Originally posted by: sanfan
No I don’t think she came back with him from Kashmir to BH with any expectations…her feelings post consummation - we weren’t really privy to.. it was terribly half baked in the sense we weren’t aware what actually happened and Jhanak’s reactions were too stoic to really pinpoint her feelings… it could be read either way but one thing is clear -,she made it about honouring the commitment to Arshi whether out of her Didi Jhaap nonsense or Ani’s reaction ( he was delirious). So one way of reading the situation is she was upset that he ignored the night or was noncommittal the morning after only speaking about the hug and that set her back so she gathered her pride and decided to shut him up when he talked of being with her post that night and was gathering courage to talk about the suffocation and he knew her enough not to irritate her as Didi Jhaap was her constant refrain so he was just buying time
I know a lot of people felt Jhanak was stupid or hypocritical etc on her return but I could see where she was coming from. Having given up herself completely to this man and only swallowing pride after what she perceived as tepid reaction post the night a classic MU was set up and given their individual personality traits they were stuck in a stalemate..ofc if I suspend my logic about the delirium nonsense 😂😂😂 Ani buying time to get her to drop the didi refrain and Jhanak upset at his initial nonchalant and assuming the worst and acting chagrined that he would ask her to be his mistress ( she was always offended by that) Both were in their respective corner and Ani self destructed in anger as he was perhaps hoping he could tempt her into accepting but the game went far to a point of no return.
in some ways I was always hoping they pursue the personality conflict better becos this tale was largely about that especially Jhanak’s. I thought Leena wanted to make a point about morality dilemmas and the futility of holding on to a set position I expected Leena would allow Ani the dignity of understanding that the wicked can cause you untold misery so be wise about who trust…Alas… she just twisted the knife so badly the pain is still not completely gone 🤦🏻♀️
But I have zero expectations of this nonsense any more..I have stopped watching and I get my updates only here and enjoy bakwas here with forumwasis…😂😂
I know you and I don’t concur on Ani… it’s ok…actually what we think perhaps doesn’t matter when the writer is this stupid which we will both agree on 😂
bold - Rekha, our perspectives are different.
So you don't agree that Ani lied to and cheated Arshi many a time, while hiding his true feelings for J? Dont you agree that he kept J in BH because he thought that was best for her in spite of an adult woman telling him repeatedly she was feeling choked with all the be-izzathi. She went to the extent of commiting suicide. What makes Ani decide what is right for one's life. Yes J has made bad choices, but the amount of CA she was subjected to in BH from him and others is extreme. The way Ani has spoke to J no other ML has ever spoken to a FL in ITV, You don't agree he distrusts the woman he loves to an extent you question his love. You dont agree that the way he easily jumps to believe anything against J when she is accused and further immediately jumps to prop Arshi up or give her false hope makes him a insecure and deceitful weak man?
The number of times he would twist the story in front of Arshi making J mock him for being afraid of Arshi. Ani can justify that he did it to keep J safe, but he still did lie and cheat intentionally. Keeping J in BH is not the only way to keep J safe. Making excuses to keep her there was 100% personal whether he accepted it or not. The whole story has been told in a way where Ani is doing things without realizing his own self interest in doing so. He has never been in love with Arshi. Nothing he has done to date shows that he loves her. Yet saying 50 times in the show that he loves her has always been deceitful and has been the cause for the story to unfold the way it has.
I believe if Ani had moved away from Arshi of his own choice without J as the reason for the separation, eventually J would have accepted him. His inability to disconnect from Arshi has been shown over and over again by the writer. While he is on one hand yelling for her to leave, when she does leave he is overwhelmed by his guilt and responsibility for her. They have never shown a scenario where she does leave for an extended time and Ani still feels guilt and does things to drag himself down. Leena is writing a story of a well intentioned man who is swayed like a pendulum because he cannot prioritize his feelings and realize he has to choose just one. The fact that the girl he loves has a moral conflict that she is dead set on makes it one that ensures he will never get J unless the conflict ends in her mind. Marrying Arshi again will ensure the moral conflict gets more solidifed.
Yes he has a sense of responsibility, yes he is emphathetic, yes he is loyal to his jethu and bodoma, appu, choton. Yes he is inherently a good man, yes he loves J. First he did not have the introsepction to realize he loved J, insted of so many promptings from people. Entire BH realized before he did. Next he never had the spine to accept he loves her and take the right next steps. He let her decisions influence him. Then furthermore he decided to take the plunge to take marriage responsibility for Arshi, got J to sacrifice for her, saw red when he thought J moved on with Adi, hypocritical when he was with Arshi - a man cannot see hypocrisy in the face? Then CA'd her publicly over her claim that they slept together and it resulted in her pregnancy when he was the one who pushed her for it. To not consider for a moment that J was telling the truth and he was delirious - (and he agreed immediately for Arshi) pls these are not signs of a sensible person. Ani has emotions that are uncontrolled when it comes to J and these are not to be dismissed because he is basically a nice person. Ive always maintained Ani is a very nice person but a very very unbalanced one, everything he has done to date has been impulsive and not well thought through and he will continue to be this way till maybe he gets security of J's love. Leeena will never let that happen. So.... :)
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