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Originally posted by: Ashviniv

yeah i am guessing that. He will help khushi to love herself and in process fell in love with her....The epilogue might be the DML of this VD, we will know what all happened in Arshi's life after a point from his POV 😉

may be the second last chapter is khushi and VD's shaadi ka taiyyari and Arnav getting read to sing Channa mereya with aman and akash to help him. Arpita then will disappear for a month. We will fill threads assuming khushi is happy with VD, Arnav is mopping somewhere in himalayas or may be swiss alps this time and then arpita will throw curveball after a month and tell us the marriage didnt actually happen and arnav and khushi are in swiss alps skiing....whoosh, whoosh whoosh

Ok i have officially lost it 🤣

Arnav become Baba and spiritually enlightened during his trip to Himalaya. 🤓 he joined the Nagas and wandered around the Himalaya in his natural self.

We need face for VD.

Pls no Varun Dhawan🤢.

Vidyut jammwal? Sidharth Malhotra or Aditya Roy kapur. ☺️. They do fit the bill of NRI amrican munda.

And it’s his fault for being utterly wasted. And I don’t see how Lavenya could have planned this for months. She had no way of knowing he would be in Panchagani. She just took advantage of the situation.

So in other words his needs were such that by being drunk he couldn’t control himself? What if he would have made the mistake to get behind the wheel and hit someone? So being drunk in that case mitigates the circumstances. True he wouldn’t have normally hit someone with a car but that doesn’t undo the damage. He placed himself in that situation I don’t care what his state of mind was. He is a grown man that acts responsibly in most situations. Being drunk does not absolve him.

I get really worked up for people making excuses for poor choices. It might have been gray when a deed is done but for the one who is hurt it is black and white. If your life is thrown for a toss because your partner had sex with someone else or you were the one thrown literally for a toss when hit by a car your life is forever altered by that person’s poor decision.

Originally posted by: lechuarshi

Arnav become Baba and spiritually enlightened during his trip to Himalaya. 🤓 he joined the Nagas and wandered around the Himalaya in his natural self.

We need face for VD.

Pls no Varun Dhawan🤢.

Vidyut jammwal? Sidharth Malhotra or Aditya Roy kapur. ☺️. They do fit the bill of NRI amrican munda.

yeah no varun Dhawan please. Aditya Roy Kapur 😳

Originally posted by: BollyBabe75

And it’s his fault for being utterly wasted. And I don’t see how Lavenya could have planned this for months. She had no way of knowing he would be in Panchagani. She just took advantage of the situation.

So in other words his needs were such that by being drunk he couldn’t control himself? What if he would have made the mistake to get behind the wheel and hit someone? So being drunk in that case mitigates the circumstances. True he wouldn’t have normally hit someone with a car but that doesn’t undo the damage. He placed himself in that situation I don’t care what his state of mind was. He is a grown man that acts responsibly in most situations. Being drunk does not absolve him.

Originally posted by: Learrntowrite

that’s my whole point. He got up to leave still in his senses. Lavanya coming on to him is not his fault.

It has become an extreme grey area isha. At one moment i feel its not, but on another i feel if he continued even after understanding it is not khushi he is at fault.

I DON'T KNOW.

Originally posted by: Pujakrishna

So arpita you are confirming the whole thing indeed happened? And indeed was a drunken mistake by arnav even after he understood it was not khushi?

(Damn i am worse than khushi man, i am still asking and holding hopes)

The highlighted part i agree too arpita, the consent was acquired through fraud, but for now what's bugging me is he understood not once but more than that, that it was not khushi but carried on. Changes the whole narrative for me.

The bold part is what is troubling the most to Khushi too. And this is the exact part that leads Arnav to be extremely harsh with himself. We (including Arnav himself) are all basing this on the premise that he could have stopped himself all this while. And I am completely okay with whatever it is that you guys choose to believe. That he should have been able to stop.

The thing however is, as someone correctly wrote, is the inhibitions under alcohol which go down. You don't really possess a sense of right and wrong. Arnav was in a vulnerable situation, and someone was there to take advantage of it. Who did not understand that a no means no.

Isha, no one is disputing that he was taken advantage of. But, he was so drunk by his own deeds that he evidently gave in and in the end his inhibitions were so down that it happened. Even though he vaguely remembers what happened he didn’t stop because he was so drunk by his own hands. It was his decision to place himself in that situation. So what if she came on to him. He should have stopped drinking and left as soon as he saw the type of party it was but instead in his own words he decided to let go and stay.

