Finally, I just finished watching all the episodes that I skipped till today. (Almost all the Feb episodes that I just saw some clips of and read about through edt). Since this AbhiMaan AT, I won't talk about the show in totality but Armaan and Abhira's equation alongwith Ruhi, only.
Lets be clear about the situation.
Firstly, Armaan and R fell in "love" with each other. Their breakup was tragic enough that couldn't have a proper move on. This is one of the basis of the plots that is being shown here.
Secondly, Armaan and Abhira didn't even had a start as friends. So there is this whole process of becoming friends even when they have several external factors that can make it difficult in being friends. Showing Jaldi jaldi pyaar considering it is a daily soap will be 🫣
I read and got the view about how bad Armaan looked in that nursing Ruhi wala episode. I saw the clips I felt the same. But now that I have seen it all I realised it was not that bad. It was not something I liked to watch for obvious reasons but it was not that bad. The reason I am saying this is Armaan didn't had any "moments" when taking care of Ruhi. She is what she is and cannot be ignored, and that is a fact that he has accepted. Throughout that scene he was very much aware of his present equation with R.
I hate what is shown of R's character but this time I realised she needs a closure too, and maybe this way can help her get a closure. Everything fatal scenarios that happened which concerned Ruhi was sudden and drastic. Armaan is clear when he vocalises that they need to maintain distance. Abhira is a triggering point of Ruhi, so in that case also Armaan is sorted in telling that why Abhira's name slipped out of his mouth when he was with Ruhi.
If CVs are not planning to make R worse, we can see how R is being presented to the truth about relationships and she seems to be improving (till today's epi, she needs to stay from her gyaani badi ma SG). Maybe this support from Armaan alongside family as well as Abhira can help her out. This slow change in equation may help her out.
There is another debate to it, Armaan should not give R leads. And as a viewer, I see it's all in R's head. Armaan obviously isn't over with his idea of love with R but he is clearly moved on from theories of loving R or having any thought about the future with her or anything of that sort. So I really fail to see Armaan's fault in leading because he is not really doing that.
Feel free to call me blind. But Armaan and R's scene is really not irritating me right now or is it bcz I'm immune to it. Anyways this is a huge thing for me 
Regarding Armaan and Abhira;
Abhira loved her Mom. Her Mumma was her best friend, her everything and the best Mumma there ever can be for her. She lost her. From her point of view, she can take years to open up to someone else. She had that one person,one human who was her everything. She lost her and Armaan came. It's not easy to make friends, or just open up to anybody else, no matter what your MBTI is.
If makers showed Abhira feeling for Armaan just because Armaan is available for her, this would be much more weird to me.
Both of them, Armaan as well as Abhira are being friends, their equation is improving. Armaan allows Abhira to be what she is, stands for her, doesn't mind being "husband" in front of his family, he doesn't mind Abhira being "wife" in front of the family. In front of his family as well as Ruhi.
Armaan and Abhira scenes are improving. I wish to se more and more of them.🤞
Even if they are short lived, I like the fact that the exist. Armaan Abhira nursing each other, those tight hugs, Ar following Ab, holding her doing her jacket thing, Ar being gentleman opening car, hand pe hand moment and their banters, Ar noticing Ab's presence even when he is with R. I also liked Chachi giving milk + advice to Abhira. 🥰
Regarding Yuv, more than his character it seems the makers way of showing scenes are really ill planned. (as always
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Everything about episodes are not perfect but it's much better. But I am confused if it's actually the case or because I am watching with no expectations 
(Abhi Kya karoon, aise khud sochke hi kush hona padega🥲🤣… CVs tho kuch dete nahi UMMEED) 
Anyway Armaan bangle seen ke jaise Abhira ke saath dance karega instead
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