Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika
I have maintained, pyaar kabhi bhi kisiko bhi ho sakta.
It is not love that is the problem, it is being blinded in love, that is the problem.
I would like to believe he tried to keep the relationship afloat and even tried talking through to Anupama multiple times. The last straw was the post accident sequence. ALL he ever feared was that if he questioned Anupama, did something that she perhaps did not like, she would leave him, which she ultimately did.
There is only one aim in Anuj's life to have Anupama in his life. In the process, he was willing, on his part to give up on EVERYTHING he had his family, included.
Anupama, on her part, perhaps never loved Anuj. He was, perhaps, her safety net. Who she could reliably fall back on, unquestioned. She never for once stood up for her husband, Anuj's or his family's honour. She even forgave Vanraj for an attempt to murder Anuj. She never prioritised him, his family but by virtue of being the lady of the house and business, made her presence felt in their lives. She methodically distanced him from his relations to the extent that she was ALL he had in the name of family. ALL was well till his questions about her priorities mounted. With no answers up her sleeve, she ABANDOBED THEM BOTH and left never to look back.
After 5 years, when they met by accident, it was perhaps imperative that, unless, Anuj has got over the obsession, je would fall for Anupama harder than before.
Now I wonder if this is a lover story or a psychological thriller.
anuj has blind love for anupama in life
usually even craziest of lover in real world shall realize toxic partner after marraige and staying together for sometime
that is why lovers in india who go against family caste etc and marry sometimes break up after few years
until and unless you do not live with a man or woman 24/7 you cannot know his real character
as a girl friend BF you meet few hours a day or talk on pmobile and project your best behaviour to other person
But once you marry and stay together 24/7 you cannot act 24/7 and your true self comes out
It is foolish of any human to believe that the public persona of a human is same as private persona
Like anupama showed, shes something else in front of shahs something else for kapadiyas something else for yashdeep etc
what anuj expected was anupama to treat him like vanraj shah(love and care for hubby) and to treat his kapadiya family like how anupama treats all shahs
But anupama showed him she cannot treat him like she treated vanraj with respect and love and she cannot accept kapadiyas malvika, gk kaka, ankush, sara, adhik, adhya, CA like she treats baa, bapuji, samar, pakhi, toshu, dolly ben
This is true of real life too, humans are very good to own family own parents, own siblings own neice nephews but not so good to in laws(spouse parents), hubby siblings or hubby(or wife) niece and nephews
anuj refused to accept this truth about anupam and thinks shes greatest
anupama actually ill treats kapaiyas and does not love CA like she did pakhi or toshu or even samar
anuj can get any decent huma even at 55 to marry who will treat him and ca with love and respect kapadiyas but he wants toxic two faced anupama only with her criminal shah family

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