So, Legacy Bhai won't support the FL ?? destroyed Rishta forever - Page 7

Originally posted by: Anushka_Paharia

People here are questing Ruhi's ability of being a good mother , even before she got the opportunity to raise and take care of her kid . Why aren't they questioning Abhira , who keeps endangering the baby's life every alternate day . Within a span of 1 month , the baby has been kidnapped by goons , put on gun point , was taken to court , exposed to infections and now that garbage FL has again kidnapped the baby and surrounded by goons ( once again putting the life of the baby in danger ). And still this chubheera has the audacity to question Ruhi . If Ruhi is bad mother for calling baby ashubh and saman , then isn't Chubheera , an equally bad mother for putting the life of the baby at risk every other day ?

People are casually overlooking one fact - Ruhi was mourning her child who was alive because of Ro and Ar, she was not being a bad mother. Abhira on the other hand has kidnapped a child and some shitty delusional people are supporting her God knows why. Aisi FL ho toh vamp ki kya zaroorat hai show mein. Yeh kaisi mamta hai, this is just entitled behavior.

Originally posted by: Anushka_Paharia

People here are questing Ruhi's ability of being a good mother , even before she got the opportunity to raise and take care of her kid . Why aren't they questioning Abhira , who keeps endangering the baby's life every alternate day . Within a span of 1 month , the baby has been kidnapped by goons , put on gun point , was taken to court , exposed to infections and now that garbage FL has again kidnapped the baby and surrounded by goons ( once again putting the life of the baby in danger ). And still this chubheera has the audacity to question Ruhi . If Ruhi is bad mother for calling baby ashubh and saman , then isn't Chubheera , an equally bad mother for putting the life of the baby at risk every other day ?

Why does this forum make it seem like Abhira put Daksh’s life at risk on purpose? Lol jo log episodes nahi dekhte and yahan updates read karte hain, I feel bad for them. Please watch the episodes.

And tbh the amount of times I’ve heard about infections this that, my brother was watching cricket the other day and an Australian cricketer who just had a baby last month has his wife and baby come watch his game at the stadium and that literally reminded me how this forum schools Abhira for taking her baby out. Trust me people take their babies out all the time. I see little babies at grocery stores and on walks almost every time I go out. Not everyone has help at him to Kya bahir jana chor dein? Abhira didn’t have help at home so she had no option but to take the baby with her. It’s not that serious lol.

Originally posted by: Lucifer666

People are casually overlooking one fact - Ruhi was mourning her child who was alive because of Ro and Ar, she was not being a bad mother. Abhira on the other hand has kidnapped a child and some shitty delusional people are supporting her God knows why. Aisi FL ho toh vamp ki kya zaroorat hai show mein. Yeh kaisi mamta hai, this is just entitled behavior.

Ruhi ka 30 saal purana trauma, trauma and Abhira ka 2 din purana trauma, entitled behavior? 😂

Ruhi hating on someone else’s child considered mourning her own child, but Abhira taking the baby she still believe is hers is kidnapping? 😂

This is called “hypocrisy”

Originally posted by: Noorain13

Why does this forum make it seem like Abhira put Daksh’s life at risk on purpose? Lol jo log episodes nahi dekhte and yahan updates read karte hain, I feel bad for them. Please watch the episodes.

And tbh the amount of times I’ve heard about infections this that, my brother was watching cricket the other day and an Australian cricketer who just had a baby last month has his wife and baby come watch his game at the stadium and that literally reminded me how this forum schools Abhira for taking her baby out. Trust me people take their babies out all the time. I see little babies at grocery stores and on walks almost every time I go out. Not everyone has help at him to Kya bahir jana chor dein? Abhira didn’t have help at home so she had no option but to take the baby with her. It’s not that serious lol.

People take out babies all the time, agreed. But it is extremely dangerous for the first few months. Many babies have died, actually died and many suffered brain damage because of a simple outing to a public place or just one kiss.

It is advised to not let people touch the baby's face and hands and chest. During those initial months the baby's immune system is extremely weak and anything can happen by doing things that seems so normal just an year later.

And if you want to take the newborn out, then there are steps need to be taken to keep the baby protected. Hand washing, physical distancing, never going to crowded places, sun protection, weather appropriate clothing and so much more.

If she didn't have any help from the people at home, then she could have opted for video conference proceedings citing her reasons.

And nobody said that she purposefully put the baby's life in danger and that she actually wanted to do that. No, she is being questioned because of her negligence. And that negligence is not just limited to taking the baby out in crowded public place, and then out in cold. She fed the baby in that dirty environment as well.

