Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 19 Nov 2024 Written Update and EDT - Page 24

Originally posted by: Fortnight

mujhe ek baat batao Abhira is being mahaan for wanting to share the baby with Ruhi (which she is and it's annoying) but Ruhi was/is absolutely realistic in hating an unborn (now newborn) baby.

Abhira is a bad mother for not being able to sense that her baby is no more but Ruhi bechari not being able to recognise her baby is because she's grieving.

Hypocrisy woh kya hota hai

Adding to it, Abhira has no right to fear losing her baby or grieve about it

That is only reserved for Ruhi

Originally posted by: OliviaP

Again WDYM by that?? Yes in high risk procedures, doctors do explain everything in detail with the patients and relatives.. They shd be mentally prepared for anything.. But when an unfavorable situation happens, everything can fall upside down.. Bcz for every person as we say grief dealing mechanism is diff.

Ruhi should take her baby and go to US where other rishta characters are chilling and living their best life

Originally posted by: OliviaP

Ofcouse You give them time.. In real life people may take weeks, months or even years to come out of this trauma.. And its completely ok. Just bcz a person knew that she/he is fighting with something extremely risky, u cant expect them to be normal so soon..

You have to understand It depends on the character. Ruhi deserves all sorts of sensitivity

But dare Abhira even voice her fear of loosing her baby, that is not allowed. That will make her sole reason for all the mess

Originally posted by: Fortnight

Oh my god me too. that guy didn't deserve a wife like Ruhi who was eyeing her Jeth all along. Pretended to be in love with her husband to be close to her jeth and break off his wedding. Then went ahead to blackmail jethji and marry him when she was still married to her husband.

Rohit ke bhi fans hai. My god.

• Rohit who gave away his baby and now care so much about bhabhiiiiiij that his wife calling out for this.
• Rohit who forgave his cheater wife and cheater brother.
• Rohit who's andhbhakt of Arman who was involved with his wife and lied to him.
• Abhira on whom he was angry cause she forgave Arman too easily for two timing.
• Rohit who's pretending his kid is dead cause bhai bhabhi love oops I mean bhabhi love >>>
• Rohit who's happy with his cheater wife and blamed her for her vulnerable condition in hospital
• Rohit who ignored his wife becoming paranoid
• Rohit who's forcing his cheater brother who was involved with his wife to keep the baby and keep it quiet
• Rohit who cares more about bhabhi sun legi than his wife mourning for a kid she thinks it's dead
• Rohit the nalla nikamma doormat of Arman who, once again was involved with his wife once upon a time.

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

You very clearly tried to downplay Abhira s grief and look your are still doing it

No matter how much a mother prepares for bad consequences still to imagine your child's death is devastating. No mother would do that

I guess all the sensitivity in the world should only be reserved for Ruhi and Abhira is just supposed to shrug off her grief

Arre Agni, Abhira should have already prepared for a dead baby & rejoiced agar kismat ne zinda wala diya. Isiliye to Armaan bhi bachch chor hai, coz he equates collecting babies like roses to keep his wife satisfied. Forget that it was Rohit who gave that kid to Abhira when Armaan was going to tell her the truth. Forget that he denied it till Rohit gave him Abhira ka vasta. Forget that Rohit wanted to tell Ruhi the truth but Rohit stopped him. Forget that Armaan is scared he may lose his wife & a child together when the truth comes out (jo galat hai and he will suffer 2x times when this truth comes out like he did during Rumaal revelation). Forget that Abhira is also sensing that things are not right but isn't able to put a finger on it. Forget that today even Rohit wanted to tell Ruhi the truth, but seeing the utter hatred she was showing for baby that wasn't hers really made him reconsider his decision(which was still wrong BTW). We need to forget all that.

Sirf Ruhi ka dukh sahi hai. Only she needs to be lauded and wrapped in bubble wrap - baaki toh yahaan sirf nautanki kar rahe hai

Originally posted by: Fortnight

Oh my god me too. that guy didn't deserve a wife like Ruhi who was eyeing her Jeth all along. Pretended to be in love with her husband to be close to her jeth and break off his wedding. Then went ahead to blackmail jethji and marry him when she was still married to her husband.

They should protest to get an AA for there pyari si ruhi 🤣

Originally posted by: OliviaP

Ofcouse You give them time.. In real life people may take weeks, months or even years to come out of this trauma.. And its completely ok. Just bcz a person knew that she/he is fighting with something extremely risky, u cant expect them to be normal so soon..

But Abhira doesn't even know the truth, how is she a part of discussion right now?

The only discussion currently is about what Armaan thinks with respect to her, not her actual action or reaction

Originally posted by: WhimsicalMind

That was a way to get a neutral perspective, but I get you are trying very hard to show that people are insensitive and it isn't working so twisting statements. Try saying ChatGPT was developed by Gen 3 fans and others will actually agree with you

I am not twisting anybody's statement

You should re-read the post. It was extremely insensitive

No mother in this world would be ok with imagining a world without her baby. To say that Abhira just voicing her fear makes her culprit in this situation is insensitive

Also, just because Abhira showed humanity by giving up her injection does not mean that she should be ok with her baby's death. That again is insensitive

I wish you giys would spare even half though to ABhira s pain

Originally posted by: Krinya

So how to deal with it?

But we don't know how Ab would have reacted. She may cry, have a panic attack, feel numb, would take months to heal or not.

When nobody told her then how can we know she'll accept it or not?

Now when truth will come out it will be more painful then before as she bonded with kid and was relieved.

That's why I blame those who think 'they know everything' and took decision which they believed is perfect without thinking about any consequences. And how at the end Ab herself will be affected most.