Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 26th Jun 2024 Written Update and EDT - Page 18

Originally posted by: Rainbow_Girl

That forgiveness dialogue of madhav today to armaan, felt like he was talking to his mirror self. Before ruhi armaan past, madhav was against abhira armaan reunion, cos he thought armaan never put effort in their marriage & trust and respect was not there (all of which are true).

Vidya ka scenario, madhav has mentioned once that Vidya does care for armaan but always make him feel indebted for all her mamta. Ab ismein kaun kitna sahi, pata nahi.

I don't find any logical explanation for his behavior with armaan, with abhira it's definitely him trying to reduce his guilt for whatever happened with shivani. Guess we will have to wait for revelation of his past. Also, I think this time only madhav's pov about the past will be revealed to us. The blackmailer & the whole secret will be used sometime later for yet another separation

for abhira, IMO he is also trying to reduce his guilt of what abhira has suffered because of his family...armaan dadi vidya..inn sab ke karan what abhira has suffered he has seen....he mentioned ki if ur mom knew what treatment u will get from arman's family she would not give ur responsibilty to armaan...doctors told him what kind of a father is he that abhira is in so much stress...he is trying to work on that by prorecting abhira..

For armaan....kaun kahta hai he does not care for armaan...he was the first to tell armaan u r happy when u r with abhira...this is what artmaan told ruhi too whne she asked how much do u love abhira...madhav had moticed it and told armaan abt it..

Madhav, during armaan's engagement withr uhi, took him out to try his last chance and tell him what he was doing is not correct....but armaan was under the influence of dadu and vidya..and so armaan told his dad off that u r the black sheep of the family and i dont want to b one...😂

madhav had tried to talk to vidya against ruhi armaan ki shaadi...but to no heed....he went away..and no one i the family was bothered...baap hai ya nahi..shaadi fr bhi dhoom dhalle se ho rahi thi....

to IMO, he knows how vile and manipulative his mom is and how much under the influence of dadi and vidya armaan is....madhav does not know that armaan knows about dadi and abhira deal and has questioned dadi on it....if i m correct, madhav does not know ki madhav knows that armaan has been rude with dadi on exposing his relation with ruhi to abhira....

so madhav ki back story kya hai..how much was his effort to b with kids...how much of manipulations have been done..yeh sab pata nah...to cany comment much on that...

But abhira ke aane ke baad se...IMO madhav has been vocal about armaan ke liya kya ccha hai..and has told him.....Its not that he does not care for him.....

also, for abira. he does not force her into doing things....she wanted to light than lamp and run to armaan...she did..even when madhav did not want her to do so...madhav is there to guide her, question her and make her think...which any guardian should do...

armaan used to just not listen to madhav...and abhira listens thinks and questions...but she does what she thinks is correct.....

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

andar ki blood aur genes ko badal nahi sakte. Ar is always a guilty man it's hus trait it won't change🤣🤣 like i used to tell you I want to see dadaji who beared this tough nut dadi, I want to see younger madhav who did dinchak and played ghar ghar kabhi shivani kabhi masa. Staying there he cried for Phamillly staying with family shivani o shivani mein hoon teri nani mein hoon tera jawani 🤣🤣 . Good that ar ki batti jhali last minute mein nahi toh ar could have danced same idhar chaloo ya udhar chaloo jaane kaha road mein baithoo, ruhi o ruhi mein tumhari jindagi barbad kardi ayyo meine e kya kar di. 🤣 atleast all three are thrown aside.

Until past revelation I will pity with Shivani as maut se pehle bhi koi sukh chain nahi maut ke baad bhi shanti nahi de rah hai ...(Don't know she is alive or not)...

Originally posted by: Visszz

Until past revelation I will pity with Shivani as maut se pehle bhi koi sukh chain nahi maut ke baad bhi shanti nahi de rah hai ...(Don't know she is alive or not)...

Originally posted by: Sajini235

Your absolutely correct that we can't make any assumptions on how his relationship with vidya and armaan turned out like this without knowing the backstory. We have to wait for that. But atleast I am happy that abhira has someone to confide in as an emotional support. People who are now blaming madhav is the same audience who asked why is he not taking care of abhira by himself since he is a police officer has seperate income from poddar firm instead of keeping conditions to get her home. I am not justifying his actions of leaving home completely but I am having a hard time understanding what audience really wants 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️.

