BKAS Episode Discussion Thread #1 [DT NOTE PG 37] new ETD link pg 150 - Page 112

Originally posted by: melliflous

Kunal has made too many promises to Vandana’s dad. She wa supposed to get all rights of being malhotra bahu too. But it’s looking like they were just words with no meaning. He goes around bearing people also saying she is his wife… but again. He is problematic and with slightest of problems and he disowns V

yes that’s what I am saying kunal having mental issues otherwise he wouldn’t behave like this .

And I am saying writer should give justice for vandu .🤷‍♂️

I don’t understand Kunal. When he does things or doesn’t tell information, then it’s okay but when Vandu does it, then it’s wrong and hurtful and a dramatic scene. He brought Sonia in the house and didn’t talk to Vandu prior to making the decision. And Sonia cheated him just like Mrunal cheated Vandu. It was day 1 of their marriage and he didn’t respect Vandu enough to tell her his plans for bringing Sonia home. He actually didn’t respond to her call or text that day. Kunal brought Sonia home. He made the decision and Vandu dealt with it gracefully. Sonia caused all kinds of confusion for both Tara and Vandu, but again Vandu dealt with it along with Kunal’s accusations. Vandu was even harmed by Indro and this was all because Kunal allowed Sonia in the house but everyone made light of the situation. Those scenes were turned comical as Kunal playfully apologized but not for putting Vandu’s life in danger but rather for fussing at her. He apologized and Vandu accepted his apology and wrongdoings just as she has so many times. But no one blamed and screamed at Kunal for endangering lives by bringing Sonia home.

But now that Vandu has supposedly done something wrong it’s a big deal. Forgiveness is not even an option. Vandu is given one minute to explain herself while Kunal takes all the time in the world to explain why he doesn’t trust her and he sheds tears while a violin plays in the background. 😭🎻 He’s such a drama queen! 🙄

This makes no sense to me. I’m not sure I understand this. Am I supposed to feel sorry for Kunal as a viewer? Should I feel sorry for the same Kunal who hurts Vandu over and over again and she forgives him? Should I feel bad that she broke his trust when he has done nothing to gain hers? Well I don’t. Kunal has high expectations for Vandu to meet but he never reciprocates or meets the expectations that he sets for others.

https://youtu.be/ISTEDV1_Hxk?si=VLW2dFwnGSayPoCw

Don’t know what kind of respect she talking about 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

And kunal celebrating chocolate day I guess 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Originally posted by: vish86

https://youtu.be/ISTEDV1_Hxk?si=VLW2dFwnGSayPoCw

Don’t know what kind of respect she talking about 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

Ye aaram se chocolates kha raha hai 😂aur bol raha hai muze peace chahiye Bobby - Mrunal ke matters se dur rehna hai something like this I guess

I think ab Mrunal ko expose karne ke liye vandana try karti rahegi aur ye pagal insan irritate hokar chillata rahega 🤣🤣

From the convo, it looks like Kunal supported her maybe to when she brought Bobby & Mrunal back into the house.

I saw another BTS, where she is doing aarti for them.

Kunal throwing tantrums as usual.

When oh when will Vandana get really angry with him?!! Now I am waiting for that moment. Missing the firebrand Vandana who hit him with a broom

Sometimes I feel as if the writers changed Vandu's character once she entered the Malhotra house and I am unsure why. Yes, Vandu always loved and supported her family but she was never a pushover and she never tolerated wrongdoings. She was strong and bold. Not only did we see her beat Kunal with a broom, but she gave Vaibhav a run around the house as well for trying to kill her father. We saw her twist Sonia's arm when approached on the street. She slapped the hearing out of Mrunal and ousted her from the house by throwing her bags into the street.

Now, we see her putting up with more abuse than ever in the Malhotra house, blaming herself for every problem that occurs, and crying uncontrollably. She did nothing to retaliate against Sonia for all her evil doings while she was in the Malhotra house. She was mum. She is very submissive when it comes to her relationship with Kunal Sir and instead of being argumentative she is always pleading with him or seen begging.

I am ready for her to take her crown back as a strong woman. Just because she is married and a mom doesn't require her to lose her strength and boldness. Sometimes, women are required to fight back in life and that doesn't make them aggressive. Women can be bold yet nurturing.

Originally posted by: heyjude07

From the convo, it looks like Kunal supported her maybe to when she brought Bobby & Mrunal back into the house.

I saw another BTS, where she is doing aarti for them.

Kunal throwing tantrums as usual.

When oh when will Vandana get really angry with him?!! Now I am waiting for that moment. Missing the firebrand Vandana who hit him with a broom

The one good thing in yesterday's episode was that Bobby seemed to truly regret his betrayal of Vandu. The rest of show was completely skippable with all the crying and lack of empathy or understanding from anyone. I did like Vijay saying that its good to be good but to be SO good as Vandu is not. I am hoping that Hemant and Anagha in their greedy way help get Mrunal out of the house because if Vandu gets kicked out, they will lose all their freebies

Too bad there was no ulterior plan :(

The idiot also said he will cook for her - never seen him do that once. It's Vandana who seems to make fancy stuff and feed that horrid family - seriously she's been too good. I wish she'd just leave them. Kunal is the worst form of a husband - who's good at times and makes you want to believe he's good and then at other times goes ballistic - wonder if he's split personality! Really not surprised sonia left him.

Originally posted by: melliflous

Kunal has made too many promises to Vandana’s dad. She wa supposed to get all rights of being malhotra bahu too. But it’s looking like they were just words with no meaning. He goes around bearing people also saying she is his wife… but again. He is problematic and with slightest of problems and he disowns V

Bobby is a pure soul - I hate to see Mrunal break his heart. I guess he goes after his father who is also good but spineless.

Originally posted by: HennaGumDrop

The one good thing in yesterday's episode was that Bobby seemed to truly regret his betrayal of Vandu. The rest of show was completely skippable with all the crying and lack of empathy or understanding from anyone. I did like Vijay saying that its good to be good but to be SO good as Vandu is not. I am hoping that Hemant and Anagha in their greedy way help get Mrunal out of the house because if Vandu gets kicked out, they will lose all their freebies

Too bad there was no ulterior plan :(

Yeah, we need that Vandana back. She needs to really let all hell loose upon Kunal and give him a taste of his own yelling therapy. She needs to tell him to get the F away and to stop blaming her for everything that goes wrong. The dude runs away from any tough situation and then blames V for things that she has nothing to do with. No gratitude, no respect - he literally treats her like a glorified servile nanny. I don't think he ever deserves her love.

Originally posted by: Aishwarrior

Sometimes I feel as if the writers changed Vandu's character once she entered the Malhotra house and I am unsure why. Yes, Vandu always loved and supported her family but she was never a pushover and she never tolerated wrongdoings. She was strong and bold. Not only did we see her beat Kunal with a broom, but she gave Vaibhav a run around the house as well for trying to kill her father. We saw her twist Sonia's arm when approached on the street. She slapped the hearing out of Mrunal and ousted her from the house by throwing her bags into the street.

Now, we see her putting up with more abuse than ever in the Malhotra house, blaming herself for every problem that occurs, and crying uncontrollably. She did nothing to retaliate against Sonia for all her evil doings while she was in the Malhotra house. She was mum. She is very submissive when it comes to her relationship with Kunal Sir and instead of being argumentative she is always pleading with him or seen begging.

I am ready for her to take her crown back as a strong woman. Just because she is married and a mom doesn't require her to lose her strength and boldness. Sometimes, women are required to fight back in life and that doesn't make them aggressive. Women can be bold yet nurturing.