Aadhya, Shruthi and Anuj are cut from the same cloth

Shruthi was a delightfully simple and uncomplicated person. Overnight she has become a Shrew (pun intended on the word Shru). What kind of idiotic track is this? Changing the menu not once but twice last minute? The caterers here in the U.S. would ask you to pay in full and would tell you to go take a hike if you changed items last minute.

Aadhya is the limit. The girl is as selfish as it gets. She wants her happiness at the cost of her father’s. She does not give a fig about what he wants. She, of course, knows what is best for him. The girl is indolent, rude and mannerless, time and time again.

As for Anuj, what is wrong with the man? If he wants to move along, he should move on. Why allow his new wife-to-be to ask his ex-wife to cater for their wedding? He does not want to hurt his ex-wife, he supposedly cares for her yet he allows the new termagant to cause hurt to his ex repeatedly. Me thinks Anuj really does not care for his ex, if he did, he would put his foot down and tell Shrew to not let Anupama be any place close at his wedding. He wants to indulge Shrew at the cost of hurting “his” Anu. The man does not know his own mind, he never did, so he should not fuss but should proceed to marry the woman who lives with him and who his spoilt daughter gets along with but he should at least have the gumption to tell them both that he does not want Anupama at his wedding. He will not do that cos like a love sick puppy, he wants to see Anupama at any given chance he can get. He cares nought if Shrew is upset/jealous or that Anupama is put at a disadvantage. He selfishly wants to please himself and that recalcitrant daughter of his. Anuj, grow a spine if you don’t want this wedding, call it off and tell your darling daughter she cannot dictate who you marry. Stay single and indulge that daughter of yours in other ways.

And Anupama, you are not obligated to make Shrew’s day perfect, you are just the caterer, stick to your job. Do not take on extra work on behalf of the other kitchen staff. Cook, get paid, and get out. If Shrew makes changes, tell her no and put her in her place, who is she to you anyway?

Who cares whether writers ruined Shruti Anuj or Adhya and even anupama . Makers only cares about WW shahs

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Shruthi was a delightfully simple and uncomplicated person. Overnight she has become a Shrew (pun intended on the word Shru). What kind of idiotic track is this? Changing the menu not once but twice last minute? The caterers here in the U.S. would ask you to pay in full and would tell you to go take a hike if you changed items last minute.

Aadhya is the limit. The girl is as selfish as it gets. She wants her happiness at the cost of her father’s. She does not give a fig about what he wants. She, of course, knows what is best for him. The girl is indolent, rude and mannerless, time and time again.

Still blaming a little kid who has trauma and PTSD from being adopted and then abandoned by a selfish evil woman. Do ITV audience not understand what kids are and have zero empathy? Calling her multiple names because of what? Its NOT rude to hate one's abuser who abandoned her. Its NORMAL

I can guarantee people just hate her because she is adopted. Anupama's own kids are a million times ruder but never see such posts about them

I will repeat, people who blame a little abandoned kid because she has trauma and PTSD from being adopted and then abandoned by a selfish evil woman are sociopaths who have no empathy

These are the times I wish we had "troll" reactions available on IF

Originally posted by: Historia

Who cares whether writers ruined Shruti Anuj or Adhya and even anupama . Makers only cares about WW shahs

Na, RG's ego goes a long way in why any character audience liked is ruined, happened with Maya after her dance was praised and she was clearly a better dancer than RG. Happened with Shruti and also happened with Anuj, Anuj was soaring in popularity and was sidelined immediately with a nonsense plot.

The makers do favor Vanraj actor but RG also has a huge influence on these things, way more than any Shah actor.

Anuj did defend anupama and told shruti that her demand was unreasonable but makers have made up their mind to change the character of shruti totally.

Also, there was no need for anupama to agree to unreasonable demand of shruti and act mahaan. She has God syndrome which makes her fall everytime yet she doesn't know when to stop. All her sufferings are self induced and only she can help herself no one else...