Yes , where was he when abhira needed help the most ? He didn't even care to check on her 😕

And now , what exactly is he trying to do ? She rejected Arman, fair enuf ..then why is she taking help from his father & she's OK if he leaves his family n be with her ? How odd is this ? Ye kaisa move on hai when she's staying with her ex sasur , using his money ? She doesn't want to see Arman right? Won't he come to meet his father ? Madhav doesn't want their reconciliation , madhav is opposed to abhiman discussing anything so why is he sticking to his ex bahu ? Kar kya raha hai aur karna kya chahta hai?

Originally posted by: Sajini235

Your absolutely correct that we can't make any assumptions on how his relationship with vidya and armaan turned out like this without knowing the backstory. We have to wait for that. But atleast I am happy that abhira has someone to confide in as an emotional support. People who are now blaming madhav is the same audience who asked why is he not taking care of abhira by himself since he is a police officer has seperate income from poddar firm instead of keeping conditions to get her home. I am not justifying his actions of leaving home completely but I am having a hard time understanding what audience really wants 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️.

exactly....he heard the doctor regarding abhira's condition.....before abhhira fainted, he was about to tell about divorce not legalised..but hearing to the doctor, he just did not..abhira was in a mess...and madhav armaan and his family was the reason...

madhav IMO is trying to protect abhira now...he mentioend ki abhira ki mamma would not have given the reposnibility to armaan had she knows what sort of a family they r...madhav in a way is fulfilling armaan yani apne bete ki zimmedaari...

and abhira ka madhav ke saath rahna...she did not contact him...madhav contacted her.....madhav wants her to stay.....and when the family was busy celebrating without madhav for armaan ki shaadi.....and no one bothered ki kahan hai...to y should madhav b so concerned about them....

vidya ne to yej tak nahi poocha ki where was he??? what was the point of her knowing that madhav is missing......and apna MS aise hi nikal kar de diya.....koi khel hai...aaj pahna aaj nahi....

i dont find madhav wrong ab tak...jo bhi dikhaya gaya hai....

how can I say that madhav did not care for armaan..did he not plead him to not get engaged to ruhi...but armaan was rude to him....and went ahaed....

madhav has seen abhira suffer....uski khud ki back stroy se kuch hua hoga aur bhi ki he is so protective...but he is not locking abhira up...abhira is free and does what she wnats......to problem kya hai??

ruhi ke paas uska pura parivaar hai..armnaan ke paas uska hai...dadi and viya ka to chela tha hi...but now too cousins hain uske saath..

abhira was all alone..I m so happy madhav is there...it felt so nice when madhav just hugged her without any questions and blames...ki I said so...kyu gayee.... types.....when she came broken after knowing armaan and ruhi ka sach..

Originally posted by: Sajini235

Your absolutely correct that we can't make any assumptions on how his relationship with vidya and armaan turned out like this without knowing the backstory. We have to wait for that. But atleast I am happy that abhira has someone to confide in as an emotional support. People who are now blaming madhav is the same audience who asked why is he not taking care of abhira by himself since he is a police officer has seperate income from poddar firm instead of keeping conditions to get her home. I am not justifying his actions of leaving home completely but I am having a hard time understanding what audience really wants 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️.

Originally posted by: Pinecone

Ruhi loved or cared for Armaan is the biggest joke! she has repeatedly guilt tripped him, used him, blamed him, forced him and then unilaterally put all blame on him in front of MG, Kaveri and Abhira etc. She was immoral enough to write ILU notes and corner him multiple times despite seeing he was uncomfortable. she had no regard for her own marital status or his. her acting as if she is some bechaari is biggest joke. every Goenka told her not to marry Armaan but she didnt pay heed. heck Armaan himself told her he was doing it in pressure.

She KNEW Abhira loved him but sabotaged proposal. She realized Armaan was falling for Abhira so she tried to create MUs between them

Abhira would never do such crap. even now she has the grace to not s&% shame her for her immorality and walks away to talk to Armaan because he is the one who owes her answers. and in confronting him also she has not done any character assassination.

Since when is having trust issues for VALID reasons equivalent to Abhira calling someone a "playboy" or "loose character" or "two timer"

She is questioning his indecisiveness and how he led Ruhi along instead of cutting her off if she was his ex and how he hid the truth from her for so many months even though they had grown much closer than just "deal couple".She asks him how she can trust that he wont fall out of love with her like he did with Ruhi. she has never accused him of sleeping around or having causal flings etc.

