Mother or Grandmother?

Why is Manjhiri insecure? She's abhir's grandmother..his DAADI!! Nobody trying to replace her in abhir's life. Akshara is abhir's mother.. Akshara came to meet her own son not manjhiri's son..why she's insecure?😅 I would've understand if Abhinav came to meet her grandson,snatching Abhimanyu,her son's right but no.. it's abhir's mother.. she expect abhir to not love his mother anymore? Also I thought Abhimanyu is the one who got solo custody and he have to take care of his son but no..he gave abhir's all responsibility to his mother and hardly know anything what's happening with abhir in school..

PS : No I'm not frustrated!! It's just a normal opinion..i hope this is allowed?

May be you missed the iconic dialogue dear.

Mummy is insecure bec she lost Neil, aksharas baby and she didn't know abhir is her pota. 😆 May be mummy thinks akshara baaki sabko bhi kha jayegi like bakasur

No this is really irritating now.

Manjari like a typical grandma spoiling the child . It is very difficult for parents to handle a child after getting spoiled badly by the hands of grandparents. And it is even more difficult when father of the child is just OK with it. And trust his mother rather than the child's mother for the upbringing of a child.

Dadi ho ya MAA

Insecure 🤣

Earlier Manj had pain so she asked her son to get rid of Akshu🤣

Then she wanted her & Abhir back in her son's life 🤣.... Akshu refused " beta's peclamation of love for her " Abhinav refused hee manipulation... agskn pain

So Maa and Beta got Abhir with them , got they are still in pain seeing Akshu visiting Abhir 🤣 on top of that insecure !!!

She thinks every thing her Raja Beta has belongs to her, she owns her son ... reciprocative e they are son too, roams around " raising voice for Mumma's insecurities" 🤣

Insecurities seriously 🤣🤣🤣

Manj acting as if she carried Abhir in her womb and Akshu trying to take her son sway !

There should be a limit for stupidness they blabber on screen 🤣🤣🤣

Manjari being insecure is understandable afterall she knows the kind of person akshara is .

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Post edited for flouting IF COC.

It is Manjari's insecurity which her beta cares about in the process Abhir will flunck and grow up as a failure. He will support Majari in house management.

They already explained it in the show, but people apparently don't want to listen.

Manjari knows the influence Ak has on both Abhir and Abhi, and so she is insecure about Ak hurting Abhi, as she has been shown to do post-leap and even pre-leap.

About Abhir, Manjari did talk about that. She said that she is worried because she knows how strong the mother-son bond is. So she knows it is wrong to take a son away from his mother. She knows how strong her and Abhi's bond is, and so she is worried about Abhir-Ak bond similarly cause that will destroy Abhi's happiness. Her entire focus from the beginning has been Abhi's happiness and nothing else.

Ak still doesn't want to accept Abhi as Abhir's father and generally has shown no real improvement in her stance since the beginning. If Abhir goes back to Ak at this point or even expresses that he wants to, Manjari knows that Abhi will give him up. And once Abhi does that, Ak will systematically remove Abhi from Abhir's life again, and Abhi will have lost everything all over again.

As to the second point, it's not really logical to assume Abhi has given all responsibility to his mother. It doesn't make sense. We saw how involved he is in Ruhi's life already, and there is no reason for him not to be equally, if not more, involved in Abhir's life.

Manjari's jealousy towards Abhir's mother, Akshara, and her attempts to come between the mother and son seem unfounded. As the sole grandmother without any competition, her feelings of envy become harder to grasp. Moreover, Manjari's decision to take away Akshara's weekend visitation rights appears to be incredibly selfish. In a different scenario where Naira was still around and competed for the title of "best daadi," Manjari's jealousy could have been more relatable, but the current situation lacks any logical basis for her actions.

Originally posted by: Sukriti4u

Manjari's jealousy towards Abhir's mother, Akshara, and her attempts to come between the mother and son seem unfounded. As the sole grandmother without any competition, her feelings of envy become harder to grasp. Moreover, Manjari's decision to take away Akshara's weekend visitation rights appears to be incredibly selfish. In a different scenario where Naira was still around and competed for the title of "best daadi," Manjari's jealousy could have been more relatable, but the current situation lacks any logical basis for her actions.

But in real life cases also you will find some MILs competing with DILs. And since here the DIL is divorced, such MILs have no boundaries. They try to take away all rights of Mother .What is extreme is Manajri has been behaving a psycho since the last 6 yrs and continuing to do so and will continuw to do so even if she gets a new DIL (Arohi or anyone else). Some people do not change their behaviours even when they age.