How bad is the damage?

Posted: 2 years ago
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They are broken. She broke them and they were left to pick the pieces of their shattered relationship…the one that lacked foundation and was so week that it couldnt withstand the blow of miscommunication and misunderstandings.

While she chose to shut herself off and live a life of solitude, they tried to build a new life together, for each other or lets say they had no option..

Yes, his love of 26 years was a sham, all his fault, I sincerely believe…

their marriage, a catastrophical disaster of sorts, both be blamed, I hope you agree…

the adoption- an emotional risk, again his fault mostly to have rushed into it without weighing the odds…

Now that the damage is done, he is trying to do the best for his daughter…keeping her happy, safe and away from any further damage and the kid wants the same for him, to be happy, with Shruti to get over his past trauma…

Anuj will never get over Anupamaa, but he wants to…he is disturbed by her memories and hasnt so far recollected any of the happy ones whereas Anupamaa thinks of him and their love and reminisces the good times..

She misses CA and worries for her but Aadhya’s memories of her mummy have festered badly…

Anuj is reluctant to marry Shruti cause he feels its unfair when he still hasnt been able to wipe his heart clean of Anupamaa…getting engaged was again not wise/needed if he was unsure but would it be so wrong if he wants to give life another chance? not just for Aadhya or Shruti but for himself..

Anupamaa decided to choose her peace and progress and though she misses her kids, she is happy in her new life, trying to find her feet in a new place…good for her!

So if Anupamaa can have another shot at happiness, why cant he?

Kyuki Dil Hai Ki Manta Nahin…


-loser phan of Mr. Kwestionable Kapadiasmiley9

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I dont think she misses Choti at all. Those scenes are just forced to put her into good limelight for the audience. We all know how she truly she is!

Majboor is lame af! He will definitely reunite with MAA only to be gaslighted by her 10 times and then realising again and again that she can never change. He should definitely get himself checked by a psychiatrist for sure as who would choose a plane Jane filthy lady like MAA over a beautiful sophisticated girl.

Soon as they both reunite, MAA will be back to her duties.

1. Serving Mishter Shah again.

2. Taking care of Baa Baapuji.

3. Taking care of her grandkids like completing their poject.

4. Reunite kavya daughter with Mishter Shah.

5. Remarrying Vanraj with Kavya in a lavish setup sponsored by Anuj.

6. Remarrying Pakhi in a lavish setup sponsored by Anuj.

7. Remarrying Dimpy with Titu in a lavish setup sponsored by Anuj.

8. Remarrying Baa Baapuji to celebrate their anniversary in a lavish setup sponsored by Anuj.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Do anupama is at peace ? Even her sub consious mind is haunting her which make her wake up from sleep, she know she has not done right with Anuj & CA .

D day Anuj will know d reason of anupama actual reason to suddenly leave him , at that time he will able to be in peace . Anupama reason for actually leaving was as she thought Anuj regret marrying her thou he dint meant really that he did cleared it but as anupama is thick head it hitted her , it actually shook d foundation of their relationship so she left thou it she who pushed Anuj to that level,

I don't get why this second chance was brought in when anupama was too been shown so obsessed with Shah's, vanraj se hi remarriage karwa dete ,

Mujhe to ye leap bhi samajh nhi aa raha isse accha hota ye show karte maan &, CA moved to America after breaking ties with Shah family, anupama finally moving on from her obsession with shahs , anupama ki asli udaan yahi how to break her chains from her baggage .

Anuj has tried to move on from anupama in 26 yrs also as he said but failed miserably now also he is trying to but can't help himself as his attachment is 2 strong 4 anupama, he actually wanted a life with anupama which is still incomplete & I dint think his love was sham or fake as I believe he started loving anupama when he returned to India 26 yrs to vo bas ek wish thi , he know d reality but Dil hai ki Manta nhi , agar anupama usse Bina Shah's ke milegi vo 2 second mein usse vapas le lega. He is really not interested in Shruti more than friend but is not coz of really anupama, maybe he really is not looking for a relationship. Anupama ki memory ab haunt kar rahe hai lekin Shruti is living for 4 yrs with him but still couldn't really make place in his heart, it's wrong to blame anupama for everything, there many people who really don't want to get in relationship once their relationship fails .


Vaise bhagwan ne hint Diya CA ki khusi ka as per serial it's anupama, ca happiness lies in complete family


Do logo aur sadma mein hai abhi Tak nikal nhi paa rahe vanar or jhuli unka humesha Jana hota hai ki anupama kya kar rahe hai , inko bhi ek alag obsession hai anupama se jo kabhi khatam nhi hoga

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Posted: 2 years ago
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So if Anupamaa can have another shot at happiness, why cant he?


