AbhiM wasn't expected to forgive Ak imho. He was expected to at least let her exist around his house until she got healed or at least take her to a doctor or something. Take the basic care of her after she had an abortion. Maybe he could have waited on his decision to divorce her. AbhiM divorcing her wasn't the problem for me.
The problem was how he handled the situation and lost his sense of self and ruined everything by humiliating her mentally and divorcing her when she was already mentally broken from her miscarriage and losing her brother-like figure. At least Muskaan let AbhiM stay at her house for Abhir. She at least proved that she could deal with her anger and keep it at bay.
That would have been expected if Ak didn't have her maika around or wasn't capable enough to take care of her own self. She had her whole goenka family to look after her. Why is abhimanyu supposed to handle this woman along with mourning the death of his brother , child . He also had his mother on the verge of dying too when she was having attacks ,not being able to release her grief as akshara the killer was constantly dancing around Neil's body.
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