Yeah, they really should have Meerab reciprocate to him for something, anything!
I really didn't see the need for Murtasim to say those dialogues that.. after you left I realized, tum mera sab kuch ho, tum se sab hai, Tere Bin main kuch nahin, kuch bhi nahini!
Like what's new!? She and us have heard this 100 times already since they got married and she has never believed him even when he cried buckets and poured his heart out telling her mujhe sambhal lena.
So... did she believe him this time?
Chalo, we assume this time she did, but then, how Meerab felt without him / Tere Bin?
He has stopped doing zidd? hunh... what zidd, when did he do zidd?
Wasn't it Meerab who was always ziddi/stubborn and he had to tiptoe around her?!
He said he would become however she wants him to be, do whatever she wants him to do, he would change himself as per her commands... hasn't he been changing ever since they got married, hasn't he gone out of his way to please her, however reluctantly, hasn't he done things out of his comfort zone and beliefs just so that she remains happy even while there was zero appreciation from her side!
He still has to change? How? What for?
And she doesn't need to?
Marriage was forced on both of them, but he chose to give his all to make this relationship work while she being unhappy with the marriage neither left him nor gave him even basic respect as a fellow human, mistreated him every step of the way. They both were at fault for not having any trust on each other but it was her decision to leave and hide from him and the pregnancy and his kid from him...
He is the only one who has been saying sorry to her since the beginning, she, not once, has properly apologized to him even for things she was clearly at fault!
Today too, she was put on a pedestal while he apologized, that too on his knees with folded hands begging for forgiveness - what exactly was he apologizing for though????
Ok.. but then why did she not have to say sorry? She had nothing to apologize to him for?
Why this one sidedness?
This one partner bending over backwards to keep the relationship going while the other one dictates the rules may make certain section of the society happy, especially since its the female being the boss lady and husband is a meek subordinate but that's now how a relationship works or lasts. Balance is the key to every relationship, romantic or otherwise.
Here, Meerab and Murtasim were hardly equal partners, unfortunately he still remained her puppet.
@underlined
Seriously, this whole Haya-Murtasim fiasco is so bizarre, I cannot make any head or tail of it. So all the dialogues related to and around it didn't make sense to me either.
Haya was not even that important in MM lovestory, cause without her also they had so many issues of their own to resolve so why suddenly so much focus was given to her is beyond me.
The whole question-answer of the day Meerab left was so poorly done and Murtasim looked like a fool when he told Haya that he believed her that day (and volunteered to marry her) but she needed to tell the truth today.
Also, no idea why they had a close up of her expressionless face for nearly 2 minutes today to conclude her lovestory. That precious time could have been given to Waqas-Meerab closure, but oh well!
Both Wahaj and Yumna were par excellence today!!
Yumna's expressions when Haya was accusing her and Murtasim was silent were the best!
Wahaj's eyes, softness of his voice, his interaction with Meesam, his body language everything... superlative! I cried in a few scenes, without even realizing!
Sorry the post became so long, didn't realize it!
Originally posted by: WanderingWonder
❤️ you said exactly what I really thought I would see - equality. I guess that’s why this couple was different for me… they both seemed to be equal and going in that direction eventually.
Yet, he was shown groveling… to me it was very unbecoming. My husband knows how to suck up to me after a fight… but he doesn’t grovel. I guess that biases my attitude towards that. Also the style was too much Jimmy from DNUTN for me. I liked it in that show, just not fitting for me here.I guess… where is the real character development for Meerab if she can’t specifically express her feelings towards him? I know she was always like that but would have been nice to see this change in her as well. After all, she also did something that’s quite frankly unforgivable in keeping his baby/ knowledge of the baby away from him. I think that warrants some drastic change as well, no? Why only him?
I found the Meerab staring at him scenes weird too. I couldn’t buy her “shock” or disbelief at his love.
Also what’s the point of the dialogue: everything has stayed the same in this room. LIKE DUDE what difference does that make … it’s not romantic when she sees you were also ready to marry your cousin???!!!! “I kept your room the same so you can comfortably stay here while I sleep with my other wife?”But yes… I admit that I do feel some peace knowing they are together at least.
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