Triggers may sometimes take a lifetime to go. Unless one learns to deal with it, such situations are best avoided. A child's opinion, her comfort / discomfornt needs to be repsected too. It would still have been better had Anuj tried to justify Anupamaa's stituation when they got stuck in the accident, which would have may be alleviated some pain Adhya carries, rather than shoving it down Adhya's throat about how they sacrificed so much for her. Sacrifice was expected out of her Mr. Kapadia in your household, always. 
This show talks so much about parenting, yet there is not one parent - child relationship worth rooting for. Why 'listening' can't be a quality a parent must exhibit ? What happened today was a very one sided communication between Anuj and Adhya where she was dictated how she should behave. In real world one may need years of therapy, guidance, healing to let go off what Adhya suffers. Dictats by parents about good behavior will only go so far. It may have some short time impacts, like Adhya may comply for a short period of time probably out of fear, but in long term what stays in her mind shall stay. Of course this is I am talking from the perspective of a practical world. In Anupamaverse perhaps one bhashan from Anupamaa is all she would need to let go off the trauma she suffers - something that she should be kept far away from, but what to do kismat. Shah House black Hole is where everyone's and their children's future lies whoever got married there. 
Also next time in December if talks about Anupamaa's misplaced priorities after their unwanted milan, he deserves a flying Joota this time on his face. 
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