What is the exact reason of not being accepted?

I am still unable to understand the exact reason of Dadisa not accepting Shivani?

Is it because Madhav doesn’t even try to proof his love or stand up?

Because even Armaan marrried Abhira the same way and bought her home. Armaan always fought for Abhira & Abhira always tried to fit into the family. Slowly Dadisa did accept Abhira too but with many conditions

But with Shivani, she made her dissapeared. Made Madhav & Shivani believe that their respective spouse is dead. Made Madhav marry Vidya and hide from Vidya that he was previously married.

Even until now I don’t get, why doesn’t Dadisa like Shivani? Is it just because she isn’t her choice?

Did Madhav say no to marrying according to his mom’s choice and went and married her that’s why?

Acharaaa died saving arman so they kept calm first. Later dadi showed her colours on abheera. Gabheera said she won't stay in that house and deal shadi but intruded into family issues as bahu participated in functions festivals rituals as pati patni. That's where when deal shadi out they wanted to throw her out. But her love pulled her back there. Abheera doesn't fit in poddar house any day as they won't accept her easily. Shivani didn't get any entry at all till now as madhav never fought for his love kept shivani in another house

Yes, you're thinking along the right lines! The key difference between Shivani and Abhira’s situations lies in Madhav’s lack of resistance and Dadisa’s absolute authority at that time compared to the present.

Why Did Dadisa Reject Shivani Completely?

1. Shivani’s Background: Shivani was not from a wealthy or prestigious family, and Dadisa always wanted Madhav to marry someone who could bring status and wealth into the family.

2. Madhav’s Weakness: Unlike Armaan, who constantly fights for Abhira, Madhav never stood up to Dadisa for Shivani. He loved Shivani but did not challenge his mother’s authority.

3. Dadisa’s Absolute Control Back Then: When Madhav married Shivani, he was still under Dadisa’s dominance, and she had complete control over family decisions. There was no one in the family to oppose her.

4. No Chance Given to Shivani: Shivani never got the opportunity to adjust or prove herself, unlike Abhira, who at least got a chance (even if with conditions). Dadisa outright rejected Shivani and forced Madhav to abandon her.

Why Did Dadisa Eventually Accept Abhira (With Conditions)?

1. Times Changed: Armaan is much stronger than Madhav ever was. He openly challenges Dadisa when necessary.

2. Armaan’s Influence: Unlike Madhav, Armaan actively fights for Abhira’s place in the family, refusing to let Dadisa push her away. Also Madhav was a disappointment in Dadisa's eyes, his profession being the main reason. If you've watched the early episodes we clearly see Dadisa criticising Madhav for his job as a police officer. Whereas Armaan has taken part in the family buisness and has not only made a name for himself, but also has made her and the family proud.

3. Abhira’s Willingness to Adapt: Abhira, despite her outspoken nature, tries to fit into the family’s traditions and expectations, making it harder for Dadisa to outright reject her (the opportunity that Shivani was denied).

4. Family’s Changing Dynamics: The family has evolved over the years. Dadisa doesn’t have the same unchecked power she once had. Others in the family—Vidya, Rohit, Manisha, and even Madhav—don’t let her make all the decisions alone.

So, the tragedy is that if Madhav had fought for Shivani the way Armaan fights for Abhira, things could have been different. But because he gave in to Dadisa’s pressure, Shivani was completely cast out, while Abhira, despite being unwanted initially, was at least given a chance.

Dadisa never like abhira , she got them divorced too but then she couldn't lose arman bec if she kept resisting arman would leave them. Later abhir turned out to be a goenka relative & she proved herself to be an asset to their firm, so dadisa had no excuse ..

She still doesn't approve of abhira so story will continue..

Technically dadisa would approve of shivani coz she was docile & can be easily controlled but may be she fixed madhavs rishta already with vidya , something must have happened

Problem must be how can her son choose someone on his own ... Even now in 2025 she seems to be so conservative and wicked..one can only imagine how filthy she must have been decades back with her conservative and authoritativeness.. It must be a matter of shame for her when her son married on his own.. We have seen many marriages/love break in Indian society due to disapproval of parents.. Armaan was strong support to Ab but even then she manipulated him into divorcing her.. Madhav considering how weak he is we already know the end..

