Originally posted by: poobaniparvati9
Not only that, Vanraj told her "tumhe Anirudh ke paas jaana hain toh jao", when he was lusting after Anupama and wanting her back in his life! He was very happy and didn't bother about them being together. Emotional infidelity is a bigger thing than physical infidelity also for many people so don't know what Anupama means by "tumne sirf dhoka diya hain, khaaya nahin hain" because when kavya was crying in her room, Vanraj was blushing and smiling dreaming about Anupama. Don't think that part is even going to be addressed in the show, it's conveniently forgotten as "ex wife ki chinta thi". It was disgusting and more than just chinta!
Kavya's main mistake is coming back to Vanraj and the so called "loving" family. If she had just left the house and didn't come back after being pregnant with Anirudh's child, it would have been fine.
Vanraj doesn't lust anupama because he always used to get masale ki smell from her n she is still cooking all time so he can't get seduced by her ever.
He just want his free maid so he can go outside tension free n sleep around with other's wife.
For any outsider like anupama, won't know the infidelity details except the couple. Anupama was indirectly told by vanraj about his feelings but she doesn't know kavya knows it. For anupama n anyone else it would seem like vanraj n kavya love each from last 10+ years n just have issues in marriage like anuj anupama too had.
But, kavya should have told Anupama how vanraj actually forced her to leave n kept torturing her n he wanted anupama back n not kavya. And he cheated first her with malvika n then anupmaa. Outsiders won't remember everything a spouse had to go through but kavya has endured all so it was time for her to speak up n not take the guilt n blame.
Kavya seem to be wanting father's name for her child as anirudh told her it can be vanraj's child. Ideally she should have taken divorce from vanraj immediately n filed paternity case on anirudh to make her child's future safe. But she just wants curses n taunts for her child like she n anupama got because it's like drugs for them.😆 They enjoy it inspite of knowing it's harmful for mental health.
Edited by naaznin - 2 years ago
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