Just tell me, would you take your baby and go upto a lady who hates you and your mother and tell her that hey, let's co-parent this baby. Didn't Ruhi clearly, very clearly say that she wants nothing to do with Abhira and her baby?

She wakes up from a coma, gets to know that she lost her baby and then the woman she hates the most comes up and tells her that let's co-parent this baby, I be the mom and you be the Matashree! Ha!

And now, after the baby's truth was revealed, she ones up her husband and brother-in-law, kidnaps the baby and flees! She literally kidnapped a baby and is being called the best mom and a super mom for that.

Now, isn't she risking the baby's life because she couldn't handle the truth? What if something happens to the baby? She definitely doesn't have intentions to hurt the baby but the outcomes of an action aren't solely based on the intentions.

Questionable are her ways, her sly actions and this green tea attitude where she acts to be the greatest of all times but isn't actually that great.

Originally posted by: itsShonali

People take out babies all the time, agreed. But it is extremely dangerous for the first few months. Many babies have died, actually died and many suffered brain damage because of a simple outing to a public place or just one kiss.

It is advised to not let people touch the baby's face and hands and chest. During those initial months the baby's immune system is extremely weak and anything can happen by doing things that seems so normal just an year later.

And if you want to take the newborn out, then there are steps need to be taken to keep the baby protected. Hand washing, physical distancing, never going to crowded places, sun protection, weather appropriate clothing and so much more.

If she didn't have any help from the people at home, then she could have opted for video conference proceedings citing her reasons.

And nobody said that she purposefully put the baby's life in danger and that she actually wanted to do that. No, she is being questioned because of her negligence. And that negligence is not just limited to taking the baby out in crowded public place, and then out in cold.

Just tell me, would you take your baby and go upto a lady who hates you and your mother and tell her that hey, let's co-parent this baby. Didn't Ruhi clearly, very clearly say that she wants nothing to do with Abhira and her baby?

She wakes up from a coma, gets to know that she lost her baby and then the woman she hates the most comes up and tells her that let's co-parent this baby, I be the mom and you be the Matashree! Ha!

And now, after the baby's truth was revealed, she ones up her husband and brother-in-law, kidnaps the baby and flees! She literally kidnapped a baby and is being called the best mom and a super mom for that.

Now, isn't she risking the baby's life because she couldn't handle the truth? What if something happens to the baby? She definitely doesn't have intentions to hurt the baby but the outcomes of an action aren't solely based on the intentions.

Questionable are her ways, her sly actions and this green tea attitude where she acts to be the greatest of all times but isn't actually that great.

Not sure why dkp didn’t show the precautions of washing hands, sun screen and so on but that doesn’t change the fact that babies are taken out and yes shouldn’t be touched but I can’t remember her calling people to come and see her baby and touch him lol?

The main thing is she didn’t have help at home and took the baby with her with no intentions of harming him and certainly not getting him kidnapped. They were trying to show how it’s difficult for career oriented women once they become mothers to manage and have a work life balance.

Now coming to her taking the baby. Imagine you wake up from your surgery and are given a baby that’s yours. Would you believe it’s yours or start thinking it may be someone else’s, mine might have died? No right? Not even for a second her mind would’ve crossed the fact that the baby isn’t hers. So like a robot we’re all expecting her to give the baby to someone that she believe was hers without being mentally impacted? Grieving a baby who died and accepting that the baby you saw after opening your eyes isn’t yours is completely different. I’m sure if she was told her baby died, she would’ve grieved and eventually came out of it after some time but an alive baby who isn’t hers and she’s expected to show no reaction? Ruhi ka har abc and xyz stance is related to her childhood trauma but this girl just went through something a mother cannot even imagine for a split second is questioned? Wow!!!

Originally posted by: Noorain13

Ruhi ka 30 saal purana trauma, trauma and Abhira ka 2 din purana trauma, entitled behavior? 😂

Ruhi hating on someone else’s child considered mourning her own child, but Abhira taking the baby she still believe is hers is kidnapping? 😂

This is called “hypocrisy”

Ruhi had always been verbal about her hatred for Abhira, her mother and her baby. Though she hated Daksh when she believed he was Abhira's baby, called him names and ashubh as well, she did what she said she would.

Not like Abhira, who offered co-parenting, only to get scared about it.

Ruhi was upset, grieving and lost in her thoughts which is why she almost missed saving Daksh from that stroller incident. She hated Abhira's baby and was verbally abusive but she never wanted to risk his life or hurt him the way Abhira claimed Ruhi wanted to.

