Originally posted by: Mehersudha
in any family jo dikhta hi woh sahi nahi hi. The head of family gets all respect in society because they have a facade for outside world. If you see in the real problems will be seen. Who dares to say it out openly as every house has similar setup. I have a big family from both sides so i can easily connect to these characters. Until marriage everything is bookish and feels like a simple thing. Real life starts then only . If you fight with your parents Or siblings they will excuse or understand you as you are blood related. Why will others accept you as its what you are . Sasural is bonds formed through heart understanding and acceptance. So none will excuse easily. Its for lifetime to maintain the relations.Because seeing you your next generation will understand them and behave accordingly. Sorry for my rant.
Haha I feel the same . Real life starts after marriage and I have a big family on both the sides

@bold : I strongly believe in this. Rightly said why will others accept you as it’s what you are. Sasural is bonds formed through understanding, acceptance and moulding yourself as per your house’s requirements without loosing your identity. Moohfutt reh kar open war kabhi kisi se na karo. It takes daily efforts to maintain relationships in sasural. lol can’t use effortless words for sasural relations
Abhira ne charu/krish ke liye jitna bhi kiya ho definitely Kajal se zyada nahi kiya hai unn dono baccho ke liye. Being mother kajal ne unko birth dene ke time se la kar unke school/college teenage time mai bahot sacrifices kiye hoge jo every mother bahot karti hai. They know their child and also does everything in their capacity to make their child happy. Just because abhira helped them with their career choices, doesn’t mean she did more for kajal’s kids than kajal has ever done or she is way more wellwisher of kajal’s kids than kajal. Agar ladki ki maa nahi chahti ki uski beti ki shaddi baal baccha wale se ho toh abhira ko apna opinion kisi par force kar ke Charu ke liye support nahi mangna chahiye.
Edited by sweet_tania - 1 years ago
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