I am new in the forum but I watch the show sometimes or read the updates.
Dimple and Shah kids :In previous episodes, vicious Dimple took away DA from Anupamaa, low-key supported Anuj and MaaYa as a couple when he is a legally married man, called Anuj her dad when she was marrying his stepson, spoke against her mother-in-law and Anuj's "beloved" wife in the tabloids (therefore personally attacking her) , "manipulated" Anupamaa's only decent offspring before CA and now has jouy hands with enemy number one of Anupamaa. Has Anuj ever scolded her on face like he has scolded Shah kids and even Adhik? Never. He does not seem to obsess and fawn over her like he does with CA but he always forgets she makes mistakes and this stranger is held in a higher esteem compared to his stepchildren and even relatives. He has never scolded her for being the ungrateful, thankless and bigoted person she is. He would call this unrelated stranger his daughter and his actual stepdaughter as his family's daughter-in-law when the stepdaughter marries his sister-in-law's brother. Technically, Anupamaa is a Kapadia so her kids being called as 'Kapadias ke bachhe' is not wrong. Similarly , one can call Adhik the same because he was raised like a son by 'extra' Kapadias. Yet we have seen Anuj scold Samar when he joined hands with Malti Devi but Dimple was scolded only by Shahs and not Anuj. For Anuj she is like a blood relative which SH kids and Adhik are not.
BB and Adhik:
During Anuj's accident track, BB and Adhik wanted Anuj cremated for their lust for money.(AB did not show any such signs.) Anuj has no idea that they prefered him dead though he knows that all three were plotting against his 'beloved' wife and also , BB and Adhik were totally unhappy with them adopting CA like Shahs were. They are allowed to stay and evade punishment. At least Vanraj , Kavya and Toshu are repeatedly get condemned to joblessness after many stints. Paakhi was kicked out by both Shahs and Kapadias.Baa has to see her favourite people being kicked out of the house or become jobless and family marriages failing repeatedly also drive her nuts( so she drives the entire Anupamaa universe nuts and gets her revenge). Also later, when Adhik's plan to use Paakhi for same came to light , Anuj did not scold him or BB for the same. Instead, Adhik was rewarded with a job and BB evaded any form of punishment. Also, when Paakhi and BB were using excessive money on luxuries , only Paakhi got kicked out with Adhik but BB and AB were given endless time to find a new place. As always , BB evaded punishment. Now she and Adhik have messed KE finances and Anuj still doesn't know. When AB's affair was exposed, Anuj scolded AB and defended BB but like her beloved Dimple , she is also a thankless, cold-hearted gold-digger. She doesn't seem to care about Anuj and his family, even though they forgive her 100 times. This time also BB would stay in KE again and Adhik would only be scolded and then he would also not be kicked out. He holds Adhik higher than SH kids and would call Adhik 's wife as his bahu even if she is his own stepdaughter. Even though he was distant from them for long time, he shows more concern for them over Mukku and GK.
I know Anupamaa is a horribly flawed whacky lady who prefers Shahs and MD(to some degree) over Anuj , CA , GK, career and Mukku but Anuj 's priorities are even more messed up. For him it is house-leeches first then stray leeches then CA then Anupamaa then at last, GK, Mukku and career.
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