Originally posted by: Ohgod!
To be honest, I didn't mind any of what she said to Armaan today! But I do have issues with the when of it all.. I think that the right time to say these things would have been before forgiving him for everything else other than the Ruhi truth! Because all of these things happened before and she was still willing to get back with him! It would have made sense for her to tell him to back off because of all of the above reasons that her papa also so happily assisted with written notes n all!
But everything since that day when she blamed him for leading on two women and sympathizing for Ruhi, she has been in the wrong more and hence being called out by people who watch the show for every character and not just one. After vehemently breaking a coconut and promising to never see Armaan's face again, she should have told her newfound papa that he was the one who gave her courage to keep Armaan away and now to live upto her end, she needs to step away! She should have left and gone to anywhere else and made Armaan come after her! Worse, she went into the very household that has been after her life like she so clearly mentioned today! Whatever maybe the reason - and we all know there is just one reason - she should have stayed away and fought her battles and then if she had repeated all of these dialogues to Armaan it would have made absolute sense to me! But right now she's coming across as the same punching bag we (me included) accused Armaan of once!
Abhira is confused, hassled and upset but she needs to pause and giver herself a break and ask herself why she is hovering around here to take all the crap being thrown her way when she has the whole world at her disposal outside of Udaipur? That is the introspection she needs. If she really wishes Armaan hadn't come to her rescue that, then she still has the choice to just step away! In a second! So ask yourself what you want and do what's good for your sanity!
We all know it's how the story is being written and it's the story demanding Abhira to be stuck around Armaan. Well, when it was Armaan in the wrong, it was still the story written that way and we still bashed him, so now when Abhira is being written inconsistently, her turn to be called out for just not doing right by herself first and in the process, doing wrong by Armaan who in the name of redemption is having to hear the girl whose mother died saving him say that it was his fault and he cannot even give himself the right to feel bad about it!
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