Aadhya, Shruthi and Anuj are cut from the same cloth - Page 5

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

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Response: Yes, you are right. They indeed!

They are ALL living in an illusion and expecting too much.

Aadhya is living under the illusion that the only parent who stood by her when the (adoptive) mother first neglected, let her be abused by her pseudo Maykewale and then abandoned her will understand her trauma and come to terms with his own reality. She is hanging on to the hope of a normal, happy family and in her own way striving self-preservation only to be broken, eventually.

Shruti is living under the illusion that Anuj will eventually move on from the past and come to loving her. She is choosing to turn a blind eye to Anuj's obsessive love for Anupama. She is hanging on to straws that lay with the hope of building her family.

Anuj is living under the illusion that he ever mattered, matters in Anupama's life despite the crystal writing on the wall. He is hopeful of being loved back by the only love of his life and after coming infront of her after 5 years, he is willing to go to any lengths of self-destruction for the same.

Then as good parents, Anuj and Shrew should go to family therapy and work it out, not let Aadhya let loose on Anupama.

And Shrew needs to keep Aadhya and Anupama away from each other if Anupama is the trigger and a blight on Aadhya’s happiness. Shrew should not insist on pushing Anupama into every event of their life - no Anupama at the wedding, no catering, nada. But Shrew is selfish too and has her own agenda, she is trying to establish her position as Anuj’s wife.

As for Anuj, he too should keep Aadhya away from “Anu” even if it means he stays away from Anupama. Or if he is bent on healing mom and daughter then insist the two get help from joint therapy.

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Then as good parents, Anuj and Shrew should go to family therapy and work it out, not let Aadhya let loose on Anupama.

And Shrew needs to keep Aadhya and Anupama away from each other if Anupama is the trigger and a blight on Aadhya’s happiness. Shrew should not insist on pushing Anupama into every event of their life - no Anupama at the wedding, no catering, nada. But Shrew is selfish too and has her own agenda, she is trying to establish her position as Anuj’s wife.

As for Anuj, he too should keep Aadhya away from “Anu” even if it means he stays away from Anupama. Or if he is bent on healing mom and daughter then insist the two get help from joint therapy.

I completely agree, Adhya, Anuj and Shruti should maintain safe distance from Anupama. Anuj to begin with and Shruti should NOT force ANY interactions with Anupama and Shahs on Adhya.

As for therapy, atleast they have shown Adhya underwent treatment which was healing her until she saw and met Anupama. The appearance of the Shah khandaan and their constant, forced, encounters hasn't been helping her either.

As for family therapy, let the bubble of illusion burst for Anuj and Shruti, come face-to-face with the harsh reality (which is unlikely) first.

Once that happens (and the cast continues to stay alive), going by the past instance, i am sure they wouldn't hesitate taking professional help.

As for Shruti's recent actions, I am not sure selfish is the right word for it. Insecurity, uncertainty, yes. How is she selfish?

Establishing the fact that she is going to be the wife of someone who promised her a marriage is a selfish agenda?

Originally posted by: Blueeeee

I can bring in five different situations where Adhya did not let Anuj come clean with Shruti hefore her birthday, and you can stop the deflection that I am blaming a kid for an adult's actions when I have been calling Anuj a bad parent for not taking her to therapy and drawing boundaries with her.

And what horifying thing did happen to Adhya, apart from her father moving to a first world country for her, paying no alimony to his ex, not taking her to therapy, and catfishing an adult, that caused her to be in a weird sort of emotional competition with her father's romantic prospects? How is poor, unsophisticated Upmaa more responsible for the lack of Adhya's mental healthcare than a billionaire Anuj?

Okay, Anuj is a bad father, Anupama is a great mother. Whatever floats your boat.

@bold : LOL! A woman divorced twice who wanted to act Mahaan and didn’t take alimony from both her husbands, but husband is at fault? So basically Anupamaa is never at fault for anything and her Mahaanta is also others’ problem? 😂

I have no words for your imagination when you say Aadhya is competing with her father’s romantic prospects. The hate for the child is insane but again, whatever suits you.

And I’ve never seen you talking about Anupama casually staying with her first ex, having emotional conversations with him, or the cheap verbal wars between them, serving him Chai, she used to hug him casually on pretext of being Mata Pita or Dada Dadi, I guess all that really works for the Oh so Poor abuse victim Anupama who doesn’t even think she was ever abused. Just saying Anupama is a bad mother and an enabler to Shahs, or saying Pakhi Toshu are worst kids doesn’t make you a neutral viewer when you defend every wrong of Anupamaa or stay mum to her children’s criminal acts or Baa and Vanraj’s plotting to keep her as a free maid, to the extent of even defending Leela for the sake of Anupama and then conveniently twist it to, Oh she was an abuse victim for 26 yrs, it’s not easy for her. Sure!

You just keep repeating same things about Anuj and Aadhya in every thread and every comment, have read it enough.
And let’s end this conversation here, I wouldn’t like to discuss so much on a child’s mental health whose mother abandoned her with such illogical arguments like above, but still if you want to continue…please do!

If Aadhya, Shruthi and Anuj are cut from the same cloth then MAA and Shahs are born from the same trashcan 🗑️

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

I completely agree, Adhya, Anuj and Shruti should maintain safe distance from Anupama. Anuj to begin with and Shruti should NOT force ANY interactions with Anupama and Shahs on Adhya.

