Abhira's reaction

Ok the most debated topic today is whether abhira's reaction was jealousy or a disappointment how ruhi is still acting like bechari. I think it's the latter. Being herself a strong independent woman she can't stand how ruhi can't move on from Rohit and this is highlighted by her conversation with Dadisa. What are your thoughts on this ?

Originally posted by: Sawari67

Ok the most debated topic today is whether abhira's reaction was jealousy or a disappointment how ruhi is still acting like bechari. I think it's the latter. Being herself a strong independent woman she can't stand how ruhi can't move on from Rohit and this is highlighted by her conversation with Dadisa. What are your thoughts on this ?

It's clear that abhira is more disappointed toward ruhi because in one month she not move on little bit... She can stay remain sad but it's doesn't mean that she stop doing basic work or things... She can eat at her own.. may be one day she is stop taking bath, brush her teeth and comb her hair etc...

Abhira only want her to already do basic and common chor of daily life... Loosing someone's doesn't mean that you become jogan...

It made me laugh so hard in today's episode when in her rant Ruhi says, she's a strong, independent woman 😂😂😂😂😂. Matlab kaha se hai woh!

Makers are trying hard to show that Ruhi has abondment issues and that's the reason she is in so much grief....but the problem is nobody likes to be in the company of a person who is crying and sad all the time ...soon everyone in the family will get bored of her...we all have been shown she is missing Rohit otherwise she would have been happy with Armaan around her but the moment her past with Armaan will be out all what she is doing will be proved a lie ...

She gave example of of her mother but Arohi had a career and a daughter and the feeling of acceptance in the birla house which she couldn't get by Goenkas..

But Ruhi is loved by Goenkas she should have gone with them. She is spoiling and wasting her life here..

Her obsession of being in proximity of Armaan will lead her to nothing

It was not jealousy, it was not exactly disappointment as well. She's just not able to understand why Ruhi is behaving like the world has ended when there is still no clarity about Rohit or anything.

Also, this entire handling of Rohit's disappearance is not really...umm.. buyable I would say. For all the dialogues Dadi Sa harped today, the family accepted the worst quite early. The father is in police but he looks defeated the moment he hears the news. For all those very dialogues, they're not doing anything to help their daughter-in-law who is grieving (the why and what of that grief is trivial). And sending Armaan to give food, use dost chahiye, like what? Ghar me baaki log mar gaye hain kya? I would say Abira or the other cousins are better 'dost' options, esp kyunki typical jeth and saali ka rishta inme hain nahi.

And am I the only one who gets uncomfortable to see Ruhi and Armaan in any convo, even if they're generally talking or is it just the side effect of suffering it all as a viewer of ghkkpm.

And yeh bandi ummeed bolte samay Armaan ko dekh rahi hain and nobody else finds this unsettling or creepy?

I'm happy they're showing some sort of abandonment issues which obviously should be there in her but this is 💯 not the way to handle it.

Okay ya, I ended up typing a mini rant lol

Originally posted by: Ps143

It was not jealousy, it was not exactly disappointment as well. She's just not able to understand why Ruhi is behaving like the world has ended when there is still no clarity about Rohit or anything.

Also, this entire handling of Rohit's disappearance is not really...umm.. buyable I would say. For all the dialogues Dadi Sa harped today, the family accepted the worst quite early. The father is in police but he looks defeated the moment he hears the news. For all those very dialogues, they're not doing anything to help their daughter-in-law who is grieving (the why and what of that grief is trivial). And sending Armaan to give food, use dost chahiye, like what? Ghar me baaki log mar gaye hain kya? I would say Abira or the other cousins are better 'dost' options, esp kyunki typical jeth and saali ka rishta inme hain nahi.

And am I the only one who gets uncomfortable to see Ruhi and Armaan in any convo, even if they're generally talking or is it just the side effect of suffering it all as a viewer of ghkkpm.

And yeh bandi ummeed bolte samay Armaan ko dekh rahi hain and nobody else finds this unsettling or creepy?

