Originally posted by: dotheDrama
I don't understand what is wrong in telling one's spouse not to interfere in family matters that are beyond repair. Especially after knowing the dynamics.
I have been through something similar and I totally understand how forcefully inserting yourself in your spouse's family problems can potentially lead to miscommunication in a marriage. There is nothing anti-feminist about this.
In fact, Abhi went above and beyond trying to understand and fulfill Akshara's wish for a happy and complete family. Whereas, Akshara did not even wait to be married before she started interfering in Birla's family issues. Akshara is a nosy character who thinks she can walk around claiming to know everything and can solve everyone's problems.
Joint family and Akshara can’t go hand in hand. Look at her dealing ways, jab maayke ki joint family mai thi tab aarohi se deal karna nahi aata tha and joint family mai rehne se shanti usko akele rehne mai milti thi so sacrifice ke naam par baar baar ghar se dur bhag jati thi .
Uske baad shaddi kar ke joint family mai gayi, waha bhi same siyappa, samaj he nahi aaya ki dusre couples ko independently unka life handle karne dena chahiye and sab couple ke mamle mai kudne ka usko right nahi mil jata after shaddi or whatever. Khera se deal karna nahi aya toh husband ko he bina bataye saal bhar desh chod kar chali gayi ! My god 😆
Abhinav ke sath itne saal ek he reason se tik gayi thi kyunki joint family chodo there was “no family” and as always Akshara ko Shanti akele reh kar he milti hai😆
Bahot dekhi hai Akshara jaisi real life mai, shaddi kar ke joint family mai aate he har couple ke bich tang adana shuru , aise logo ko dictate na karo ki bhai apni shaddi mai focus rakkho toh yeh toh joint family ke har dusre couple ka already jhand life zyada jhand bana de and that’s what she exactly did. Dictate karna bhi fail gaya iske case mai toh.
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