No, please....this will happen....

picture it...


Adhya had an accident and she is at the hospital....Surthi is taking care of her and is beside her...

Out on the reception chair anuujj is offering Coffee to Maa and sits beside her...

Chinta mat karo anu humari beti ko kuch nahi hoga...

Maa asking him with her abla nari face..aap mujhse naraj nahi hai kapadiya ji...

Anuuj ..hmmm...Ek kagaz ke tukade mein sign karne se rishte nahi totte ....smiley23smiley24


Anuj doesn't have the capacity to forget Maa .....he will do the same to Shruthi if he marries her...

Maa will be happy making Masala Chai....

Anuj will be happy single ...

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: hinz

They are broken. She broke them and they were left to pick the pieces of their shattered relationship…the one that lacked foundation and was so week that it couldnt withstand the blow of miscommunication and misunderstandings.


The foundation was weak from anupama side not anuj side at all. Indeed he was the complete 100% foundation holding on to the relationship for 3 years


While she chose to shut herself off and live a life of solitude, they tried to build a new life together, for each other or lets say they had no option..

Yes, his love of 26 years was a sham, all his fault, I sincerely believe…


Yes it was a sham, but he was like majnu he could not forget his love some people are like that once they love one person they cannot forget. He was an emotional fool as per me not thinking about his own life and family like malvika, GK kaka and blind in anupama love


their marriage, a catastrophical disaster of sorts, both be blamed, I hope you agree…


I thinka nuapma was 80% to be blamed anuj only 20%. His fault was he allowed her to go to vanraj shah house every day. Any other man would only allow on marraige or death ceremony only not otherwise. His fault was he accompained her to shah house and left his kid CA go there. No other husband even in USA would allow all this from wife. His fault was he gave money to her to spend for shahs so she took advantage. His fault was he wrote kapadiya empire to her name. He should have written 50% to malvika nad 50% to CA than we would see how much shahs would love anupama and CA. No sane man will do all that anuj did. Thats why i call him majnu in love


the adoption- an emotional risk, again his fault mostly to have rushed into it without weighing the odds…

Now that the damage is done, he is trying to do the best for his daughter…keeping her happy, safe and away from any further damage and the kid wants the same for him, to be happy, with Shruti to get over his past trauma…


Adoption was for anuj as he wanted to be a father. Anupam anever wanted to be mother of CA as she had 3 kids anuj had none. I do not think its any risk anuj has right to adopt be a father does not requre spouse permissions. All humans have some individual rights in life


Anuj will never get over Anupamaa, but he wants to…he is disturbed by her memories and hasnt so far recollected any of the happy ones whereas Anupamaa thinks of him and their love and reminisces the good times..

She misses CA and worries for her but Aadhya’s memories of her mummy have festered badly…

Anuj is reluctant to marry Shruti cause he feels its unfair when he still hasnt been able to wipe his heart clean of Anupamaa…getting engaged was again not wise/needed if he was unsure but would it be so wrong if he wants to give life another chance? not just for Aadhya or Shruti but for himself..

Anupamaa decided to choose her peace and progress and though she misses her kids, she is happy in her new life, trying to find her feet in a new place…good for her!


Her kids and ex hubby and so called mom dad baa bapuji never ever wanted her or they would call her once or meet her in 5 years. What move on? No one accepted her back so she went and became jogan as she has no skills to do any job other than cooking mopping and in india that job is considered low and very low paying. She was discarded and not accepted by shahs or her own mom so went to become jogan or woman destitute place

So if Anupamaa can have another shot at happiness, why cant he?

Kyuki Dil Hai Ki Manta Nahin…


-loser phan of Mr. Kwestionable Kapadiasmiley9

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Musketeer_95

I dont think she misses Choti at all. Those scenes are just forced to put her into good limelight for the audience. We all know how she truly she is!

Majboor is lame af! He will definitely reunite with MAA only to be gaslighted by her 10 times and then realising again and again that she can never change. He should definitely get himself checked by a psychiatrist for sure as who would choose a plane Jane filthy lady like MAA over a beautiful sophisticated girl.

Soon as they both reunite, MAA will be back to her duties.