As for therapy, atleast they have shown Adhya underwent treatment which was healing her until she saw and met Anupama. The appearance of the Shah khandaan and their constant, forced, encounters hasn't been helping her either.

As for family therapy, let the bubble of illusion burst for Anuj and Shruti, come face-to-face with the harsh reality (which is unlikely) first.

Once that happens (and the cast continues to stay alive), going by the past instance, i am sure they wouldn't hesitate taking professional help.

As for Shruti's recent actions, I am not sure selfish is the right word for it. Insecurity, uncertainty, yes. How is she selfish?

Establishing the fact that she is going to be the wife of someone who promised her a marriage is a selfish agenda?

Purposefully seeking your partner's ex to establish your position as the future wife and discussing it with your preteen stepdaughter like you're discussing prom dress is just inappropriate lol.

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Originally posted by: Dee-Dee

Okay, Anuj is a bad father, Anupama is a great mother. Whatever floats your boat.

@bold : LOL! A woman divorced twice who wanted to act Mahaan and didn’t take alimony from both her husbands, but husband is at fault? So basically Anupamaa is never at fault for anything and her Mahaanta is also others’ problem? 😂

I have no words for your imagination when you say Aadhya is competing with her father’s romantic prospects. The hate for the child is insane but again, whatever suits you.

And I’ve never seen you talking about Anupama casually staying with her first ex, having emotional conversations with him, or the cheap verbal wars between them, serving him Chai, she used to hug him casually on pretext of being Mata Pita or Dada Dadi, I guess all that really works for the Oh so Poor abuse victim Anupama who doesn’t even think she was ever abused. Just saying Anupama is a bad mother and an enabler to Shahs, or saying Pakhi Toshu are worst kids doesn’t make you a neutral viewer when you defend every wrong of Anupamaa or stay mum to her children’s criminal acts or Baa and Vanraj’s plotting to keep her as a free maid, to the extent of even defending Leela for the sake of Anupama and then conveniently twist it to, Oh she was an abuse victim for 26 yrs, it’s not easy for her. Sure!

You just keep repeating same things about Anuj and Aadhya in every thread and every comment, have read it enough.
And let’s end this conversation here, I wouldn’t like to discuss so much on a child’s mental health whose mother abandoned her with such illogical arguments like above, but still if you want to continue…please do!

This man literally up and ran to Maya after blaming Anupamaa for having her own kids when HE decided to not start a family for obsessing over a married woman. Y'all out talking about emoshnul affair/abuse as if those terms mean nothing. Anuj made Anupamaa suicidal, Anuj played house with someone who wanted to pursue a relationship for "beti ka pyaar" obvs. But Upmaa cannot visit her kids, grandkids whom she raised everyday if she wants to prove some satitva to Anuj. Anupamaa should have filed for divorce right then and taken half his property in divorce settlement.

"Concern for a child's mental health" as if Samar's son is not living without a father under the influence of a creepy grandfather. For whom did his father die? Does he go around accosting Anuj? Does anyone discuss his mental health? Oh, I rememher, he's a Shah — no mental health for him

Does anyone care that Pakhi was literally groomed and abused by Adhik and hasn't resolved those complexes to raise a child well. Oh she grew up a bratty teen in a "happy household with great values." How can the grooming and abuse she went through have any impact on her? She is Shah, after all. Her adopted kid also doesn't have a mental health. She should either live with a wifebeater or an inappropriate woman like Pakhi. No adopted baccho ka rights for her.

Treating motherhood as a satitva test for Upma — a woman in her 50s must be nice.

Originally posted by: whatthelife

I won't blame Adhya while her adoptive mother is holding her head high "believing" she fulfilled the duties of a mother ...

Adhya doesn't get a pass because she is Anuj's daughter ... But, she gets blamed by some because she is his daughter and dislikes their idol (mahaan maa)

One day, if Adhya falls at her feet, no one will blame her ... no questions asked ... no fingers pointing at her ... nothing ... just nothing

Well, if Adhya is a US citizen, she should be in child protection services' care.

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

I completely agree, Adhya, Anuj and Shruti should maintain safe distance from Anupama. Anuj to begin with and Shruti should NOT force ANY interactions with Anupama and Shahs on Adhya.

As for therapy, atleast they have shown Adhya underwent treatment which was healing her until she saw and met Anupama. The appearance of the Shah khandaan and their constant, forced, encounters hasn't been helping her either.

As for family therapy, let the bubble of illusion burst for Anuj and Shruti, come face-to-face with the harsh reality (which is unlikely) first.

Once that happens (and the cast continues to stay alive), going by the past instance, i am sure they wouldn't hesitate taking professional help.

As for Shruti's recent actions, I am not sure selfish is the right word for it. Insecurity, uncertainty, yes. How is she selfish?

Establishing the fact that she is going to be the wife of someone who promised her a marriage is a selfish agenda?

Insecurity & uncertainty are excusable. But constantly searching out her fiancé’s ex-wife and forcing the ex’s attendance is selfish especially given the circumstance that her soon to be daughter gets triggered by the sight of the ex. Forcing the ex whilst knowing that the ex is the trigger for Aadhya’s outburst just to assuage her own insecurity is selfish and immature on the part of Shrew.

Stop indulging her needlessly when your posts aren't even read and a gamut of baseless allegations keep being made just to emphasise how Anupamaa is a victim in every scenario (you can watch and re-watch the show for that instead of engaging with someone who argues in bad faith here)