Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 19 Nov 2024 Written Update and EDT - Page 25

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

You guys can try to cover it up now as much as you want. But the insensitivity in that post os crystal

This is also not the first time she has made such remarks against Abhira and fear of losing her baby

I guess all sorts of sensitivity is only applicable to Ruhi. ABhira is supposed to just shrug off her pain or otherwise its "NATAUNKI"

Originally posted by: Ambajee

I mean, poddar brothers sat there and watched Ruhi deal with her grief of losing a baby while Abhira gets the princess treatment of being handed someone’s child for a replacement program. Abhira couldn’t be trusted to emotionally deal with loss when she was instructed this could have serious complications. But Ruhi had no preparedness for such a situation but usko iss situation mein daalna is worse than Abhira having to be in it. Neither of them should go through this, no one should, but it’s abt mentally preparing yourself for an eventuality..! Ruhi did not prepare for it while Abhira did.

But even if Abhira takes time to come out of this, there is nothing wrong in it..Bcz we know eventually she will as its an ITV show..See I am saying it again mentally preparing for something doesnt mean u have no right to mourn for your loss or u have to mourn less than the other person. And Abhira was soo soo optimistic abt everything, ofcourse her baby's loss would be tragic for her.

Originally posted by: Ambajee

Sorry but I think you are trying to equate a real person talking abt fictional situation to the said person’s personality and those who are pointing out your mistaken understanding. Thats not done. Don’t wish to continue the conversation. Bye.

Now you are just putting words in my mouth. I did not equate anything with somebody s real life personality

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

I am not twisting anybody's statement

You should re-read the post. It was extremely insensitive

No mother in this world would be ok with imagining a world without her baby. To say that Abhira just voicing her fear makes her culprit in this situation is insensitive

Also, just because Abhira showed humanity by giving up her injection does not mean that she should be ok with her baby's death. That again is insensitive

I wish you giys would spare even half though to ABhira s pain

I read it and also took a neutral opinion from AI to cross check, but you are adamant on that then they can only explain it to you

I'll share my views, I am not a mother but nothing would prepare someone for the loss of a child, she was caring for it for months, taking smallest of care however I feel a woman should think about her life and body, but if someone wants to have a child, I don't think anything can prepare them for the loss.

It stays with you for years, my aunt lost her first child, only girl child, they named her even though it was a still born and they talk about her, 30 years have passed to the incident

People should be allowed to grieve the way they want to, I don't judge them for it.

Originally posted by: ambika02

As a mother I can say that a real mother would never see any other baby in pain. Let alone grieving, having lost her own baby. I’d do everything in my capacity to give anything to save that tiny life if I can! Heck we have real stories of bishnoi women feeding babies of deer who need feeding. So yes, Ruhi is a heartless and selfish woman who is able to sit while a defenseless child is dying of hunger. No sympathy for such a person

This same situation has happened once in this show. Keerti, who had earlier suffered miscarriage and then believed her second baby died too showed no animosity towards KaIra's child. In fact, she loved him dearly and was happy to be around him. Ruhi Birla is a kalank in the name of human being, forget a mother. She's just a petty jealous trash who cannot see anyone happy, even if it is a tiny little baby.

Originally posted by: OliviaP

What happening with Ruhi is completely wrong.. No doubts in that.

But even if Abhira takes time to come out of this, there is nothing wrong in it..Bcz we know eventually she will as its an ITV show..See I am saying it again mentally preparing for something doesnt mean u have no right to mourn for your loss or u have to mourn less than the other person. And Abhira was soo soo optimistic abt everything, ofcourse her baby's loss would be tragic for her.

Originally posted by: WhimsicalMind

But Abhira doesn't even know the truth, how is she a part of discussion right now?

The only discussion currently is about what Armaan thinks with respect to her, not her actual action or reaction

Originally posted by: WhimsicalMind

I'll share my views, I am not a mother but nothing would prepare someone for the loss of a child, she was caring for it for months, taking smallest of care however I feel a woman should think about her life and body, but if someone wants to have a child, I don't think anything can prepare them for the loss.

It stays with you for years, my aunt lost her first child, only girl child, they named her even though it was a still born and they talk about her, 30 years have passed to the incident

People should be allowed to grieve the way they want to, I don't judge them for it.

Thank you. See its not that hard to be empathetic to both Abhira and Ruhi now is it?

Rather than calling one of them reason for the mess

Originally posted by: Drna7

But we don't know how Ab would have reacted. She may cry, have a panic attack, feel numb, would take months to heal or not.

When nobody told her then how can we know she'll accept it or not?

Now when truth will come out it will be more painful then before as she bonded with kid and was relieved.

That's why I blame those who think 'they know everything' and took decision which they believed is perfect without thinking about any consequences. And how at the end Ab herself will be affected most.

Yes we don't know how she would react and this isn't even part of the discussion but it's a part of the problem from armans perspective ..its bec of that he's quiet ..

I wanna get into rohits head n know what prompted him to do this 🤣