Abhira says sab mujhse nafrath has she every tried to address why they hate her 
1. Dadisa hates her now as she blamed her for treating woman as baby making machine even though she accepted abhira even after knowing she can not become mother 🤷♀️
2. Vidya hated her because as even though abhimaan clearly knew she has issue with their marriage they never tried to make her understand before marrying each other. So in a way they did accepted she may hate them later 🤷♀️
3. Manisha hates her because her husband was working in the firm longer than ab. Ab even after knowing never did anything to help them to address their insecurity. She could have given up her cabin and shared cabin with armaan. But she chose to have the cabin and want manish and manisha to move on. If it was a IT company you don't have a say as you are not owning it. But after having poddar firms where everyone are your family she never tried to do something for manisha's family.
4. Ruhi hates her because abhira never showed any sympathy when ruhi mentioned ak killed her mother. Atleast have some sympathy and say "Mujhe nahi patha past main kya hua, mumma ne aisa kiya hai ya nahi, agar kiya bhi toh main tumse maafi maangthi hun usse zyada main kuch nahi kar sakthi as mumma ne mujhse kuch bhi nahi kaha". This would have atleast made ruhi think she is sympathetic towards her situation. But instead ab was like mumma ne kuch nahi kiya, roohi didi, aap mere bacche ke matashree baniye. Mere bacche ko doodh do 🤷♀️
5. Charu and dev ke case main she supported charu which makes sense if she was not a family member. But when a girl gets married to a married man, there are lots of complications which does not come from just blabbering. People have to take decision carefully. Which made phupha and his wife to hate her.
Rest all are her puppets without a spine 🤷♀️ they don't hate her but they have no guts to openly say they love her. 🤷♀️
Then she asks sab mujhse nafrath karthe hai 🤷♀️
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