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Originally posted by: Jefen

I am talking about having time or no time. What has Barkha and MD have to do anyway. They have time to even stare at the wall. My point is their attitude, their mannerism and their teachings are not right for CA. In fact, Pakhi, Mr Shah, or even Baa are not good influences for her. Isn't it better for Anupama and Anuj to find themselves a new house to live in and protect her.

Also, the daily fights and arguments, the tantrums of Pakhi are not helping her at all.

What is maa have to do anyways. She have responsibility which is not actually hers. Shah family is not her responsibility. Now also she is going to office and not in shah house because vanraj asked her to stay away.

She needs MD to point out about CA study. Why she doesn’t have time for it. In office she is mostly seen romancing anuj and not working. Why even she have to go there for whole day when all she do there is romancing and talking about shah. She doesn’t work in DA but proclaim herself best dancer.

My problem is not how she have shortcomings and flaws because everyone have them. My problem is how she boosts about her motherhood and doing everything when most of the things are not her responsibility. Everything can be managed without her. No one needs her as much as a 7-8 year old child.

You are saying that what Barkha and MD have to do anyway so it was because of Maa that MD lost everything. MD’s trust in Anupama cost her everything. Barkha have to stay with her husband illegitimacy kid because of Anupama and her own financial problems. Why can’t they fund Barkha’s venture for once if they have so much money to spend on useless shahs.

Yes, Anupama has misplaced priorities but Malti Devi losing her business is Nakul's greed. Also, Barkha not doing anything with her life is Barkha's problem. Please, she is educated and a USA return for goodness sake. How can her doing nothing be Anupama's fault. Also, she always knew Ankush's extramarital affair but she chose to stick around. It is her choice. About Romil is a debatable thing.

Malti need not work to earn at this age but she should be taking care of the family as a grandmother. She needs to be mending her relationship with her son. She should try to mend her relationship with Anupama also. I don't support her politics. Yes, she can scold Anupama but not try to break Anupama's relationship with Anuj or CA. That is wrong in all senses. That is not a mother should be doing. Areh, even when a husband or wife isn't the best, elders duty is to teach them to value and work on their relationship. Here, she is trying to break their relationship. She is also one useless mother.

No one is saying that MD is good mother nor did MD claim that. MD is just pointing out shortcomings of Anupama but Anupama never accepts them. When MD told that they should hire tutor for CA because her performance is not good then also Anupama gave lectures to her and said I will do everything.

When Leela and Hasmukh came and sat on head of family chair she just pointed out that it’s Anuj place but how Anupama gives looks to her.

Infact she gave lecture also when MD came to do her morning Pooja and said there should be one Pooja thali at home. God she was not at home for so many days and MD was doing it but she had to gave lecture on it too.

It was Anupama who was always disrespectful to MD.She keeps giving looks to MD. Her daughter Pakhi is badtameej from starting but for Anupama it’s MD who is doing everything. Her daughter had no fault in anything.

And you are saying that Barkha is doing nothing is not Anupama’s fault but Barkha asked for some funds she could have give it to her but she didn’t. Initially no always Anupama also gets everything on platter too. Sometimes Devika did sifarish for her. Sometimes Samar and Nandini set up DA for her. Sometimes anuj gave project to her just because he wanted to spend time with her. What was Anupama’s qualification for that. So why can’t for once she can help Barkha. It’s very difficult to get funding from outside so just help her for once.

Originally posted by: Snowdrrop

When MD told that they should hire tutor for CA because her performance is not good then also Anupama gave lectures to her and said I will do everything.

Yes, maybe she needed a tutor but the real intention of MD was to let Anuj lose trust in Anupama.

When Leela and Hasmukh came and sat on head of family chair she just pointed out that it’s Anuj place but how Anupama gives looks to her.

And the reason behind behind pointing that out was to embarrass Hasmukh. Good or bad, they came their when Leela was sick. They just lost a young grandson and their son was in depression. She could show at least some humanity for God's sake. At least to Hasmukh. Remember, how Hasmukh was kind to her when she was rejected by her son.

Infact she gave lecture also when MD came to do her morning Pooja and said there should be one Pooja thali at home. God she was not at home for so many days and MD was doing it but she had to gave lecture on it too.

Here as well, the intention of MD.

It was Anupama who was always disrespectful to MD.She keeps giving looks to MD. Her daughter Pakhi is badtameej from starting but for Anupama it’s MD who is doing everything. Her daughter had no fault in anything.

I don't think Anupama thinks that way. She has said this only once to MD to stop instigating her daughter. MD did instigate Pakhi by saying that Anupama loves and cares for Dimpy more. And Anupama knows the attitude and character of Pakhi, she knows that she is badtameez.

And you are saying that Barkha is doing nothing is not Anupama’s fault but Barkha asked for some funds she could have give it to her but she didn’t. Initially no always Anupama also gets everything on platter too. Sometimes Devika did sifarish for her. Sometimes Samar and Nandini set up DA for her. Sometimes anuj gave project to her just because he wanted to spend time with her. What was Anupama’s qualification for that. So why can’t for once she can help Barkha. It’s very difficult to get funding from outside so just help her for once.