Armaan is weak but Madhav is weaker. For all his flaws, Armaan has stood up for Abhira most of the times, but he has also humilated her and chosen his family at times, because of which it's difficult to support him.

Abhira is not poor and is from Goenka family and is an asset to the firm, is what slowly changed Kaveri 's perception towards her.

Because this drama is only strong hold that ties family with ml fl

You would think leads will leave and family will fall in their feet lol no in 2025 we don't do that we watch humiliation kink and enjoy🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Krinya

Dadisa never like abhira , she got them divorced too but then she couldn't lose arman bec if she kept resisting arman would leave them. Later abhir turned out to be a goenka relative & she proved herself to be an asset to their firm, so dadisa had no excuse ..

She still doesn't approve of abhira so story will continue..

Technically dadisa would approve of shivani coz she was docile & can be easily controlled but may be she fixed madhavs rishta already with vidya , something must have happened

Dadi has no trust on abheera as she runs away leaving relationships. Abhir bharose ke layak nahi hi kyunki woh uska bhai hi 😜

Originally posted by: theromanticcrap

Yes, you're thinking along the right lines! The key difference between Shivani and Abhira’s situations lies in Madhav’s lack of resistance and Dadisa’s absolute authority at that time compared to the present.

Why Did Dadisa Reject Shivani Completely?

1. Shivani’s Background: Shivani was not from a wealthy or prestigious family, and Dadisa always wanted Madhav to marry someone who could bring status and wealth into the family.

2. Madhav’s Weakness: Unlike Armaan, who constantly fights for Abhira, Madhav never stood up to Dadisa for Shivani. He loved Shivani but did not challenge his mother’s authority.

3. Dadisa’s Absolute Control Back Then: When Madhav married Shivani, he was still under Dadisa’s dominance, and she had complete control over family decisions. There was no one in the family to oppose her.

4. No Chance Given to Shivani: Shivani never got the opportunity to adjust or prove herself, unlike Abhira, who at least got a chance (even if with conditions). Dadisa outright rejected Shivani and forced Madhav to abandon her.

Why Did Dadisa Eventually Accept Abhira (With Conditions)?

1. Times Changed: Armaan is much stronger than Madhav ever was. He openly challenges Dadisa when necessary.

2. Armaan’s Influence: Unlike Madhav, Armaan actively fights for Abhira’s place in the family, refusing to let Dadisa push her away. Also Madhav was a disappointment in Dadisa's eyes, his profession being the main reason. If you've watched the early episodes we clearly see Dadisa criticising Madhav for his job as a police officer. Whereas Armaan has taken part in the family buisness and has not only made a name for himself, but also has made her and the family proud.

3. Abhira’s Willingness to Adapt: Abhira, despite her outspoken nature, tries to fit into the family’s traditions and expectations, making it harder for Dadisa to outright reject her (the opportunity that Shivani was denied).

4. Family’s Changing Dynamics: The family has evolved over the years. Dadisa doesn’t have the same unchecked power she once had. Others in the family—Vidya, Rohit, Manisha, and even Madhav—don’t let her make all the decisions alone.

So, the tragedy is that if Madhav had fought for Shivani the way Armaan fights for Abhira, things could have been different. But because he gave in to Dadisa’s pressure, Shivani was completely cast out, while Abhira, despite being unwanted initially, was at least given a chance.

Yup… mostlilely…. Dadi was younger with more energy during shivani ka time…. Then armaan ka firm per string hold… Madhav had no hold over law firm…. Abhira herself was more aware smart… Shivam I looks more docile… Vidya might b the one whom dadi wanted Madhav to marry… armaan ke liye immediate koi aisi ladki nahi thi na ar mrin shatad😃😃 then also dadi did everything she could to eliminate abhira from armaan ki life…

Major one I feel is shivani was Madhav ki pasand….. initially abhora was NOT armasn ki pasand…. So dadi must b a bot relaxed….😃😃😃