Originally posted by: nivi26
I don't see the point of any complications but RS productionsl creates problems out of thin air. Aur Aisa lagta hai ki audience bhi life ka lesson DKP walo se leti hai.
Khair Production walo ke paas Kam se km ye logic hai ki wo aisi ridiculous kahani isliye dikhate hain kyonki isse TRP milti hai. Real life me bhi log dusro ke dukh se khush hote hain, to TV par bhi yahi sab pasand karte hain.
Personal opinion du... To kbhi bhi this Vs that nahi hona chahiye. Abhira ho ya Roohi... Kisi ko bhi dukh kyon mile? Fandom ke naam par toxicity ki dukaan kholne ka kya matlab hai? Kisi ko Abhinav nahi pasand to kya uske bacche ko dukh milna chahiye? Kisi ko Akshara nahi pasand to kya uske liye Abhira ko dukh milna chahiye? Arohi ne bure kaam kiye to kya usse Roohi ki life barbaad honi chahiye?
Sari problema to Goenakas/Birlas ki hai. Maine Gen 2 nahi dekha to us par kuch nahi kahungi. Par clearly Arohi aur Akshara ko Therapy ki jarurat thi.
Thik hai, unhe therapy nahi dilai to us mistake se seekhe.. waise bhi etne leap ke baad to YRKKH Wale to hamse bhi modern world me jee rahe hain. Ab Roohi ki therapy to karani chahiye thi.
Log to crime karke jail gaye relative ko bhi puri tarah nahi chodte (chodna bhi nahi chahiye. Galat karne walo ko saja milni chahiye, abondonment nahi), yaha to Goenkas ne baar2 Akshra ko abandon kiya hai.
Rahi baat mental health ki... To clearly Akshara se jyada Trauma to kisi ne face nahi Kiya hai. Survivor's guilt, panic disorder, financially insecure life, baar baar apno khona...
Just because wo heroine hai to iska matlab ye nahi ki wo hamesha sahi hogi ya Devi hogi. Usi tarah Heroine hai to iska matlab wo hamesha sabse weak ya sabse strong hogi! TV makers to khair etne Knowledgeable nahi hote/na unhe serious art me dilchaspi hai, unhe to somehow TRP chahiye aur bas. Lekin Audience me kya koi thoda bhi educated nahi?
Aur Twitter par aur IF par kai threads me log Akshra ki Abhinav se shadi par uski burai kar rahe. Baap re! Dubaara pyar seek karne ya kisi par rely karne me kya burai hai?
Dusra, I get it... South Asia me women ko is mentality ke saath bada kiya jata hai ki sare "carework" ki jimmedari us par daali jati hai, uski "care" koi nahi karta hai. Waise bhi "modern world" me to aurat Ghar sambhalane aur Paisa kamane ki dohari responsibility utha rahi. Par kya ye "normal" hai?? Khud se pucho??
Kal ko kisi disabled women ko heroine banakar serial banaye koi to aap log usse bhi yahi expect karenge ki (aur tv Wale bhi yahi dikhayenge) wo PWD hone ke baavjud Ghar ki sari jimmedari akele nibha leti hai!!
Women can be fallible... They are both strong and weak in different circumstances because they are bloody humans, not Devis. Ye alag baat hai ki society ne un par hamesa "strong" bane rahne ka pressure daal rakha hai.
Isliye women bhi aisi FL se resent karti hain jo hamesa strong na bani rahe!
Aur "pain" koi competition ki cheez thode hai!
Aur TV par sabse toxic cheez to Maine ye notice ki hai ki FLs aur TV audience Domestic Violence karne wale Male characters ko maaf kar deti hain, par Sisters ki choti baat ki rivalry etni dense dikhai jati hai ki ek seedhe Vamp ban jati hai. Kya wo unhe bajay "vamp" dikhane ke "complicated individuals" ke rup me nahi dikha sakte?
Anyway... This is my two cents!