I'm happy they're showing some sort of abandonment issues which obviously should be there in her but this is 💯 not the way to handle it.

Okay ya, I ended up typing a mini rant lol

Originally posted by: Aashiqanafan

I agree with ur rant. Sending Armaan to Ruhi’s room not many Indian fam will do that. But to give them benefit of doubt, they could not send Abhira has Ruhi always clashes with her. And the other cousins are shown younger ( though we know they will show Charu to be same age as Abhira tomorrow).

I'm all ready for the new dosti in poddar house. But it makes no sense like dadisa's dialogues. It's hard to believe a regressive family is forcing BIL to go and give food to his SIL, as if no other family member is present there. Agree ruhi & abhira's relationship is on and off, but why couldn't vidya went into the room with armaan or dadisa went?? Unko ya unse kya problem hain ruhi ko??

Jab dekho forehead kiss dete hain use toh food kyun nahi dene jaate Or ask charu Or kiara to be her friend or kajal Or chachi.

Forced Triangle & forced best friend/dosti dikhane ke liye kuch bhi ulta seedha bata dete hain show waale 🤦‍♀️

Originally posted by: Ps143

It was not jealousy, it was not exactly disappointment as well. She's just not able to understand why Ruhi is behaving like the world has ended when there is still no clarity about Rohit or anything.

Also, this entire handling of Rohit's disappearance is not really...umm.. buyable I would say. For all the dialogues Dadi Sa harped today, the family accepted the worst quite early. The father is in police but he looks defeated the moment he hears the news. For all those very dialogues, they're not doing anything to help their daughter-in-law who is grieving (the why and what of that grief is trivial). And sending Armaan to give food, use dost chahiye, like what? Ghar me baaki log mar gaye hain kya? I would say Abira or the other cousins are better 'dost' options, esp kyunki typical jeth and saali ka rishta inme hain nahi.

And am I the only one who gets uncomfortable to see Ruhi and Armaan in any convo, even if they're generally talking or is it just the side effect of suffering it all as a viewer of ghkkpm.

And yeh bandi ummeed bolte samay Armaan ko dekh rahi hain and nobody else finds this unsettling or creepy?

I'm happy they're showing some sort of abandonment issues which obviously should be there in her but this is 💯 not the way to handle it.

Okay ya, I ended up typing a mini rant lol

I agree with you. There are so many people in that house but sending Armaan is too irritating I would say. She actually didn't bond up well with the cousins. Till yesterday I hoped that she really moved on from Armaan. But that creepy umeed today showed me that she's still stuck.

Ruhi is not just facing abandonment issues- she is deeply traumatized because she lost her parents, her father figure (poppy) and subsequently also her parental family nee Manjari who all left Udaipur. She was left to be raise by octogenarians albeit in the lap off luxury. Ruhi is truly who is an orphan- she was orphaned as a child compared to Abhira. I love Abhira, but I can't deny that she was much luckier than Ruhi because she was raised for 22 years by her mother. Nobody can take place of your parents-not grandparents and certainly not great-grandparents. Regarding Ruhi's depression- she is deep guilt because she knows that Rohit disappeared because of her and Armaan but she is unwilling to face it. She also has feelings for Armaan who is now married to Abhira and shares a room and life with her. I agree that she is immoral because she is cheating on Rohit and she should have never married Rohit while she is in love with Armaan. But the whole point is Ruhi is not a strong woman and she believes that Armaan and her are soulmates who are separated by destiny. Her belief coupled with her weakness is taking her down the dark path- but it's easy to see why she is selfish and why she is unable to move on. It would be interesting if they show her realizing her weakness and mistakes and gracefully accepting them and becoming a better person like Aarohi did in the end. Her character has a lot of scope and potential to evolve and RS characters are never fully negative, so I am looking forward to her character arc and story with Rohit.

You have perfectly written everything...she is the only one who has a traumatic life...she is blamed for marrying Rohit but I think she genuinely thought Armaan left her so before he leaves me I 'll leave him...

I don't think she is lusting over him she is just feeling bad and sad.

I hope Rohit comes back and their story starts