She is hurt by his lies, and how he let his past impact their marriage. Thats why she doesnt trust him. thats perfectly normal.

Today's Ar-Ru phonecall served a great purpose.. Unknowingly hi sahi Ar told Ru Birla, na dost My true love is Ab only... Now Ru madam pls apne samudar se bhi gehra pyaar ka zikr chodh do.... U couldnt trust Ar.. U agreed to marry Rohit first and then u preaching abt ur love🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Krinya

Yes , where was he when abhira needed help the most ? He didn't even care to check on her 😕

And now , what exactly is he trying to do ? She rejected Arman, fair enuf ..then why is she taking help from his father & she's OK if he leaves his family n be with her ? How odd is this ? Ye kaisa move on hai when she's staying with her ex sasur , using his money ? She doesn't want to see Arman right? Won't he come to meet his father ? Madhav doesn't want their reconciliation , madhav is opposed to abhiman discussing anything so why is he sticking to his ex bahu ? Kar kya raha hai aur karna kya chahta hai?

Madhav was never a father to Armaan same way KP was never a mother to Madhav. She literally destroyed his life and accepted his legitimate child to guilt trip child Armaan forever so he was always grateful to them for accepting him (which was his basic right), but Madhav couldn't do anything for a minor child. He let Dadisa/Vidya make Armaan believe that he has no right or he doesn't belong there. Armaan needed validation throughout his life because of absence of father's role in his life. Madhav and KP like people give more importance to other's children then their own. KP prioritises Vidya over Madhav, Ruhi over Rohit/Armaan. Same way Madhav is also prioritizing Abhira over his son Armaan atleast he knows they are still married. So she isn't ex-bahu yet. Even if she is his ex-DIL Madhav has a delusional theory that he is saving Abhira's life by not letting her communicate with Armaan. His mahan father figure atma needs to take a break.

@bold Madhav also wanted a break from PH, Vidya and KP that's why he is living away from them becoming a father figure to Abhira. Though it sounds absurd all his concern for Abhira is also because of his past mistake or actions. Maybe Armaan's mother was left alone by him that's why he doesn't want Abhira to be left alone. Madhav isn't family-oriented guy who would miss his family he is happy away from them. I still couldn't understand his role in PH. He is good for nothing namesake husband, father and son. Even if he stays away from Poddars it won't change anything other than Vidya doing emotional drama of wearing and removing MS, wearing and removing sindoor. I don't understand why he lives in PH at first place when can't fulfill his duties towards Vidya and Armaan.

He will have to leave Abhira on her own specifically if he is no mood to reveal divorce truth. Abhira also has to realize that the marriage she prioritized (M-V) over her own marriage is breaking because Madhav isn't returning to PH.

Originally posted by: ShadowImbue

Madhav was never a father to Armaan same way KP was never a mother to Madhav. She literally destroyed his life and accepted his legitimate child to guilt trip child Armaan forever so he was always grateful to them for accepting him (which was his basic right), but Madhav couldn't do anything for a minor child. He let Dadisa/Vidya make Armaan believe that he has no right or he doesn't belong there. Armaan needed validation throughout his life because of absence of father's role in his life. Madhav and KP like people give more importance to other's children then their own. KP prioritises Vidya over Madhav, Ruhi over Rohit/Armaan. Same way Madhav is also prioritizing Abhira over his son Armaan atleast he knows they are still married. So she isn't ex-bahu yet. Even if she is his ex-DIL Madhav has a delusional theory that he is saving Abhira's life by not letting her communicate with Armaan. His mahan father figure atma needs to take a break.

@bold Madhav also wanted a break from PH, Vidya and KP that's why he is living away from them becoming a father figure to Abhira. Though it sounds absurd all his concern for Abhira is also because of his past mistake or actions. Maybe Armaan's mother was left alone by him that's why he doesn't want Abhira to be left alone. Madhav isn't family-oriented guy who would miss his family he is happy away from them. I still couldn't understand his role in PH. He is good for nothing namesake husband, father and son. Even if he stays away from Poddars it won't change anything other than Vidya doing emotional drama of wearing and removing MS, wearing and removing sindoor. I don't understand why he lives in PH at first place when can't fulfill his duties towards Vidya and Armaan.

He will have to leave Abhira on her own specifically if he is no mood to reveal divorce truth.