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Originally posted by: bakwas_serial

I was very bothered that he was taken advantage of. That is why I wanted the boxers not to give in !

To me it does not matter that he was drunk in a rave party..he said no repeatedly. That is violation. No matter what happened later. (Law recognizes that..and I don't have the paper I cited to you that day)

His response next day was heartfelt..so to me this ONS is not infidelity. But it may be for many and that is OK too

If he had consensual s*x, I would just write it as infidelity, let Khushi move on in life. I know that will hurt but r*pe is a topic that physically hurts me.

So if s*x happened I just wanted it to be consensual. Now kill me for it, I was not wanting to say it around on the forum.

Mol*staion is bad but r*pe kills your soul.

I have not been able to concentrate on anything.

I know Khushi is hurt a lot and I am not in anyway saying her pain is less than anything.

But this topic of r*pe is very very painful.

Oh god! I have seen victims yar, shit! I am going to cry now. They live with huge trauma all their life.

Originally posted by: VeiledWords

Thank you so much Ari!!

I agree. They do need help. Khushi does need to rise up and Arnav needs to face his own mind that has led them here. ❤️❤️❤️

I would also like to add one thing. Khushi did not do all these things thinking she was making her life miserable. It wasn't like she was killing all her dreams for Arnav all these years despite being unhappy and she kept taking his shit. She did all this because she was happy. Because she didn't feel small doing it for a person who she believed in her own words 'Laid down the world at her feet'. Only after the betrayel these things sting which is natural :)

Yes I agree!!
But he walked out of conversation, refused to communicate she kept pleading him and still happy!!!!

I fail to understand that …. Yes she is hurt and I understand that at this point she is thinking everything she did was a waste and she is absolutely right in questioning the whole marriage . At the moment she is saying a lot of things that she might not mean , I really like this . But I still feel she took too much sh*t and done big mistakes just because she has her own insecurities. All I want is to take control of her own life before she becomes someone’s khushi.

The whole things is way too messed up to have a single possible outcome. If I was a writer and you give me this story right at this moment, I would drive myself crazy thinking of an outcome that’s both realistic and fair to all characters. The situation here is beyond f*ed up.

I have cried repeatedly after this chapter. More for Khushi than Arnav. I can’t even bear to think about the impact of that one night on his whole life. Everything that he has ever done is written off in an instant. Even in his own eyes.

This one takes the cake for me. If writer was aiming to break me with her words, this juncture is IT. I’ve been unable to think straight the whole day. Even if I didn’t have a planned off, I think I would have opted for work from home because I am not in the state to function properly today.

I wrote long back that this FF feels too real, too personal. As if someone I know is going through this gut wrenching shit.

I have only listened to sad songs the whole day and tortured myself over here. Even Khushi’s interlude didn’t break me this much.

Originally posted by: tashi26

I know, and you know the reason I still am not letting go of last bit of hope too.

If he had consensual s*x, I would just write it as infidelity, let Khushi move on in life. I know that will hurt but r*pe is a topic that physically hurts me.

So if s*x happened I just wanted it to be consensual. Now kill me for it, I was not wanting to say it around on the forum.

Mol*staion is bad but r*pe kills your soul.

I have not been able to concentrate on anything.

I know Khushi is hurt a lot and I am not in anyway saying her pain is less than anything.

But this topic of r*pe is very very painful.

Oh god! I have seen victims yar, shit! I am going to cry now. They live with huge trauma all their life.

i cant even imagine what a man will go through..they are never conditioned to think themselves as victims yaar. they wont be able to digest this. Arnav of this story has already declared himself guilty and has given up. If he comes to know he was R*ped or taken advantage of against his wishes, he is still going to hold himself responsible. I doubt he will be able to forgive himself ever💔

Originally posted by: tashi26

Yes, but as Shashi herself said, if your partner realises their mistakes then you can’t ignore all the good things about your relationship too. Also, she never stopped loving him, so when he realised his mistakes she gave him a chance to redeem himself.

But you know sometimes when you are low, validation from someone who is not your family can do wonders. Also, Khushi needs to have her own group of friends too apart from the ones she made because of Arnav.

Hey really perfect thoughts!!!

Originally posted by: Ashviniv

btw who do you think this VD is? how he will enter their lives? is he a therapist? or he will meet khushi in her NGO..

Thank you are making the atmosphere lighter 😅 therapist..who falls in love with patient and they have a happily ever after with lots of kids. And forlorn Arnav gives them his blessings .😅

Or who comes to NGO to adopt kids..a single man..and Khushi finds her soulmate and he is enthralled by her and they live happily ever after 😅

Originally posted by: Ashviniv

i cant even imagine what a man will go through..they are never conditioned to think themselves as victims yaar. they wont be able to digest this. Arnav of this story has already declared himself guilty and has given up. If he comes to know he was R*ped or taken advantage of against his wishes, he is still going to hold himself responsible. I doubt he will be able to forgive himself ever💔

Originally posted by: Ashviniv

i cant even imagine what a man will go through..they are never conditioned to think themselves as victims yaar. they wont be able to digest this. Arnav of this story has already declared himself guilty and has given up. If he comes to know he was R*ped or taken advantage of against his wishes, he is still going to hold himself responsible. I doubt he will be able to forgive himself ever💔

He was taken advantage of, now Arnav has been beating himself too much for it, I just wish someone would have told him more assertively. I don’t think aakash did a good job.

Originally posted by: Arilip

He was taken advantage of, now Arnav has been beating himself too much for it, I just wish someone would have told him more assertively. I don’t think aakash did a good job.

atleast now he has understood it was some bigger game rather than lunatic milking the opportunity provided. I hope he atleast gets to know the real truth. taht will hurt too but he deserves to know the complete truth

Originally posted by: Arilip

He was taken advantage of, now Arnav has been beating himself too much for it, I just wish someone would have told him more assertively. I don’t think aakash did a good job.