The lame excuse of going to SH..

So i saw that scene where SIMPNUJ as usual defended his useless moron namesake wife going against his sane family members. WHAT'S NEW

I want to recreate the scene where Barkha accuses SH members of constantly calling Anupama . Anuj replies that WAHAN USKA PARIWAR HAI, AUR USKE BACHE HAIN. ( Yes, the same PARIWAR that exploited her for 26 years and the only 2 BACHE who only think about themselves. BTW Pakhi is in KM , know?? The only 1 who loved her is dead).

SIMPNUJ gave the example of Sara Adhilk that won't she go back to them in trouble?

It was like makers were telling us to stop criticising Anupama for going back to SH. ITNA HI HAI TO APNI SAGI MAA KE PAAS BHI JAYA KARO DEVI G. ITNA MAA MAA KARTI HO, APNI ASLI MAA KA NAAM BHI NAHI LETI. SAGE BAAP KA TO BHOOL HI JAO KI THA BHI KOI....

Had I been in Barkha's place, I would have said :

YES, Anuj parents got to be there for their kids in trouble but not every time. If we keep solving all their problems, even when they grow into adults, they will never grow up mentally. Parents are not supposed to live forever solving their kids problems. Thats toxic parenting. The biggest disservice done to a child by a parent would be solving all their problems not letting them deal themselves. They are supposed to make mistakes and learn.

How are these children supposed to face life if we keep solving their each and every issue like your wife does? Like how she went away straight at midnight just to make Pari stop crying. That house has many adults but only Anupama can do it. Like really????

I completely understand in the case of small children who are unable to understand the complexities of world. But as parents we need to stop somewhere. We can't keep MOLLYCODDLING them at each and every point of life and not letting them deal with their problems themselves . We should only interfere when it's too big for them.

Anupama's kids are all adults and that too married. But still you can see how mature they are. That Toshu had tried to fraudulently run his business by using your name, disrespected his mother a lot only coming to her for a purpose , stole money from his own house and is still unemployed. I don't even know about his past .

This Pakhi is not even a graduate but still you gave her a job. Like wow!!!! How she respects that? By staying in KM and going to SH all day like her mother . She too disrespects Anupama, stole money during wedding fir a necklace, abused my Adhik ,and what not. These same kids are backing off when Anupama needs them and she gives long lectures of sanskaars to us about MAMTA and all. Leaving Samar who was the only decent one but still he was spineless and flipped on his wife's whims. I am sorry for speaking this now but he was indeed childish dependent on his mother like his siblings .

Sorry to say but Anupama's mollycoddling has left them completely useless . I blame Vanraj more but Anupama still guves that man free pass for everything.

Nobody can say that her kids are grown adults. They behave like toddlers and Anupama keeps hiding their mistakes while is hypocrite enough to blame others kids and question others parenting skills. Don't you remember how broken Adhik was when Pakhi abused him and Anupama kept silent on her daughters nasty behavior? She became a lion when Adhik was doing the same to Pakhi and even abused Romil when Pakhi was missing.

To answer your question, yes I will be there for Adhik and Sara but only for them, not for my abusuve ex husband and his family. What have you to do with him after divorces??

Do you even see how she defends her ex and serves his family like she is still their bahu? My Sara and Adhik are adults whom I have taught to deal with their problems maturely on their own unlike your wife whose faulty parenting is worshipped by everyone. Look how her mentally weak her 3 kids are.

And what pariwar are you talking about? Those fools who abused your wife for many years and still take advantage of her at every point??? Don't you see how easily they flip when their purpose is done with Anupama?? They threw her out but still she walks to them . I will not talk about that Baa but that bapuji has always been a silent spectator to her abuse which is an equal crime. He is the one who mamipulates everyone.

ANUJ AREN'T 'T ANUPAMAS ACTUAL MOTHER KANTA AUNTY AND BHAVESH SUPPOSED TO GET THE SAME LOVE SHE GIVES TO THOSE PEOPLE? I havent even heard her talking about them as much as she does about her so called BACHON KA BAAP. Can't she visit her real family? She never forgets to call BAA baapuji , but has very less involved with her mother. She talks about MAA ye wo but fails to acknowledge her birth mother. GOD DAMN, SHE LIVES JUST 1 LANE AWAY FROM HER SO CALLED MAAYKA AND MIGHT HAVE VISITED THEIR ONLY ONCE A MONTH.

BAAPUJI BAAPUJI, Anuj I haven't even for once seen her remembering her real father? She gives long lectures on Vanrajs fatherhood but hasn't acknowledged her real father. DO YOU EVEN KNOW HER REAL FATHERS NAME?

