Legal or ethical - Who is mother of the child? - Page 9

Originally posted by: Manny_123

Yeah I would say that she needs to give the child to biological parents.

Ethical responsibility means following the morally correct path, maintaing honesty, fairness, and justice. After laying all the groundwork and going back from word/ contracts by a surrogacy mother means she is being dishonest and unfair and it is injustice to parents involved. She took this decision with free will with the intention of giving the child after the labour. In a way, the child's right to be with his/her bio parents will be violated and snatched. Taking responsibility also means you need to hold accountable for your actions. So you will need to be brave enough to accept whatever consequences of your action. People might have different views but this is what I think.

I agree with you

Ruhi has the responsibility to give the child to their parents because the baby deserves it, she can't be selfish to think about herself and her attachment also she has Daksh, without Rohit, now she has to make her life not involve another baby in the mix

I am glad we have established that even though you put efforts, you have the responsibility to do the "right" thing

Originally posted by: Manny_123

Yeah I would say that she needs to give the child to biological parents.

Ethical responsibility means following the morally correct path, maintaing honesty, fairness, and justice. After laying all the groundwork and going back from word/ contracts by a surrogacy mother means she is being dishonest and unfair and it is injustice to parents involved. She took this decision with free will with the intention of giving the child after the labour. In a way, the child's right to be with his/her bio parents will be violated and snatched. Taking responsibility also means you need to hold accountable for your actions. So you will need to be brave enough to accept whatever consequences of your action. People might have different views but this is what I think.

Pookie baby is Abeera's zaman which is placed in Ruhi's bag ( womb) since Abeera's bag ( womb) has holes or weak ...Once " saman" is too big to be in the bag and " saman" is mature will go back to the Original owners...that is AR & Abeera ...Ithni achi " bhashan" de diya Abeera ne phir aap nahi samachi Saman & bag ...Yeh ristha kya ajeeb explanation de the hai

Originally posted by: Manny_123

Yeah I would say that she needs to give the child to biological parents.

Ethical responsibility means following the morally correct path, maintaing honesty, fairness, and justice. After laying all the groundwork and going back from word/ contracts by a surrogacy mother means she is being dishonest and unfair and it is injustice to parents involved. She took this decision with free will with the intention of giving the child after the labour. In a way, the child's right to be with his/her bio parents will be violated and snatched. Taking responsibility also means you need to hold accountable for your actions. So you will need to be brave enough to accept whatever consequences of your action. People might have different views but this is what I think.

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Yes, she knows has to give the baby but she will be carrying the child, it is natural to feel attached to it - even if it is a surrogate. Women create a whole baby for 9 months, they nurture it. It is difficult not to get attached to it.

But she will still have to give it because it is not her baby.

You may have 10 babies but you will still attached to the baby in your womb because that is a part of you. Very natural instinct

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

You may have 10 babies but you will still attached to the baby in your womb because that is a part of you. Very natural instinct

Originally posted by: Indira1211

yes but the situation is a bit different in surrogacy. The woman knows she’s just carrying the baby for another woman. She knows it’s not her baby. So I think the attachment will be less..than if it’s your own baby. Also here Ruhi always refers to pookie as your baby to abhimaan. So …so far it looks like there will be no problem with Ruhi giving Abhimaan the baby. I wonder if dkp will do anything to change those dynamics 🤔

Jitna bhi attachment kyu na ho, she should not forget ki Abhira is the mom.

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Knowing is a fact. Feeling is an emotion. You can know that you have to give away that child. But it doesn’t stop having attachment for something growing inside you.

Jitna bhi attachment kyu na ho, she should not forget ki Abhira is the mom.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

nutty did pakhi have any genuine attachment to,vinu ? Ok..post leap as her adopted son..I’d say there was some attachment..but during the pregnancy and after birth ?