KMTMG Discussions Thread #10 - Page 58

Defnitely agree with most points in quoted post... I want to add from my POV. I think from their body language & actions you can see their feelings for each other. Disappointment above all you mentioned is V A has all these villians. What are they fighting for ?... this is point I keep bringing up. They need to give relationship a name for reason to keep going against all these villians.

In addition to the above. Their confession as you describe. There is no point in fighting villians for their relationship or confession without a solution to 2 problems we always discuss. 1) How do they intend to resolve Babita problem after confession& for their future? 2) Number 1 cant be acheived without trust. Instead of confession. We need to see trust. With another split as we predict. It means no trust is building after a year. Babita will remain a problem. We will get ZERO... I mean 0 character development without trust. This approach cant be sustainable for our patience & the show future.

Originally posted by: Riggy

Confession does not mean those "3 magic words" 🤦‍♀️

Confession need not be a grand gesture as well.

They are a mature couple. They could show them emotionally opening up to each other, when both are sober, awake, and in their senses. Especially with their history, it is essential. It cannot be assumed or a subtle hint cannot be considered as enough 😠

Originally posted by: sugz

I dont know why but I cant get those 2 episodes out my mind. The one where Babita said she will not accept Amu as DIL & the episode after where they returned to table for drama over puran poli. We are dissatisfied and I wont change my view some of virats lack of action is terrible. 1) no response to Babita except mom on that DIL comment. 2) virat speaks to Babita as if exposure didnt happen twice. 3) he has a befitting response for vandy but cant shut babita up.

Here are some positives We ... I mean I missed. 1)Babita after DIL commment picking up dishes went to room & cry. It was good virat didnt follow her. 2) it appears virat doesn't fall for Babita tears like before but he still will. Instead we see Bhavani crying. Virat looked at Bhavani crying with same look he used to when babita cried before exposure. IDK if creators did this on purpose or how long virat can be like this. These are some positives.

I mean contrast the above when Amu was embarrassed at that party with Sheky at dinner. Virat said it smells like Amu food. Babita ran away from table so virat ran after bringing her back. It didnt happen in the above mentioned episode.

There are positive elements in the show for sure. I hadn't connected the ones you mentioned. A couple of things that happened in the latest ep was Babs, Vandy and the rest did team up against Ishika, Jayesh, and rest, and the other one was Nimmi being asked to see her own reflection by Ammu. Am sure there are many more that have happened in the past too - as Hemangi many a times in her bytes would describe. Oh... another one was Bhavani deciding to agree with Ammu - fb of Ammu saying "you are my strength I dont worry about anything when you are with me".

The problem however is the weird things. Virat may be terrible, like you mentioned for not talking / being soft with Babs... but he is disgusting for responding to Vandy. I have seen parents bending over backwards to the son in law, and I've cringed whenever I've seen it, but would they take it if the son in law (esp a new one) were to make them keep quiet? Perhaps they will... idk... and I am sure if they are aware enough when this happens, they will at least think 'oops... I've made a mistake getting my daughter married to this idiot'.

They also drop in dialogues like 'mein to zor zabardasti wala hu... pata hai na?' ... and Ammu's 'aapki koi galti nahi hai' / 'Aapke vajah se Virat Sir ne ye kiya tha' like really... the writers want me to think that is how it is???

Idk when are they going to change these things!!! Riggy and Sam rightly pointed out, there has to be confession... but the way things have been i dont want it to ever happen. I dont want her to feel that pain during separation (if they ever go there...) but then... being delusional as she is, she asked for it too. I don't get how Amruta - MBA, born and brought up in Mumbai, a supposedly independent and outspoken lady, who doesn't mind calling a spade a spade - can put up with the guy who forcefully married her. I get it that she doesn't want confrontations with Babs. fine... should be none of her business too (until it crosses a limit)... but Virat... how?

The show is on ventilator ever since the mela and following eps. Guess its up to the channel when they want to pull the plug - how long they want Sriti in their channel... with Shabir gone, DD and quite likely Shraddha leaving soon, she will be the only one that remains. If they've decided to do away with all and invest in lesser known actors and banking on remake of better stories, at least by a 5 min watch of the new prime time show, it doesn't look like going in the right direction too. [I'll be surprised if that show does well... wont mind being proven wrong.]

[tagging you cause I had read a related post I think from you, but a bit too lazy to look for it right now. ]

Just some quick thoughts... hope you get some rest too.

I dont have any response for that terrible dialogue you mentioned in 2n last para. In response you dont understand why Amu stayed or didn't challenge force marriage or get virat arrested. Its a scarey twisted answer I have. We see in babita determination to get rid of Amu. She has lost everything. Similarly Amu detemination to prove herself innocent & not challenging virat force marriage. Amu has destroyed her career & life& reputation in her effort to expose Babita. Amu has lost everything... or will lose everything when virat turns on her again

Originally posted by: Adiandsid

There are positive elements in the show for sure. I hadn't connected the ones you mentioned. A couple of things that happened in the latest ep was Babs, Vandy and the rest did team up against Ishika, Jayesh, and rest, and the other one was Nimmi being asked to see her own reflection by Ammu. Am sure there are many more that have happened in the past too - as Hemangi many a times in her bytes would describe. Oh... another one was Bhavani deciding to agree with Ammu - fb of Ammu saying "you are my strength I dont worry about anything when you are with me".