I don't know why she should just give away money to someone like that at the first place. And secondly, can Barkha work only if she is given money for a startup? She was working in Anuj's office earlier, she should join again. Or maybe, something else as well. She is educated and experienced. As if all her career and existence depends on Anupama and Anuj alone. If they don't give, she can do nothing. She is just lazy and good for nothing.

Originally posted by: Jefen

I don't know why she should just give away money to someone like that at the first place. And secondly, can Barkha work only if she is given money for a startup? She was working in Anuj's office earlier, she should join again. Or maybe, something else as well. She is educated and experienced. As if all her career and existence depends on Anupama and Anuj alone. If they don't give, she can do nothing. She is just lazy and good for nothing.

@bold: Just the way Anuj funded for Dence Ecedemy losses, Pakhi's unreasonable demands, Paritosh's multiple ventures. Barkha is not a random stranger. She is, in Anuj's own words, Maa samaan Bhabhi.

Barkha has, on multiple occasions categorically mentioned that initially, she was not allowed to work by her in-laws and Ankush.

In the introductory episodes, she raised a very valid "Jiss age me hum hain, abhi zindagi haath se nikal gayi toh use sametna asaan nahin hain."

She is close to 50. Who do you think will hire a 50 year old, with no experience, for a job? Forget that too, who will fund or give loans to a 50-year old with no alternate source of income or a means to re-pay?

Rakhi Dave aur Anuj ne rishte aur andhe pyaar me, Devika ke favours me diya toh diya, Anupama ko bhi kaha khud se juta payi.

In the introductory episodes, Barkha would cook for them ALL, but Anupama lectured about "Kitchen meri Saheli hain" etc. etc. and changed the layout to suit her, slowly distancing her from everything she did around the house.

When she approach Anuj, he asked Anupama to take lead on reviewing the proposal.

Anupama "read the proposal prejentashun" and concluded that: exclusive phasun is not accessible to middle class and we should not spend on exclusive clothing and that there were issues in the quotes and rejected funding.

Batao. This she said when she had no idea of Phinance Literacy.

It means 2 things:

1. The "prejentashun" was excellent because the stakeholder (Anupama) understood a subject that they do not know.

2. Quotes me issues hain toh negotiate kiya jata hain. Seedhe Reject nahin.

Okay, let's say not giving her money to fund her start-up was wrong on Anupama's part. But she was working in Anuj's company. And what did she do? Fraud. She was only there to rob Anuj and take over the company. If she is so concerned about her life and career, she should work gratefully and sincerely. She can work now as well but she rather chose to do nothing.

Originally posted by: Jefen

Okay, let's say not giving her money to fund her start-up was wrong on Anupama's part. But she was working in Anuj's company. And what did she do? Fraud. She was only there to rob Anuj and take over the company. If she is so concerned about her life and career, she should work gratefully and sincerely. She can work now as well but she rather chose to do nothing.

Barkha has never worked in anuj company so far

she only guided adhik to do the fraud whewn anuj was away

barkha never goes to anuj office

Yeh kya hai bhai. She has worked in his company.

Originally posted by: myviewprem

Barkha has never worked in anuj company so far

she only guided adhik to do the fraud whewn anuj was away

barkha never goes to anuj office

We don’t even know what Anuj’s company do. In which field it works. Barkha is not expert in everything like Anupama who can do anything. Adhik joined the business because both the owner left like it means nothing.

I don’t think they did fraud in it. They made loses because they were not experienced in it. They didn’t made money for themselves from it. There decisions were wrong because of inexperience. How it was there fault when owners of company didn’t care for it.

Why didn’t Anupama managed it when Anuj was away and he gave the responsibility to Anupama. She knows everything about office work (as they showed in the show we know she can’t do anything) so she can definitely manage it. Why she run away from it.

Originally posted by: Snowdrrop

We don’t even know what Anuj’s company do. In which field it works. Barkha is not expert in everything like Anupama who can do anything. Adhik joined the business because both the owner left like it means nothing.

I don’t think they did fraud in it. They made loses because they were not experienced in it. They didn’t made money for themselves from it. There decisions were wrong because of inexperience. How it was there fault when owners of company didn’t care for it.

Why didn’t Anupama managed it when Anuj was away and he gave the responsibility to Anupama. She knows everything about office work (as they showed in the show we know she can’t do anything) so she can definitely manage it. Why she run away from it.

Yes, Anupama should have taken care of the company. But they committed fraud and they themselves have mentioned that multiple times... N whatever it is, if Barkha really wants to make herself useful, she can do so. It all depends on her to make herself useful. How is Barkha's laziness, Anupama's responsibility. I mean come on. She is educated and an adult. Her life and career can't be dependent on one funding by Anupama.