P. S. THIS SHOW NEEDS TO BE BANNED ASAP. IT US LITERALLY TAKING AWAY PEOPLE'S SANITY ESPECIALLY MINE. I CAN'T EVEN TYPE WORDS PROPERLY NOW.

Originally posted by: Musketeer_95

So i saw that scene where SIMPNUJ as usual defended his useless moron namesake wife going against his sane family members. WHAT'S NEW

I want to recreate the scene where Barkha accuses SH members of constantly calling Anupama . Anuj replies that WAHAN USKA PARIWAR HAI, AUR USKE BACHE HAIN. ( Yes, the same PARIWAR that exploited her for 26 years and the only 2 BACHE who only think about themselves. BTW Pakhi is in KM , know?? The only 1 who loved her is dead).

SIMPNUJ gave the example of Sara Adhilk that won't she go back to them in trouble?

It was like makers were telling us to stop criticising Anupama for going back to SH. ITNA HI HAI TO APNI SAGI MAA KE PAAS BHI JAYA

Had I been in Barkhaa place, I would have said : YES, Anuj parents got to be there for their kids in trouble but not every time. If we keep solving all their problems, even when they grow into adults, they will never grow up mentally. Parents are not supposed to live forever solving their kids problems. The biggest disservice done to a child by a parent would be solving all their problems not letting them deal with life. How are these children supposed to face life ?

I completely understand in the case of small children who are unable to understand the complexities of world. But as parents we need to stop somewhere. We can't keep MOLLYCODDLING them at each and every point of life and not letting them deal with their problems. We should only interfere when it's too big for them.

Anupamas kids are all adults and that too married. But still you can see how mature they are. That Toshu had tried to fraudulently run his business by using your name, disrespected his mother a lot only coming to her for a purpose , stole money from his own house is still unemployed.

This Pakhi is not even graduate but still you gave her a job. How she respects that? By staying in KM and going to SH all day like her mother . She too disrespects Anupama, stole money during wedding, abused my Adhik ,and what not. These same kids are backing off when Anupama needs them. Leaving Sanar who was the only decent one but still he was spineless and flipped on his wifes whims.

Sorry to say but Anupamas mollycoddling has left them completely useless . Nobody can say that her kids are grown adults.

To answer your question, yes I will be there for Adhik and Pakhi but only for them, not for my abusuve ex husband and his family. Do you even see how she defends her ex and serves his family like she is still their bahu? My Sara and Adhik are adults whom I have taught to deal with their problems maturely on their own unlike your wife whose faulty parenting is worshipped by everyone. Look how her mentally weak her 3 kids are.

And what pariwar are you talking about? Those fools who abused your wife for many years and still take advantage of her at every point??? Don't you see how easily they flip when their purpose is done with Anupama?? They threw her out but still she walks to them . I will not talk about that Baa but that bapuji has always been a silent spectator to her abuse which is an equal crime. He is the one who mamipulates everyone.

ANUJ AREN'T 'T ANUPAMAS ACTUAL MOTHER KANTA AUNTY AND BHAVESH SUPPOSED TO GET THE SAME LOVE SHE GIVES TO THOSE PEOPLE? I havent even heard her talking about them as much as she does about her so called BACHON KA BAAP. Can't she visit her real family? She never forgets to call BAA baapuji , but has very less involved with her mother. She talks about MAA ye wo but fails to acknowledge her birth mother. GOD DAMN, SHE LIVES JUST 1 LANE AWAY FROM HER SO CALLED MAAYKA AND MIGHT HAVE VISITED THEIR ONLY ONCE A MONTH.

BAAPUJI BAAPUJI, Anuj I haven't even for once seen her remembering her real father? She gives long lectures on Vanrajs fatherhood but hasn't acknowledged her real father. DO YOU EVEN KNOW HER REAL FATHERS NAME?

P. S. THIS SHOW NEEDS TO BE BANNED ASAP. IT US LITERALLY TAKING AWAY PEOPLE'S SANITY ESPECIALLY MINE. I CAN'T EVEN TYPE WORDS PROPERLY NOW.

Even didi does not know name of her father bcoz there is only pita in this world and woh hai mishter shah

Have u seen 3 idiots movie in which Boman irani says ...duniya sirf no 1 ko jaanti hai..2 ko nahi..

Ishliye didi ko ek hi baap pata hai, baaki sab laapata hai

Hehehe

There are no excuses. Khullam khulla bolo ki Vanar ki sewa karne jaa rahi hai though he has his own wyphe and half a dozen phemli members. But since they are all ujeless, the King requests the presence of his favourite Maid