Love’s labour lost !

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Posted: 17 years ago
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While waiting at the Jordanian embassy for my visa, I have lots of time to kill, and, what better than DMG to vent my frustration. They both pretty much work in the same way – make you wait and wait hoping that you manage to get what you want!!

What a lot of drama and hulla balloo over an actress leaving a show? Should give you an idea of how much, at one point in time, the audience connected with the show and the chemistry between SA and KSG (I did, I thought the chemistry was awesome ). Unfortunately, the chemistry is all that is left of the show amidst all the crap that has been shown in the last couple of months. And because the chemistry is all that is left, the departure of one half of the chemistry is causing so much distress amongst its ardent followers.

I wonder what makes an actress quit a show, at the peak of her popularity? With seemingly nothing in hand (hoopla about "bigger and better" offers - where, who, what?), and average acting capabilities, what would make her leave a show that defined her as an actress and is her claim to fame? Could it be a convoluted characterization, completely illogical depiction of emotions and lack of any grey matter in her character? Or the rapid deterioration of the storyline?

Or is it that she is as fickle as is being reported on some forums? That she shirks hard work? That she is unprofessional and troublesome on the sets? Or maybe is petulant on a/c of being displaced as the protagonist of the show, cos clearly the show, for a while, has been about the delectable Dr Armaan. Cos if Dr Armaan can juggle his film commitments with his TV ones, I cannot see why she cannot? Wonder what makes an actress disregard all the pleas from her obviously distressed fans? So much so, that she is not willing to do a re-think?

Cos if it is the former, then SA we empathise and sympathise with you.

DMG, in its initial months (till it turned into a crude and slapstick soap) made me smile and the AR romance reminded me of my own courtship. But a big round of applause to the creatives for destroying that illusion.

Even greater kudos to the creatives for not investing in developing any other characters (except for annoying caricatures), so with the AR chemistry no longer there, not much is left for them to play with.

I feel sorry for talented actors like KSG and Pankit who have been unfortunate victims of the creatives' shortsightedness especially poor Pankit (KSG at least is the protagonist and the show is centred around him).

Pankit - a talented actor, a lovable character, look what he has been reduced to? A crude, unrefined chimpanzee who appears to be moronic, dim-witted and a philistine instead of his original quirky, "simple soul" character!

Poor Shubhankar, reduced to a comic, bumbling idiot from a competent, professional, sensitive doctor.

While Keerti has been butchered to a far lesser extent, the transition from the tough-with-a-soft-heart mentor to the sultry siren gyrating to entertain her interns is embarrassing.

Lucky Anjali, she has emerged by and large unscathed from this wreckage. If anything, she's got a makeover! From the wicked stepsister to our Cinderella, she is now being 'Jo" to Ridhima's " Meg" (Little Women).

And Dr Shashank? It must be nice to not have to be sensible, balanced and correct all the time, and, for a change be irrational, illogical and partisan. Wonderful to be finally able to connect at an emotional and intellectual level with your daughter?

Why, oh why, do I still continue to waste my time and hope for some salvation? Maybe because, at one time, it was dear to me, and, because through it, I connected with some wonderful people. So try as I might, I don't seem to be able to let go.

So while we continue to try and fathom the workings of the mind of the creatives, here's hoping that at least the introduction of the new Ridhima will bring back some focus to the story and restore a fraction of the old charm of DMG!! And that some of our optimism in continuing to watch the show would be rewarded.

I fervently hope so, cos at one time, this was one of my favourite shows!

P.S. Just a quick question to everyone moaning about SA. What about poor KSG? I remember seeing this forum being filled with dissection of his anatomy (poor chap), eulogies about his acting prowess, and swoons over his looks. Poor chap, for all the effort he has put into this soap, he's been completely forgotten. Must be a rather humbling experience for him. I suspect he's going to be throwing a tantrum soon!!

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Oh god, can't beleive I actually wrote so much, goes to show how much frustration both DMG and the Jordanian embassy is causing me!!
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Hi Manu.... 👏 👏 👏

As all ways wonderful.
The creatives handling of AR chemistry is like the story of the goose that laid the golden eggs,they killed the goose for greed of more golden eggs.
I wish good luck to SA for her future and hope with the introduction of new face the creatives are forced to get back to story telling instead of using AR chemistry to run the show.

