After reading the latest chapter I was going through all the comments..sorry to say this, but it was really surprising how easily almost everyone putting blame to Lavanya and giving clean cheat to Arnav, feeling sympathetic for him..Though it was mentioned that Arnav was heavily drunk but not clear that Arnav was drugged or not, still he is getting benefit of doubt.
But here the point is, was sleeping with Lavanya is the only Sin / crime Arnav did against Khushi ??
Actually, Sleeping with Lavanya is just a very little part of Arnav's wrongdoing against Khushi..
Truth to be told, in their 10 years long marriage, Arnav never respected enough his wife .he never think that Khushi is his equal..it was always he, himself..Taking decision about their life till now was beneficial for them, though Khushi had always supported Arnav in his every decision..Now when for the first time Khushi voice out her feeling about Kids, Arnav get irked as it was not as per his wish..he was not civil enough to have a clear communication with his wife, instead he assumed things..He and Khushi are two different persons, so it's natural their likings will be different..How easily Arnav decides that as Khushi will not be happy with him, so divorce is the only solution and there is no need for any discussion..Arnav wanted to talk, but when ?? After finalizing everything with his lawyer..it's not talking, it's called showing pity to wards your partner whom you think, misfit for your present status and happiness..
When Arnav tried to compensate Khushi's 10 years companionship with. monetary value, it's really made him pathetic thinking how much coward he can be..
Arnav actually never thought that Khushi would have blended in his daily life and habit so well, that he would miss her..Arnav never thought Khushi will accept divorce without any fuss, Arnav never thought Khushi will left everything behind in a blink of an eye..It's unsettled him..
If Khushi would cried, begged as Arnav thought , he would not have been so restless or unhappy..Just the thought of that his 10 years old Wife, who is emotionally and economically dependent on you, leaving you without a single question making him shutter, making him confused...
The present behaviour of Arnav is not because he loves Khushi or he missed her, it's the comfort and warmth which Khushi created in his daily life, which he missed..
If Khushi would stay in Mumbai, attached with Udan and occassionally Arnav would had a tab in her, I am sure Arnav would have gone ahead with the divorce procedure without any remorse..
Just when Arnav gain the sucess in his life, how easily he avoided Khushi, how easily he felt lack of pull towards her, how conveniently he judge Khushi , most importantly how easily he ignored her, humiliate her , took decision On behalf of her , discussed their core personal matter with other woman but never thought to communicate with his wife..The behaviour of Arnav is Marital abuse, in legal term Mental cruelty..
Is it forgivable ?? To me, this all behaviour is more uglier than sleeping with Lavanya..A man who does not respect the sanctuary of Marriage, does not respect her wife, how could he keep a marriage vow ?? It's meaningless for him, so it was easy for him to cheat on Khushi..it's not Arnav was threatened to attend the pary, Arnav knew what kind of activities were going on, still he participated there, converse with Lavanya in a ' friendly way'...Bravo....
Does Khushi deserve this treatment after her 10 years of devotion..yet, how helpless she is that she was forced to return to the ugliest abuser of her life, her husband Arnav..
Shyam's wife died due to health ignorance..here Khushi's soul died because of Arnav's torment and abuse..
How come Arnav became better than Shyam ?? They both are equally worst in their own way..
I seriously felt sorry for Khushi..she has to bear her cheat of a husband just because, she devoted herself towards this marriage, just because she is economically dependent on Arnav and just because apart from everything, she still harbour feelings for him...
Really, really painful..
Sorry, Arnav's lover, If my comments hurt anyone of you..but for me, Arnav is the worst one..who conciously abused khushi, snatch Khushi's dream and finnally broke her beyond repair..
Iys not about Only the cheating, but overall Arnav as a man failed Khushi..and his actions are beyond Redemption.
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