But what does Abhira does with her 1 day old trauma? She plots and kidnaps the baby and flees. Did she even think about what she is gonna do when she will not have money or a place to stay? Did she even realize that she is essentially putting the baby in danger by doing this?

We know from the BTS that Armaan comes and saves her from the goons, but what if he hadn't?

Ruhi is the villain, she will do what villains do. But what about Abhira? Is this the way a great, besht besht, super mom behaves?

Originally posted by: Noorain13

Ruhi ka 30 saal purana trauma, trauma and Abhira ka 2 din purana trauma, entitled behavior? 😂

Ruhi hating on someone else’s child considered mourning her own child, but Abhira taking the baby she still believe is hers is kidnapping? 😂

This is called “hypocrisy”

Originally posted by: itsShonali

Ruhi had always been verbal about her hatred for Abhira, her mother and her baby. Though she hated Daksh when she believed he was Abhira's baby, called him names and ashubh as well, she did what she said she would.

Not like Abhira, who offered co-parenting, only to get scared about it.

Ruhi was upset, grieving and lost in her thoughts which is why she almost missed saving Daksh from that stroller incident. She hated Abhira's baby and was verbally abusive but she never wanted to risk his life or hurt him the way Abhira claimed Ruhi wanted to.

But what does Abhira does with her 1 day old trauma? She plots and kidnaps the baby and flees. Did she even think about what she is gonna do when she will not have money or a place to stay? Did she even realize that she is essentially putting the baby in danger by doing this?

We know from the BTS that Armaan comes and saves her from the goons, but what if he hadn't?

Ruhi is the villain, she will do what villains do. But what about Abhira? Is this the way a great, besht besht, super mom behaves?

Exactly! One day trauma! That’s the key word and that’s why she didn’t think of any of that. Ruhi was grieving for a month and couldn’t differentiate between saving a baby or not but Abhira sab differentiate bhi kar le or consequences bhi soch le after a day?

Fyi, just because Ruhi is vocal about her deeds doesn’t make her any less evil than she is. Her not getting caught half the time is a different story tho.

Originally posted by: Noorain13

Not sure why dkp didn’t show the precautions of washing hands, sun screen and so on but that doesn’t change the fact that babies are taken out and yes shouldn’t be touched but I can’t remember her calling people to come and see her baby and touch him lol?

The main thing is she didn’t have help at home and took the baby with her with no intentions of harming him and certainly not getting him kidnapped. They were trying to show how it’s difficult for career oriented women once they become mothers to manage and have a work life balance.

Now coming to her taking the baby. Imagine you wake up from your surgery and are given a baby that’s yours. Would you believe it’s yours or start thinking it may be someone else’s, mine might have died? No right? Not even for a second her mind would’ve crossed the fact that the baby isn’t hers. So like a robot we’re all expecting her to give the baby to someone that she believe was hers without being mentally impacted? Grieving a baby who died and accepting that the baby you saw after opening your eyes isn’t yours is completely different. I’m sure if she was told her baby died, she would’ve grieved and eventually came out of it after some time but an alive baby who isn’t hers and she’s expected to show no reaction? Ruhi ka har abc and xyz stance is related to her childhood trauma but this girl just went through something a mother cannot even imagine for a split second is questioned? Wow!!!

Again, no one questioned her intentions, it's her negligence that is being questioned. She did not ask anybody to come up and touch the baby, but she did feed the baby in that dirty, germs ridden environment.

In real life, career oriented women take the maternity leave that is given to them for a reason. The people who worked hard for maternity leave did that for a reason. Again, she could have opted for video conferencing that is allowed at all the stages of judicial proceedings.

Now, if I went in for a premature delivery and woke up and found a healthy looking baby, I would ask questions that how come my premie isn't looking like one. Why isn't the baby being incubated because of the premature delivery and what precautions must be taken.

Knowing that I went in for a premature delivery but someone handed a healthy baby who clearly looks like a full term baby, I would definitely doubt it.

Nobody is expecting Abhira to easily give up the baby. Of-course she has the right to grieve and feel traumatized but that doesn't mean she has the right to keep the baby away from his real mother. Why couldn't she ask Ruhi again for being a co-parent or just be happy in her "sister's" happiness because that is what she had been expecting from others, haven't she?!

She could have gone home, and request Ruhi to just let her be around. Instead, she ran away! Ran away after kidnapping someone's baby. Would you have been this forgiving if it was Abhira's baby and if Ruhi had kidnapped the baby like this?

React karne ka yeh matlab nahi ki bacche ko kidnaap karo aurr bhaag jao! That's a crime.