Originally posted by: VeiledWords

The bold part is what is troubling the most to Khushi too. And this is the exact part that leads Arnav to be extremely harsh with himself. We (including Arnav himself) are all basing this on the premise that he could have stopped himself all this while. And I am completely okay with whatever it is that you guys choose to believe. That he should have been able to stop.

The thing however is, as someone correctly wrote, is the inhibitions under alcohol which go down. You don't really possess a sense of right and wrong. Arnav was in a vulnerable situation, and someone was there to take advantage of it. Who did not understand that a no means no.

He tried refusing but in the end his body gave up the fight due to alcohol in his system.

Like not from stories perspective, let’s say some other couple and same thing happened. I am just trying to understand more not questioning anything.

I will also go and read more on it. Because not jumping to any conclusions so soon.

Originally posted by: Pujakrishna

It has become an extreme grey area isha. At one moment i feel its not, but on another i feel if he continued even after understanding it is not khushi he is at fault.

I DON'T KNOW.

arnav himself is convinced that he was wrong. Now he has convinced Khushi too. Let’s say Aman comes up and tells him his drink was spiked. Arnav will still have these memories where he knew it wasn’t Khushi and according to him he didn’t say no enough times.

So the damage is already done. The more I think the more I believe is that Arnav has already declared himself guilty.

It also speaks a lot about his behaviour towards self. The way he has behaved with Khushi in the last months was not normal. Him not being able to even be in the same room did not emerge from any hatred towards Khushi. It emerged from his hatred towards himself. I know after reading Khushi’s pov all of us have forgotten it but he has been his harshest critic on this whole Lavanya episode. His behaviour on the Nepal trip was a proof of that. Him believing that Khushi didn’t deserve to be married to someone like him is a proof of that.

So I am choosing to let this topic go because my heart hurts for him. No human, male or female should ever be subjected to inappropriate touches. Let’s say he walked out towards the end and did not give in. Would that make it okay that Lavanya kissed him repeatedly against his wishes? What if it was a girl in his place? In my mind, he has been violated and it’s a very sensitive topic.

But in the story, it doesn’t matter anymore because Arnav is already guilty in his eyes. And he is more than willing to endure the punishment. He had slightest of hope that Khushi may forgive him for this too because her letter has really shook him. But now that Khushi has confirmed she can’t forgive him for this, I know that he won’t forgive himself either.

so at the end of the day what I think of him doesn’t matter. He already thinks the worst of himself. It has already been said here enough times. It hurts more when mighty falls from pedestal. And he holds himself to inhuman standards. He always has.

I am crying again as I type this. But the more I read this chapter the more I realise that this whole pain that I felt from Khushi was from Arnav’s eyes. Arpita di confirmed too. We are feeling this distraught for Khushi because Arnav gave words to the anguish she went through. We actually felt what he felt and I cannot imagine how disappointed he is in himself when we are unable to read through Khushi’s pain.

He was unable to stand straight after reading her letter. He is not going to be able to live with the guilt of realising what he has realised in last chapter. The way his character has been drawn up, now I’m sure that he is going away. Maybe for good. Because at the end of the day, his love, however twisted it was, did not hold a candle to Khushi’s love and he knows that now. He is going to dissolve in the background and we already have someone new for Khushi.

this is it. I’ve never cried while writing a comment but this is just giving me clarity on what both these beloved characters went through.

Arnav does have a bad habit of being judge jury and executioner. And he may have done this to Khushi but he did it to himself too. He is ready to hang himself too without giving a chance for explanation and I think this FF here has finally pushed me over the edge. I don’t think I have words left after the last two chapters.

Originally posted by: VeiledWords

The bold part is what is troubling the most to Khushi too. And this is the exact part that leads Arnav to be extremely harsh with himself. We (including Arnav himself) are all basing this on the premise that he could have stopped himself all this while. And I am completely okay with whatever it is that you guys choose to believe. That he should have been able to stop.

The thing however is, as someone correctly wrote, is the inhibitions under alcohol which go down. You don't really possess a sense of right and wrong. Arnav was in a vulnerable situation, and someone was there to take advantage of it. Who did not understand that a no means no.

You are right.

I think for woman it is easier in such cases, to sympathize with them because precisely of how things are done biologically.

I was trying to reverse the gender and think... if it would have been a woman, probably in her super intoxicated situation she would have been an active partner too but because she said no once, we would have sympathized with her.

But when it comes to man it gets very very complicated, even much more if the man is the one doing the deed. But the compassion should stand correct here too, no here also means a no. So even if the participation happened it was a consent taking by deception.

Ps- this thought atleast gives my own mind some peace because the opposite of it makes me crazy.