Seeing Manjiri's reaction Akshu shouldn't marry[All about Manjari here - Page 12

Originally posted by: Lethamukund

Court stated that hiding Abhir's identity was wrong. And custody was given to Abhi.

I am not justifying Akshara. What she did was wrong. But what circumstances made her to take decision of Abhir's paternity and bringing in Abhinav to her life was understandable, if you can understand the pain she has undergone on WD and post WD. It was not an outcome of her anger issues. She was helpless and vulnerable, left alone. She was taking a decision which she felt was the right at her given point of time.

But Abhimanyu's decision of divorcing her and not getting back to her is an outcome of his anger on her. He should have acted mature way for the entire sequence.

That's the difference between the two characters

So he is also equally responsible for what he has to suffer by staying unaware of his son.

What Ak did was a crime not wrong but a crime as said by the court in episode. Abhi has an outburst, he didn't take a decision like when we are angry at moderators we say we are leaving forum and people come back every day. Only Ak isn't entitled to Emotions, Abhi is a human too, he came to his senses way before Ak did, Abhi should be a demi God who can't falter at any given point of his life, forget that he was going through an emotional turmoil with deaths in his family. He was mature enough to give medicine to Ak and asked her to go to sleep but Ak wasn't mature enough to give him a few minutes alone.

Originally posted by: SwatiSingh79

What Ak did was a crime not wrong but a crime as said by the court in episode. Abhi has an outburst, he didn't take a decision like when we are angry at moderators we say we are leaving forum and people come back every day. Only Ak isn't entitled to Emotions, Abhi is a human too, he came to his senses way before Ak did, Abhi should be a demi God who can't falter at any given point of his life, forget that he was going through an emotional turmoil with deaths in his family. He was mature enough to give medicine to Ak and asked her to go to sleep but Ak wasn't mature enough to give him a few minutes alone.

If we can justify Abhimanyu's decision of divorcing Akshara in the name of his emotions and anger, we can justify Akshara's decision of not coming back and bringing Abhinav into pic in the name of her helplessness and vulnerability. Both are wrong or right and it depends on our perspective to look at the things

My post is very simple ABHIMANYU is being transformed into Abhinav Sharma 2. He is getting all traits living in would be sasural no job and calling some ones baby as his own and requesting paternity leave Akshara Sharma always opt for giving the kid bio father name Mahanta being processed with perfect recipe

Next he will be in lock up and Akshara releasing him reminds me of an old episode where AbhiN had same fate

Hope AbhiM goes to sane cliff

Originally posted by: Lethamukund

If we can justify Abhimanyu's decision of divorcing Akshara in the name of his emotions and anger, we can justify Akshara's decision of not coming back and bringing Abhinav into pic in the name of her helplessness and vulnerability. Both are wrong or right and it depends on our perspective to look at the things

Both acted according to their circumstances, when people are emotional they can't take rational decision. I only point out what Ak did when I see Abhi being dragged tor WD, both were wrong and right in their position but only one of them apologised, only one of them suffered and is still suffering, only one of them lost childhood of their first born other one after being proven guilty in court pulls a 'Vanraj is back' at Birla House

Originally posted by: Sonali1968

My post is very simple ABHIMANYU is being transformed into Abhinav Sharma 2. He is getting all traits living in would be sasural no job and calling some ones baby as his own and requesting paternity leave Akshara Sharma always opt for giving the kid bio father name Mahanta being processed with perfect recipe

Next he will be in lock up and Akshara releasing him reminds me of an old episode where AbhiN had same fate

Hope AbhiM goes to sane cliff

You see you are saying all these as An's traits proves a point you trying not to make. Abhi never made a big deal about not taking help from people, he helped Goenkas when their son was womanizing not caring about their family business. It was An who turned down a job offer saying he can't take help from his sasural and continued living there, took diamond jewelery, resort trips and what not when he had a loan to pay. When Abhira got married Abhi had said Ak can stay in Birla House and he'll stay in Goenka house, and he was never the one to get offended with regressive terms like Ghar jamahi. None would have said anything about An if he wasn't being a hypocrite about taking help because it wasn't help but a job where he had to work to earn his living, which is much better than staying with them and taking financial help for free. Abhi is a doctor, he isn't unemployed, he is under no financial strain unlike An.