True aadhya is nihayati batameej and egoistic person aadhya is too irritating just like pakhi

Pakhi and aadhya ko.ki common heej hai both are aggressive ungrateful and has over hatred for her mother both are very cruel to their mother

In dono ko agar inke man mutabic cheej nahi milti to yeh nayi mummy dhoodne lagti hai

Both pakhi and aadya are selfish

Originally posted by: Radhiii

Anuj did defend anupama and told shruti that her demand was unreasonable but makers have made up their mind to change the character of shruti totally.

Also, there was no need for anupama to agree to unreasonable demand of shruti and act mahaan. She has God syndrome which makes her fall everytime yet she doesn't know when to stop. All her sufferings are self induced and only she can help herself no one else...

Exactly. Just say no. There is no need to cater in the wedding. There are other restaurants and caterers let them go there.

Ha bolna bhi hai phir hai me bechari bhi karna hai.

Toh mat karna Jagat Mata. Thekka lene ke liye bola kisne isko?

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Aadhya is the limit. The girl is as selfish as it gets. She wants her happiness at the cost of her father’s. She does not give a fig about what he wants. She, of course, knows what is best for him. The girl is indolent, rude and mannerless, time and time again.

As for Anuj, what is wrong with the man? If he wants to move along, he should move on. Why allow his new wife-to-be to ask his ex-wife to cater for their wedding?

And what is her father’s happiness? Anupama?

The same woman with whom he couldn’t spend a single peaceful day in 3 yrs of marriage? Who couldn’t prioritise her new husband and the daughter she willingly adopted and chose Shahs’ happiness at the cost of her immediate family? Just like every parent has a right to think of their child’s well being and happiness, same way a child has equal rights to decide what’s good or bad for their parents.

Aadhya is selfish? Right! She has borrowed Crores or Rupees from Anupama or taken tonnes of favors from her just like Shahs took from Anuj and keep taking from Anupama all the time? Aadhya is selfish because she is thinking about and wanting a peaceful happy life and family which is impossible with a woman like Anupama and Shahs around. I think if that’s the case, everyone should become selfish.

Aadhya is mannerless because she atleast cared to say Sorry to her so called adoptive mother, or maybe mannerless because she didn’t have a Mother to give her right Sanskaars and Parvarish like Anupama gave her bio kids, forget saying sorry, they won’t leave the slightest opportunity to humiliate and ridicule their birth mother.

Better to be mannerless like Aadhya than be shameless gold diggers like Anupamaa’s bio kids!

A spouse is no one to allow or not allow the other one. They are not each other’s slave like Anupama is to Vanraj. It’s a relation of mutual trust and understanding. If allowing was the case, he should have never allowed Anupama to visit Shah house multiple times a day and serve them like a Maid every single day or meet her ex husband middle of the night and keep secrets from her current husband or banned her Shah house entry when they humiliated Anuj multiple times, held his collar, abused him, threw him out and a lot more, and Anupama didn’t utter a word.
He could just request her, explain to her which he tried his best to do but Anupamaa is Anupamaa, the Devi Maa who decides for others and herself.

Likewise, he explained to Shruti, he went to Anupamaa to decline the catering offer, again tried his best to make Anupamaa not accept the changes in menu last min, he opposed Shruti, what else can a person do? Anupama didn’t listen to her client and boss both, wanted to act God to Shruti, its Anupamaa’s problem no one else’s! She doesn’t know how to just mind her own business and life!

I feel the same. Just see shahi iftar party video and it will all make sense on what is going on. Wouldn't say anything else...

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Aadhya is the limit. The girl is as selfish as it gets. She wants her happiness at the cost of her father’s. She does not give a fig about what he wants. She, of course, knows what is best for him. The girl is indolent, rude and mannerless, time and time again.

While I agree with the rest of the chars, why is Aadhya branded as selfish time & again? Why is it wrong to want a normal happy family with loving set of parents?

btw, there was a similar thread not too long ago, this feels like deja-vu!