1. Serving Mishter Shah again.

2. Taking care of Baa Baapuji.

3. Taking care of her grandkids like completing their poject.

4. Reunite kavya daughter with Mishter Shah.

5. Remarrying Vanraj with Kavya in a lavish setup sponsored by Anuj.

6. Remarrying Pakhi in a lavish setup sponsored by Anuj.

7. Remarrying Dimpy with Titu in a lavish setup sponsored by Anuj.

8. Remarrying Baa Baapuji to celebrate their anniversary in a lavish setup sponsored by Anuj.


Yes she only lives for shahs and works for them


She and shahs will abuse CA once anuj reunite with anupama


Keep that manipulative cunning machivellian woman away from CA and anuj


Shes a gold digger after anuj wealth and his status and powr thats all


She want anuj wealth for shahs thats all


anuj should not spend his wealth on himself or CA that also she objects


She will never love or care for him and CA ever

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Musketeer_95

I dont think she misses Choti at all. Those scenes are just forced to put her into good limelight for the audience. We all know how she truly she is!

Majboor is lame af! He will definitely reunite with MAA only to be gaslighted by her 10 times and then realising again and again that she can never change. He should definitely get himself checked by a psychiatrist for sure as who would choose a plane Jane filthy lady like MAA over a beautiful sophisticated girl.

Soon as they both reunite, MAA will be back to her duties.

1. Serving Mishter Shah again.

2. Taking care of Baa Baapuji.

3. Taking care of her grandkids like completing their poject.

4. Reunite kavya daughter with Mishter Shah.

5. Remarrying Vanraj with Kavya in a lavish setup sponsored by Anuj.

6. Remarrying Pakhi in a lavish setup sponsored by Anuj.

7. Remarrying Dimpy with Titu in a lavish setup sponsored by Anuj.

8. Remarrying Baa Baapuji to celebrate their anniversary in a lavish setup sponsored by Anuj.

Last 4 points smiley37

Mr Shah n Kavya ka bhi divorce ho gaya kya ?

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shake_d_spear


Anuj has tried to move on from anupama in 26 yrs also as he said but failed miserably now also he is trying to but can't help himself as his attachment is 2 strong 4 anupama, he actually wanted a life with anupama which is still incomplete & I dint think his love was sham or fake as I believe he started loving anupama when he returned to India 26 yrs to vo bas ek wish thi , he know d reality but Dil hai ki Manta nhi , agar anupama usse Bina Shah's ke milegi vo 2 second mein usse vapas le lega. He is really not interested in Shruti more than friend but is not coz of really anupama, maybe he really is not looking for a relationship. Anupama ki memory ab haunt kar rahe hai lekin Shruti is living for 4 yrs with him but still couldn't really make place in his heart, it's wrong to blame anupama for everything, there many people who really don't want to get in relationship once their relationship fails .



MaaN was never about Anuj n Upmaaa it was about Upmaaa and Shahs whom Anuj was serving selflessly

Anuj was no where

He was never given respect and attention he deserved

He was living on one hope that someday upmaaa will prioritise him her over her baggages

I Hate Anupamaa.n.pyaar hi maanga tha aur uske chehre pe khushi dekhke bhi anuj khush ho jaata tha.anuj ne haqq jataya ki mujhe time chahiye tumhara to yeah bhaag gayi.this is what i like about the ak, he just melts away blushing etc when anu is aound.anujkapadia kehte rehe gaya anupamaa mera saath kabhi mat chodna main jee nahi paunga just one request... give him & choti some priority bas..Its clearly visible in his body language tht he's missing anupama n he's madly in love with her...But I strongly feel they are waiting for Anupamaa to heal them.... And she will...

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: ga1986

Last 4 points smiley37

Mr Shah n Kavya ka bhi divorce ho gaya kya ?

No.. It's just kavya is just living like a show piece in Vanrajs house. No husband wife dynamics.

Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: lakshmikumr

So if Anupamaa can have another shot at happiness, why cant he?


No, please....this will happen....

picture it...


Adhya had an accident and she is at the hospital....Surthi is taking care of her and is beside her...

Out on the reception chair anuujj is offering Coffee to Maa and sits beside her...

Chinta mat karo anu humari beti ko kuch nahi hoga...

Maa asking him with her abla nari face..aap mujhse naraj nahi hai kapadiya ji...

Anuuj ..hmmm...Ek kagaz ke tukade mein sign karne se rishte nahi totte ....smiley23smiley24


Anuj doesn't have the capacity to forget Maa .....he will do the same to Shruthi if he marries her...

Maa will be happy making Masala Chai....

Anuj will be happy single ...

@ underlined- Ican sosee this happening…is gadhe ko bas yehi aata hai

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