Originally posted by: SwatiSingh79

Both acted according to their circumstances, when people are emotional they can't take rational decision. I only point out what Ak did when I see Abhi being dragged tor WD, both were wrong and right in their position but only one of them apologised, only one of them suffered and is still suffering, only one of them lost childhood of their first born other one after being proven guilty in court pulls a 'Vanraj is back' at Birla House

Yes. It hurts when you see your favourite character being called out for his mistakes. But it's more disheartening to see people call a female character and unborn child different names (all the while the child is out of a legal marriage), whereas both the protagonists are equally at fault.

It's more disgusting to see how people forget they are characters and drag actors into it. At the end of the day, they are just doing their job only.

PS: Please don't take it otherwise. I did not mean that you are doing it. But this is what I have been seeing around for the past couple of months.

Originally posted by: Lethamukund

Yes. It hurts when you see your favourite character being called out for his mistakes. But it's more disheartening to see people call a female character and unborn child different names (all the while the child is out of a legal marriage), whereas both the protagonists are equally at fault.

It's more disgusting to see how people forget they are characters and drag actors into it. At the end of the day, they are just doing their job only.

PS: Please don't take it otherwise. I did not mean that you are doing it. But this is what I have been seeing around for the past couple of months.

What does this have to do with my reply or our discussion?

Originally posted by: SwatiSingh79

Both acted according to their circumstances, when people are emotional they can't take rational decision. I only point out what Ak did when I see Abhi being dragged tor WD, both were wrong and right in their position but only one of them apologised, only one of them suffered and is still suffering, only one of them lost childhood of their first born other one after being proven guilty in court pulls a 'Vanraj is back' at Birla House

What did you mean by only one of them suffered?Yes Akshara got to see their child's childhood which Abhimanyu cannot.Did that makes Ak s sufferings not sufferings?didn't she too lose their one child?Do you think it doesn't matter to her or Neil s death?And is it easy to hear to not come back in his life from the man you loved ?did you think what she must have felt when she got divorce papers signed from the man himself?It was her decision to stay away for 7 years from her own people but it might not be easy for her.Just because Abhimanyu dint marry again and preach he loves akshu every time and akshu don't do all these doesn't make Ak's sufferings any less.And people may forget what their enemies did to them but it most impossible to forget the trauma s given by loved ones.

Originally posted by: Lethamukund

Yes. It hurts when you see your favourite character being called out for his mistakes. But it's more disheartening to see people call a female character and unborn child different names (all the while the child is out of a legal marriage), whereas both the protagonists are equally at fault.

That's what it is..fiction is very different from real life..in blind love , ppl tend to be biased ....ignoring the red flags for the apparent " good deeds" ..it becomes impossible to see the person for who he really is.....for a fictional character it hardly matters..but in real life when this happens , the relationship starts getting toxic..it becomes a burden ..which woman would "like" to hear divorce threats from her husband & ignore it bec he loves her or loved her ? Stuff like she's a panauti to his family, she's no good , shes a murderer , she only brings destruction blah blah ..then claim to love the same woman for 7 yrs. but only akshara will be called out for insane ideas like marriage with the ex.

Originally posted by: elizamerin

What did you mean by only one of them suffered?Yes Akshara got to see their child's childhood which Abhimanyu cannot.Did that makes Ak s sufferings not sufferings?didn't she too lose their one child?Do you think it doesn't matter to her or Neil s death?And is it easy to hear to not come back in his life from the man you loved ?did you think what she must have felt when she got divorce papers signed from the man himself?It was her decision to stay away for 7 years from her own people but it might not be easy for her.Just because Abhimanyu dint marry again and preach he loves akshu every time and akshu don't do all these doesn't make Ak's sufferings any less.And people may forget what their enemies did to them but it most impossible to forget the trauma s given by loved ones.

I don't get this. Yesterday I said Ak and An weren't happy and I got lectures. Now I agree that they were happy still I am getting lectures. So which is it? Was she happy with An or not?