anupama treating anuj like option

What sort of atrocious behaviour is this

What is wife duty? To stand by husband when full world abandon him or accuses him

Even court will say a family need not give witness in court opp a family member

But Shahs are continuously abusing anuj when he was classmate, lover now husband but this anupama always supports Shahs against anuj

Which husband will tolerate his wife supporting ex husband or ex in laws over him ever. They would just throw wife out of house if she dares support anyone else

Whether in any holy scripture of any religion it says wife duty to support husband in pain and happiness in good health or ill health

But anupama thinks vanraj is her husband and shahs her family so only supports them as per laws and scriptures never anuj or any kapadiyas

When vanraj is continously abusing anuj since samar death all anupama doing keeping quiet. Is she fit to be anuj wife? And this jhoru ka ghulam holding her pallu and begging her than warn her not to come back to kapadiya house since she does not do one duty of wife and supporting him ever agianst shah abuses

Than comes CA again its mothers duty to take care of child specially small kids till they are 18 years old

CA is 7 years but anupama always behind her 21 plus kids only like pakhi, toshu who have spouse

CA has none than mom to take care of her

Anupama is taking advantage of anuj only because he has no real family no mom, dad, siblings, neice and nephews like Shahs

If only anuj had not sent away Mukku and GK akka nad let them be abused t ahnads of shahs and vanraj he would have some sppport in life against toxic narcissist anupama and shahs

Anuj is a kind of person who would have taken stand for upma even in state of grieving if someone was manhandling her . V literally pushed Anuj so many times & sherni upma ji is acting like she doesn't know Anuj

Abhi bhi chance hai Anuj bhaag jaa and inko paisa dena band karo Shahs ka income nahi hai. Sirf Kinjal akeli kitna karegi

Ridiculous. And she claims to love and trust him and Choti Anu over everyone else.

I mean, they will throw the wife out of the 'house' if 'she dares support anyone else' as if that is not literal domestic violence. The tone of some of the things I read on the internet

Just because an individual woman is a toxic fictional character, let not justify misogynistic gender roles for the sake of our hatred/love of a character.

People can divorce their bad wives, you know, without turning machismo machismo domestic violence okay

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Ridiculous. And she claims to love and trust him and Choti Anu over everyone else.

Originally posted by: hinz

Anupamaa is well known to make tall claims…what really matters to her is the Shah clan and only them…

Is it possible that Choti Anu publicly questions Anupama ki Maya kaise Mari?

I want to know what Anupama's answer would be.

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Is it possible that Choti Anu publicly questions Anupama ki Maya kaise Mari?

I want to know what Anupama's answer would be.

Originally posted by: Blueeeee

I mean, they will throw the wife out of the 'house' if 'she dares support anyone else' as if that is not literal domestic violence. The tone of some of the things I read on the internet

Just because an individual woman is a toxic fictional character, let not justify misogynistic gender roles for the sake of our hatred/love of a character.

People can divorce their bad wives, you know, without turning machismo machismo domestic violence okay

i did not say do domestic violence like vanraj to anuj

but as a husband he must help her change her priorities and tell her consequences if she ignores him

even kids will have issues with mother if she spends more time in mayka forget ex hubby or step dad home

every husband or wife will first warn spouse if they will change come on correct path before seeking divorce

no one will just say divorce without trying to correct spouse first

Originally posted by: myviewprem

i did not say do domestic violence like vanraj to anuj

but as a husband he must help her change her priorities and tell her consequences if she ignores him

even kids will have issues with mother if she spends more time in mayka forget ex hubby or step dad home

every husband or wife will first warn spouse if they will change come on correct path before seeking divorce

no one will just say divorce without trying to correct spouse first

Sorry but saying that a husband will throw his wife out the house if "she dares" to support anyone else is making a conjuction and about a very inequal relationship. You weren't talking of Anuj and Anupamaa needing to help each orher establish boundaries; you were talking of how marriages in general work— and this is not how they work. Nobody can throw out a woman out of her marital house irl because legally that falls under domestic violence. Vanraj is a nonety to me so I ain't falling in that debate. "Correct spouse" kya hota hai? Bacchi hai kya ki bolo isse milna band kardo nahi toh tv privileges band kar denge tumhara... Partners either work together or separate. Anyone who punishes their partner is an abuser.

Even previously, you had talked of him being a "hen-pecked husband" who "bends to his wife and in-laws" ans how men like him do not tolerate bending to their wives and in-laws irl. Are men "like him" doing a favour by marrying women? No.

Anuj and Anupamaa can be million shades of wrong and codependency. But nothing actually is wrong with being a husband who is soft towards his wife, listens to her, and caters to her family because every girl is socialised to do so for him and his family as part of her 'wifely duties'— as if marriage were a naukri.