Aadhya, Shruthi and Anuj are cut from the same cloth - Page 10

Originally posted by: Blueeeee

She was very much groomed. Adhik even admitted to his sister that he'd get a claw in Anuj's property by wooing his stepdaughter, just because they flipped the characterisation every two weeks doesn't mean Pakhi was not a victim or that she owes a wifebeater like Adhik anything.

Epi 640 se aage peechhe wale episodes dekh lijiye. Lol

Oh brattish kid without a college degree is unwilling to work in a "marriage" and wants a rich handsome husband! How abhorrent! Here I thought legal teenagers are very mature for marriage. It's not as if legal marriageble age for men is 21 or anything!

Sahi grooming ki hain, she lands in his house, insults his sister and brother-in-law, ALL of this within the time of marriage and Grihapravesh.

Is that also why she turned a husband beater before she became a victim?

Also, Pakhi's actions are attributed to frequently flipping characterisation but other characters are not.

About maturity, expectations from a teenager, this thread has seen enough of it. The less said the better.

Originally posted by: Blueeeee

She was very much groomed. Adhik even admitted to his sister that he'd get a claw in Anuj's property by wooing his stepdaughter, just because they flipped the characterisation every two weeks doesn't mean Pakhi was not a victim or that she owes a wifebeater like Adhik anything.

Epi 640 se aage peechhe wale episodes dekh lijiye. Lol

Oh brattish kid without a college degree is unwilling to work in a "marriage" and wants a rich handsome husband! How abhorrent! Here I thought legal teenagers are very mature for marriage. It's not as if legal marriageble age for men is 21 or anything!

Adhik admitted that he is marrying Pakhi for anuj money and same Pakhi admitted multiple times that she married adhik for money. 

She clearly stated that if Anupama can get married to a billionaire and spend his money so why can’t she do the same. She just didn’t knew that adhik had no share in anuj property.

 If Pakhi was victim and got abused than adhik also was victim multiple times and got abused by Pakhi. If we sideline their love hate relationship because they were on same level. If we see their individual behaviour with others then we can see a clear picture. Pakhi behave rudely with everyone who is below her. She don’t respect anyone. She don’t care about her own daughter too and just wants a rich husband. 

Originally posted by: Dee-Dee

Have you ever wondered that Anupama is the one who needs Therapy the most? Is her behavior normal?

She being the abuse victim for 26 yrs, keeps serving them till date, after 8-9 yrs of divorce?
She is humiliated on an everyday basis, but goes to the same man for emotional talks?

Doesn’t know how to say No to Shahs because she likes to please them by cooking for them, doing all house duties, ‘she thinks’ they cannot survive without her! She still looks for their validation.

Every couple has differences, sometimes they will fight, won’t talk for days, but does someone walk away like Anupama did especially when you have a small daughter, just because he questioned her priorities, rightly so?

She gets panic attacks, becomes restless when it comes to Shahs, she would cry rivers when they ask her to leave and come back very next day with some excuse, would keep talking excitedly about her past life and Ex Husband with her 2nd one in their bedroom? She would happily cook for a family of 10-15 people also doing all other work, no one cares she is 55 and should get help, or she should not be doing all this, why the over attachment?

Her kids keep cursing her, sent her to jail, call her manhoos, kalank, gold digger, characterless, etc but she happily says Maa hu Ney? What has she ever done except sayong Gadheda hey tu, to correct the behavior of her children? Infact she has shielded them in all their wrongs!

How fair is it for her to stay under the same roof as her first ex husband, even now? Kinjal and Toshu wanted a housemaid and a Nanny and not their Mummy, before Shahs came to US, still she is right in staying with them? Where is the Self Respect?
She calls all of them her family despite being thrown out yrs back with no contact whatsoever? Who needs therapy the most? Who brought Aadhya into this situation!?

This is not a comparison post - who needs therapy the most? Who is more of a brat, Pakhi or Aadhya? Who is more insufferable and insolent to their mother, Aadhya or Paritosh? Who is more abusive, Vanraj or Ba? 

But, yes, I agree with you, Anupama does need counseling for repeatedly forgiving and acting as an unpaid servant to all of them.