So, Legacy Bhai won't support the FL ?? destroyed Rishta forever - Page 9

Originally posted by: Firedrakes

I just wanted to gently suggest that, it's easy to become less aware of our surroundings (if you live in India) given the fast-paced and diverse environment. Taking a moment to observe and reflect can offer a deeper understanding of the world around us and help us navigate situations with greater awareness.

I agree with that but we can’t deny a certain place being better than others especially your workplace that you visit nearly everyday. I personally would consider my workplace safer than a VIP room in a stadium. I’ve seen babies in grocery stores which are probably the worse when it comes to sanitation but when women don’t have an option, they take them there too and no one in their right mind will question their parenting.

Originally posted by: Noorain13

So what makes you think the courtroom Abhira was in wasn’t sanitized either lol? You can’t blame a country behind it sanitizing certain areas and not sanitizing others.

So now when Abhira took the baby, where was the baby? How was she able to take him from Ruhi? The real mother? The best mother? Now why are we not blaming Ruhi since she wasn’t able to protect him? Ghar se bacha le gye?

The last point has been answered and discussed.

Hein??

Looks like you havent been to a court or any courtroom.

Anyway, nobody is saying Ruhi is the best mother. But she is a mother and she should get her baby. Only after being with baby for a while, you can conclude if she is best or worst. Doesn't matter to me..

Ghar mein toh sab log the.. Abheera ka pati aur police wala Madhav bhi tha. Why blame Ruhi?? How would anyone know the so called mahaan fake besht mother would stoop so low and kidnap the baby??

Originally posted by: Noorain13

I agree with that but we can’t deny a certain place being better than others especially your workplace that you visit nearly everyday. I personally would consider my workplace safer than a VIP room in a stadium. I’ve seen babies in grocery stores which are probably the worse when it comes to sanitation but when women don’t have an option, they take them there too and no one in their right mind will question their parenting.

To each their own, I have never seen a newborn in a grocery store or over crowded places. last I had seen them is in a temple where they had a special line and permit.

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

Hein??

Looks like you havent been to a court or any courtroom.

Anyway, nobody is saying Ruhi is the best mother. But she is a mother and she should get her baby. Only after being with baby for a while, you can conclude if she is best or worst. Doesn't matter to me..

Ghar mein toh sab log the.. Abheera ka pati aur police wala Madhav bhi tha. Why blame Ruhi?? How would anyone know the so called mahaan fake besht mother would stoop so low and kidnap the baby??

Lol I’m an attorney by profession 😂 so we can leave that topic there.

But the baby was with Ruhi? Why is every X Y and Z are blamed at home? Swarna wasn’t blamed for the kidnapping lol only Abhira was and like Abhira knew Daksh was going to get kidnapped on her way to the temple? Usse dream mein bataya gya tha? 😂 but it’s okay when it comes to Ruhi, it’s completely fine because Ruhi supporters are in the same league as Poddars, kuch bhi ho jaye blame Abhira ko hi karein ge 😂

Originally posted by: Firedrakes

To each their own, I have never seen a newborn in a grocery store or over crowded places. last I had seen them is in a temple where they had a special line and permit.

Oh okay not sure where you live but I live in the US and I’ve seen newborns everywhereeeeeee lol that’s I was shocked at reading some comments schooling Abhira like whaaat that’s normal.

Originally posted by: itsShonali

People take out babies all the time, agreed. But it is extremely dangerous for the first few months. Many babies have died, actually died and many suffered brain damage because of a simple outing to a public place or just one kiss.

It is advised to not let people touch the baby's face and hands and chest. During those initial months the baby's immune system is extremely weak and anything can happen by doing things that seems so normal just an year later.

And if you want to take the newborn out, then there are steps need to be taken to keep the baby protected. Hand washing, physical distancing, never going to crowded places, sun protection, weather appropriate clothing and so much more.

If she didn't have any help from the people at home, then she could have opted for video conference proceedings citing her reasons.

And nobody said that she purposefully put the baby's life in danger and that she actually wanted to do that. No, she is being questioned because of her negligence. And that negligence is not just limited to taking the baby out in crowded public place, and then out in cold. She fed the baby in that dirty environment as well.

Just tell me, would you take your baby and go upto a lady who hates you and your mother and tell her that hey, let's co-parent this baby. Didn't Ruhi clearly, very clearly say that she wants nothing to do with Abhira and her baby?

She wakes up from a coma, gets to know that she lost her baby and then the woman she hates the most comes up and tells her that let's co-parent this baby, I be the mom and you be the Matashree! Ha!

And now, after the baby's truth was revealed, she ones up her husband and brother-in-law, kidnaps the baby and flees! She literally kidnapped a baby and is being called the best mom and a super mom for that.

Now, isn't she risking the baby's life because she couldn't handle the truth? What if something happens to the baby? She definitely doesn't have intentions to hurt the baby but the outcomes of an action aren't solely based on the intentions.

Questionable are her ways, her sly actions and this green tea attitude where she acts to be the greatest of all times but isn't actually that great.

If c section then even women are advised 90 days minimum rest ..so that uterus shrinks and heals ..if u don't rest , eat properly it can cause ostheo arthritis ( bones become brittle) as one crosses 40. My mother has the issue , plus if u don't eat hygienic it can cause infection, any infection to the mother can be passed to child . That's y the 100 day time period is practised in most hindu communities

Child neck body is very fragile they need lot of care esp till 100 days they advise not to take out

I don't know which doc some went 🧐

Ps i live in the south of India both my buas are gynecologist one with 35 years and another with 25 years experience

Originally posted by: Noorain13

Lol I’m an attorney by profession 😂 so we can leave that topic there.

But the baby was with Ruhi? Why is every X Y and Z are blamed at home? Swarna wasn’t blamed for the kidnapping lol only Abhira was and like Abhira knew Daksh was going to get kidnapped on her way to the temple? Usse dream mein bataya gya tha? 😂 but it’s okay when it comes to Ruhi, it’s completely fine because Ruhi supporters are in the same league as Poddars, kuch bhi ho jaye blame Abhira ko hi karein ge 😂

Attorney in US??

We are discussing about the situation in India. Guessing you have visited courtrooms in India as well.

And no offense ro you or your prefession, but even after knowing law supporting crimes like BC fraud, kidnapping, bachha swapping.. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

I rest my case.

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

Attorney in US??

We are discussing about the situation in India. Guessing you have visited courtrooms in India as well.

And no offense ro you or your prefession, but even after knowing law supporting crimes like BC fraud, kidnapping, bachha swapping.. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

I rest my case.

You can't argue with an Attorney from US about Indian case , how is Indian court , US Attorney 🤔 must personally visit ..

Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

You can't argue with an Attorney from US about Indian case , how is Indian court , US Attorney 🤔 must personally visit ..

Exactly.

I was about to apologize, but then how can you compare workplaces in 2 different countries!!!

And yes, mothers do take their babies out only when they have no other option, or are single mothers.

But Abheera has a big extended family, if not her in-laws she could've dropped baby at Goenka's. They would've taken care of the baby!!!

Isnt this simple logic, we don't even need to have the knowledge of law for this.. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

Exactly.

I was about to apologize, but then how can you compare workplaces in 2 different countries!!!

And yes, mothers do take their babies out only when they have no other option, or are single mothers.

But Abheera has a big extended family, if not her in-laws she could've dropped baby at Goenka's. They would've taken care of the baby!!!

Isnt this simple logic, we don't even need to have the knowledge of law for this.. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Arre baba ..She wanted to show the world that she bring justice to a Mom whose baby was taken away ..But when herctime to return baby to ruhi came ran away