I fully concur,I can only feel for KSG,its his big show and hope everyone doesnt let him down.

Good luck with your VISA.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Exactly, what would make an actress quit a show that literally made her career..as you say defined her as an actress...and is her claim to fame..?

Something I have been wondering about too.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Hi Dilsen,

Great topic. I agree totally with you. We know that the show still has KSG and pankit.
I m also sad to hear SA leaving but then if she wants we can't do anything.

I frankly watch this DMg only for KSG.

We must come up with all Good topics praising other brilliant actors on show than getting overtly deprssed for SA leaving
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Hi Anagha, good to hear from you. Read your post about the off camera interview. While I am not sure that is the 100% truth behind her departure, it probably played a big role. So empathise with her...plus shall miss her chemistry but hopefully the nw girl will be good!
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Hi Manu..i can totally understand the visa frustration...
as regards SA we were discussing this on KK in the morning....me thinks that was one small irrelevant issue for her but an issue all the same considering that it caused some friction...thk her mind was made up already to jump at the first "big" offer which came her way...cant really blame her...waise she could be pointing to the character going completely offbase post confession...and the morals bit might be abt whats to come as in AR might come closer now and maybe she was not comfortable with that in the storyline ahead could be for personal reasons... or she probably realised that she was being reduced to playing a dumb blonde with the constant longing expressions and weird acts...

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Posted: 17 years ago
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da whole post is very well put together !! it actually sums up all dat i am feeling at dis stage n try as i mite i wudnt have been able 2 express myself so well !!!!
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Brilliant post,Manu! 🤗
u've articulated our feelings in such simplified manner..im impressed.replacements r always a risk,i though,am quite hopeful for the new girl..as i was'nt fond of Shilpa much but like u said,chemistry was all dmg had now as creatives(who are'nt really creative) have butchered every single character,so the show has suffered..KSG and Shilpa's onscreen chemistry was amazing and i'll miss tht and the confusions these news r creating r bit depressing too.anywayz i just hope this new girl brings some charm n if we can have the same romance we once had on dmg.
abt Atul,Shub,Keerthi,Angie.. they'r just victims of AR-love track.the way this track is moving actually crawling,others'll never get their chances,not atleast this year(ziada to nahi hogaya😕)..im happy with Angie's progress.u did'nt mention Rahul and Muskaan,they have the same charm as a couple which is yet to be discovered!hope creatives do justice to thm atleast.
Atul has turned the most pathetic of all with his stupid dialogues.Shub n Keerthi,oh!!they better act like senior doctors,plzzz!
Shashank,the dean,is growing old ..maybe tht's why he gets angry on small things..ok correction,cake fight in hospital is not a small issue so the score is in dean's basket 😳 all i feel is we've witnessed downfall of characters before(like Riddz fake rape attempt,second trip to lonavala and so on) but the story line never suffered.the creatives alwayz made an amazing comebck with their ideas but now there's no hope.the characters r ruined n so is the storyline.wonder why we still spend our time with this nonsense? 😕

..u noticed Shilpa has never been so much in news before as now!negative or positive..it's publicity afterall.she can later flaunt abt her one-show-fame.im here for KSG(yummy boy) n he's AWESOME!😎

Question: is getting Jordanian visa as frustrating as dmg??😆

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Posted: 17 years ago
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@manu...I am as well certain these things(I mean the interview thing) may not be the sole reasons but may have pushed her further as well she being privy to the story line might have played the part may be there is no respite for character Ridz in the show..only time will tell.
If we look at it at the end of the day all that her character and she gets is a thorough bashing from viewers across forums.At some point in time the question arises,is it worth it.

@notty...may be a reason...also its was learnt that she had her reservations for doing that item song...zara zara touch me et al..not that she didnt want to do it..but mainly it didnt go with the character per se...and that to for nothing ,it had no significance in the story line..her man laughed it off in the end... 😆

Plus all those SBS interviews were KS were conviniently mixed with AR to create hype...which I am sure were done by the show makers to keep people hooked...dont know what effect these had on her personal equations you know...

I am sure we will be hearing various versions of this story in the coming days for sure.
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