The problem however is the weird things. Virat may be terrible, like you mentioned for not talking / being soft with Babs... but he is disgusting for responding to Vandy. I have seen parents bending over backwards to the son in law, and I've cringed whenever I've seen it, but would they take it if the son in law (esp a new one) were to make them keep quiet? Perhaps they will... idk... and I am sure if they are aware enough when this happens, they will at least think 'oops... I've made a mistake getting my daughter married to this idiot'.

They also drop in dialogues like 'mein to zor zabardasti wala hu... pata hai na?' ... and Ammu's 'aapki koi galti nahi hai' / 'Aapke vajah se Virat Sir ne ye kiya tha' like really... the writers want me to think that is how it is???

Idk when are they going to change these things!!! Riggy and Sam rightly pointed out, there has to be confession... but the way things have been i dont want it to ever happen. I dont want her to feel that pain during separation (if they ever go there...) but then... being delusional as she is, she asked for it too. I don't get how Amruta - MBA, born and brought up in Mumbai, a supposedly independent and outspoken lady, who doesn't mind calling a spade a spade - can put up with the guy who forcefully married her. I get it that she doesn't want confrontations with Babs. fine... should be none of her business too (until it crosses a limit)... but Virat... how?

I saw that promo of new show. Ztv has gone in same direction to make fun of marriage again. It doesn't appear like healthy reason to get married. Who knows how or when Rajv... idk his name but Paras character & his love interest in Kundali will get married in ugly way.

The new show FL appears to have same morals Sriti plays in roles. No offence but Sritis performance cant be matched to this FL. Pls someone tell that ML with long messy hair. Bollywood from the 80s male hair style is not something to bring back. I mean maybe a rockstar can get away with it. Not a young businessman. It looks creppy desperate to be trending.

Originally posted by: Adiandsid

The show is on ventilator ever since the mela and following eps. Guess its up to the channel when they want to pull the plug - how long they want Sriti in their channel... with Shabir gone, DD and quite likely Shraddha leaving soon, she will be the only one that remains. If they've decided to do away with all and invest in lesser known actors and banking on remake of better stories, at least by a 5 min watch of the new prime time show, it doesn't look like going in the right direction too. [I'll be surprised if that show does well... wont mind being proven wrong.]

[tagging you cause I had read a related post I think from you, but a bit too lazy to look for it right now. ]

Will reply tomorrow. Just had a thought: all it will take for things to crumble and fall down is one genuine mistake from Amruta. [She'll be lucky if it is a genuine mistake - need not take that too... mu is enough.]

Sure we can respond later... I think I already see where you going. There is fragility to everyone in Amu life requiring her to be perfect 200% of the time. The fragility is worse when it comes to relationship with Virat as many villians & characters want them apart. so be it. Amu doesn't lose all her worth by making 1 mistake compared to inequality how many mistakes a ML has. However everyone cheers ML heart throb on in bad too.

Originally posted by: Adiandsid

Will reply tomorrow. Just had a thought: all it will take for things to crumble and fall down is one genuine mistake from Amruta. [She'll be lucky if it is a genuine mistake - need not take that too... mu is enough.]

Originally posted by: Adiandsid

The show is on ventilator ever since the mela and following eps. Guess its up to the channel when they want to pull the plug - how long they want Sriti in their channel... with Shabir gone, DD and quite likely Shraddha leaving soon, she will be the only one that remains. If they've decided to do away with all and invest in lesser known actors and banking on remake of better stories, at least by a 5 min watch of the new prime time show, it doesn't look like going in the right direction too. [I'll be surprised if that show does well... wont mind being proven wrong.]

[tagging you cause I had read a related post I think from you, but a bit too lazy to look for it right now. ]

You are typing this at 3.30 am ?

Yes, agreed with you. Everything depends on the new shows doing well. But cant help point out that when RM was shut for the same ratings, why not our show? Just coz channel has only one bankable star now, and want to focus on the plots/story than the actors?

Plus it is not even as if Sriti's talent is carrying the show currently. You yourself said in the past posts that the current track doesn't require an actress of her caliber. So it doesn't make sense that the show is carrying on as if there is no trouble.

Edit- I think you meant my post in the SM thread. I normally dont mention the actors' real lives in the analysis thread.

Originally posted by: flutterby

You are typing this at 3.30 am ?

Yes, agreed with you. Everything depends on the new shows doing well. But cant help point out that when RM was shut for the same ratings, why not our show? Just coz channel has only one bankable star now, and want to focus on the plots/story than the actors?

Plus it is not even as if Sriti's talent is carrying the show currently. You yourself said in the past posts that the current track doesn't require an actress of her caliber. So it doesn't make sense that the show is carrying on as if there is no trouble.

Edit- I think you meant my post in the SM thread. I normally dont mention the actors' real lives in the analysis thread.

RM I think carried on with similiar ratings for quite some time until it was taken off air. Nope. Not her talent. That 'popular face' value.

btw.. KTG Bank... if we remove the two M's from show name, it becomes 'Kaise Tum Gaye Bank'.

If it is Shubh who is the owner of/some big guy in the Bank, relevant for the past and likely for the future too [though I'd prefer she be alone if a separation is to happen - Amruta will do better with no men (esp vile ones) around her. It is also time they show her actually 'independent' too - rather than in namesake. ]