhir is her brother.
Bring rude to abhira is not gonna solve his problems. Instead he is distancing the only person who loves him unconditionally, forgave his all mistakes and being extremely patient with the crap he is pulling right now. But she will also have a breaking point. (Ideally she should. But don't know what will makers do). If damage he is causing becomes irreversible, then he might lose abhira. Hopefully he should understand before it gets too late.
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