Resurgence | Arshi FF | Thread 2 | thread 3 link posted on page 150 - Page 30

Hi Arpita, please can you give me link to your another stories. After long time it is pleasure to read your present story which have some rock solid substance

Was reading about Grubhub and Just eats layoffs and of course thought of your Arnav. He was never interested in food delivery right..astute indeed😉

Sorry to read to you have the flu. Hope you feel better soon😘

Hope you feel better soon. Please take care of yourself. The story can wait and so can we.

The baby issue was always a bone of contention between them. Not talking about it let it fester even more. He seems to have deep seated phobia about it and she has not realized it. She just thinks he doesn't want kids, I don't think she sees that he actually has a psychological problem with the idea even. Hopefully some counseling will uncover that.

The cheating most likely happened after he had already put the divorce process in motion. By then he had convinced himself that the end was coming and he was doing both of them a favor.

The right thing would have been to talk to her but when emotions are involved, logic takes a back seat. He was probably scared to face her.

In the immediate future, I can see her going away from Arnav. She needs time to find herself and rebuild her life. Only then she can pursue this relationship as an equal, if she wants to.

For them to end up together, their differences still need to be tackled. Will he give up his lifestyle? Will she accommodate it? Can they find a happy medium? They need something to bond over. Can they travel? Find a hobby that suits them both? For the last few months at least, they have almost lived separate lives. No marriage can survive that.

First of all take care Appy di. We will wait. Health comes first.

Secondly, I’ve been reading fanfics since a long time. I have to get this out. I have not been this affected by any story till date. There is a constant weight on myself and I find myself thinking more and more about it every day. This is crazy.

I am imagining scenes that you have not even written in the story. I imagine their life in the initial years; the young happy couple navigating life together. I imagine the pain and angst that is about to unfold because whatever the truth about Arnav is, we know that Arnav and Khushi in the coming chapters are only going to fall apart. At least for some time if not forever.

I listen to sad songs constantly and all they remind me of is these two characters which have become so close to me for some reason. I cry for them like an idiot. I don’t know how to explain this to you di. It really hurts. That’s all I can say about it.

When I was catching up on the story, I actually had to put the phone away at Khushi’s letter. I wasn’t crying silently. I’m talking tears and sobs. And in fact I had been crying a little since last few chapters; feeling very weighed down. That one broke the dam.

I have never thought deeply about the topic of cheating and as much as Arnav’s betrayal stings, it’s Khushi’s pain of being away from someone she loved to the point of devotion that hurts me the most. He was her EVERYTHING. I can criticise her for it. But the thing is I know people like her in real life. Both men and women. Life’s unimaginable without their partners.

Divorce may be a big deal in Khushi’s traditional life, but what she actually didn’t imagine was living without her Arnav. I am still someone who thinks Arnav had a one night stand and did not have an affair (basing this on what he said to Akash and the photos seem very intentionally placed and shady to me). I don’t know if he has any redemption written for him or not.

But right now, their separation has broken me.

There is something weird about this story. I can’t point out what but it somehow just feels a bit more than a story. I’ve been so restless, so affected and I’ve read far more tragic stories on Arshi and other couples than this. Even some published books.

But this is like watching someone’s life unfold in front of my eyes. Like someone I know is getting affected. I’ve just spent last night reading the bits of it again and torturing myself and I’m a mess right now. Sorry for rambling but I need to just let these emotions out. Thanks for this thread too. I know at least one or two people might understand what I’m going through.

Originally posted by: coderlady

The baby issue was always a bone of contention between them. Not talking about it let it fester even more. He seems to have deep seated phobia about it and she has not realized it. She just thinks he doesn't want kids, I don't think she sees that he actually has a psychological problem with the idea even. Hopefully some counseling will uncover that.

The cheating most likely happened after he had already put the divorce process in motion. By then he had convinced himself that the end was coming and he was doing both of them a favor.

The right thing would have been to talk to her but when emotions are involved, logic takes a back seat. He was probably scared to face her.

Cheating happened before the divorce process started and hence it is cheating... He applied for divorce after their wedding anniversary ie. Dec 18th 2015 and he cheated during Aug-Dec 2015 or around that time period (Entire NOve-Dec time period when Khushi was back in Mumbai, he hardly came home and completely ignore her as if she doesn't exist so where was he???) but we will get clarity in the upcoming chapter that we all are eagerly waiting..

Whatever he convinced himself for his own agenda with Lavanya doesn't matter because he didn't convey it to his wife unfortunately...

Arnav really really needs a super duper valid reason for not wanting a baby, he has been excited and happy for his friends and sister having baby and even comfortable playing with babies... But he denies his own wife and it was never up for discussion also... He took major decision without her consent when he knew she was dying to have a baby so he better have the best possible reason and then excuse for the baby... So far it doesn't seem so..

Swati she knows the reason why he does not want kids. Forgotten in which chapter but it is there

Originally posted by: bakwas_serial

Swati she knows the reason why he does not want kids. Forgotten in which chapter but it is there

I don't think any of us knows it yet... We were making stupid guesses...

Waiting for Arpita to surprise us as usual... But let's see..

Originally posted by: Learrntowrite

First of all take care Appy di. We will wait. Health comes first.

Secondly, I’ve been reading fanfics since a long time. I have to get this out. I have not been this affected by any story till date. There is a constant weight on myself and I find myself thinking more and more about it every day. This is crazy.

I am imagining scenes that you have not even written in the story. I imagine their life in the initial years; the young happy couple navigating life together. I imagine the pain and angst that is about to unfold because whatever the truth about Arnav is, we know that Arnav and Khushi in the coming chapters are only going to fall apart. At least for some time if not forever.

I listen to sad songs constantly and all they remind me of is these two characters which have become so close to me for some reason. I cry for them like an idiot. I don’t know how to explain this to you di. It really hurts. That’s all I can say about it.

When I was catching up on the story, I actually had to put the phone away at Khushi’s letter. I wasn’t crying silently. I’m talking tears and sobs. And in fact I had been crying a little since last few chapters; feeling very weighed down. That one broke the dam.

I have never thought deeply about the topic of cheating and as much as Arnav’s betrayal stings, it’s Khushi’s pain of being away from someone she loved to the point of devotion that hurts me the most. He was her EVERYTHING. I can criticise her for it. But the thing is I know people like her in real life. Both men and women. Life’s unimaginable without their partners.

Divorce may be a big deal in Khushi’s traditional life, but what she actually didn’t imagine was living without her Arnav. I am still someone who thinks Arnav had a one night stand and did not have an affair (basing this on what he said to Akash and the photos seem very intentionally placed and shady to me). I don’t know if he has any redemption written for him or not.

But right now, their separation has broken me.

There is something weird about this story. I can’t point out what but it somehow just feels a bit more than a story. I’ve been so restless, so affected and I’ve read far more tragic stories on Arshi and other couples than this. Even some published books.

But this is like watching someone’s life unfold in front of my eyes. Like someone I know is getting affected. I’ve just spent last night reading the bits of it again and torturing myself and I’m a mess right now. Sorry for rambling but I need to just let these emotions out. Thanks for this thread too. I know at least one or two people might understand what I’m going through.

i think you have put what all of us are feeling while reading this story. as you rightly said, this no longer feels 'just a story' anymore. its like happening for real and i know i am hurting by reading it but i just cant stop doing that and thinking about the story..

@ Arpita - hope you are feeling better. you take your own time please. health is way more important. do take care