Trust friendship and #sahan

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Trust friendship understanding are all good to lecture about but difficult to get when you can’t give it … and are two way streets … expect it when you give it .. Angad and Sahiba’s is a relationship born out of a fraud and hence trust friendship and understanding will take longer to develop more so when the family is itself against the relationship instead of helping them overcome the hurdles ..


Trust friendship was not there in pregnancy issue , in college admission issue nor did she believe his sincere apology till he proved it …fair enough … when you can’t give something why expect it ??? Even today she did not trust him to say what she was doing with the lawyer…again fair enough …but why expect him not to believe the proof the police has acted upon and arrested his grandfather …she believed the judge when the judge said Angad tried to bribe him ..again no issues ..then why guilt trip Angad if he believed the police proof and that too based on which his darji is in jail ???


Both need to sit down and take stock of where they are and where they want go frankly because otherwise the moment the next kaand comes this expectation and guilt tripping will happen again and all the time guilt tripping the other will not work .

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Radhika_r

Trust friendship understanding are all good to lecture about but difficult to get when you can’t give it … and are two way streets … expect it when you give it .. Angad and Sahiba’s is a relationship born out of a fraud and hence trust friendship and understanding will take longer to develop more so when the family is itself against the relationship instead of helping them overcome the hurdles ..


Trust friendship was not there in pregnancy issue , in college admission issue nor did she believe his sincere apology till he proved it …fair enough … when you can’t give something why expect it ??? Even today she did not trust him to say what she was doing with the lawyer…again fair enough …but why expect him not to believe the proof the police has acted upon and arrested his grandfather …she believed the judge when the judge said Angad tried to bribe him ..again no issues ..then why guilt trip Angad if he believed the police proof and that too based on which his darji is in jail ???


Both need to sit down and take stock of where they are and where they want go frankly because otherwise the moment the next kaand comes this expectation and guilt tripping will happen again and all the time guilt tripping the other will not work .


I agree with your POV fully but the CV's are doing a different job here.Angad is blind he cannot see the difference between good and bad despite the truth staring right in front of his face.


And I don't know why Sahiba is being the Saviour here always though there's no problem with that if the Brar family acknowledged Sahiba's efforts?


Angad is not able to save Kiara's honour not he was able to save Daarji from going to Prison? I mean what is the USP of his character then? Even Virat in GHPPK could fight the terrorists and save the nation or perhaps sided with Sai sometimes against the Chavan Family? What has Angad done so far to call himself as Sahiba's husband except the Shop Renovation part?


Only thing Angad can do is blame Sahiba then seek forgiveness.Daarji values Angad so much why was Angad not able to save Daarji from going to Prison? Why did not he use his Business Contacts or hire the best lawyers for Daarji?Why is he not able to track down the actual culprit?

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I agree with your POV fully but the CV's are doing a different job here.Angad is blind he cannot see the difference between good and bad despite the truth staring right in front of his face.


And I don't know why Sahiba is being the Saviour here always though there's no problem with that if the Brar family acknowledged Sahiba's efforts?


Angad is not able to save Kiara's honour not he was able to save Daarji from going to Prison? I mean what is the USP of his character then? Even Virat in GHPPK could fight the terrorists and save the nation or perhaps sided with Sai sometimes against the Chavan Family? What has Angad done so far to call himself as Sahiba's husband except the Shop Renovation part?


Only thing Angad can do is blame Sahiba then seek forgiveness.Daarji values Angad so much why was Angad not able to save Daarji from going to Prison? Why did not he use his Business Contacts or hire the best lawyers for Daarji?Why is he not able to track down the actual culprit?

Kiara’s , he could not because he did not know about it …if Sahiba or Kiara had told him and he failed then your statement makes sense..guilt tripping him for believing a report and telling him my pregnancy is none of ur business etc is wrong …


darji is arrested based on FIR on domestic violence which is non bailable. This Offence no one can help you even politicians will be scared to help after arrest except court and he is trying what he should do . First things first is to get darji out and proofs indicate Sahiba why should he think the police is lying …just like Sahiba accepted the judge saying Angad tried to bribe him


As for what he has done for Sahiba , she better ponder and take the necessary action 😂😂 what I am saying is if she can believe he bribed the judge if she can not trust him on college admission or to tell him the truth about Kiara she should not expect the same from him

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I agree with your POV fully but the CV's are doing a different job here.Angad is blind he cannot see the difference between good and bad despite the truth staring right in front of his face.


And I don't know why Sahiba is being the Saviour here always though there's no problem with that if the Brar family acknowledged Sahiba's efforts?


Angad is not able to save Kiara's honour not he was able to save Daarji from going to Prison? I mean what is the USP of his character then? Even Virat in GHPPK could fight the terrorists and save the nation or perhaps sided with Sai sometimes against the Chavan Family? What has Angad done so far to call himself as Sahiba's husband except the Shop Renovation part?


Only thing Angad can do is blame Sahiba then seek forgiveness.Daarji values Angad so much why was Angad not able to save Daarji from going to Prison? Why did not he use his Business Contacts or hire the best lawyers for Daarji?Why is he not able to track down the actual culprit?

Instead he got Garry back to Brar mansion, gave him a chance and is the main trigger behind Seerat getting abused and is torturing his wife again due to Garry's plot.

He better zip it with his unnecessary regrets this time, Sahiba is a doormat ,will stay with him no matter what he does so why keep saying sorry if you never mean it. Instead add more problems.

Virat was shown as courageous, saved lives. Dumb to Pakhis advances because Pakhi never cheated him but Pakhi actually actively tried to separate the couple. Seerat is doing absolutely nothing, Angad comes off as extremely willing to instantly doubt his wife but believe Seerat and let her touch him all the time.

Here Angad is a very smart (lol) businessman who gets fooled by everyone, his family members, Mongas , everyone but only accuses one person Sahiba for any issue.

Also very shallow, any female dresses in expensive clothes he falls for their beauty. Same person dresses in plain clothes, their beauty disappears suddenly.

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The mongas did the fraud deal with jasleen first..specially sahiba begged jasleen for time to get seerat back and jasleen gave two choices either go out and tell the truth or dress as the brideTill seerat comes . Sahiba choose the fraud option but then shifted the blame entirely on jasleen as if she and her mother had no role in the bride change 😂😂😂 she made an enemy out jasleen first

then exposed Garry as if her seerat di was not involved and Garry forced her seerat di seerat di se karwaya gaya 😂😂😂seerat di.bekasoor hai and made Garry the only villain and her seerat di his victim…


Sahiba told everyone only one side of the story 😂😂 jasleen and Garry naturally try and break Sahiba …she is so intelligent and she thought they will do her Aarti 😂😂 one should look at their own kaands before blaming others 😂😂 her suspicion should be in them first if she was intelligent as she knows what she did to them 😂😂 where does Angad come into the picture in fact he lessened Sahiba kaand impact by bringing Garry back home and lessening his and jasleens feeling of revenge .👍😍

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Originally posted by: masked


I agree with your POV fully but the CV's are doing a different job here.Angad is blind he cannot see the difference between good and bad despite the truth staring right in front of his face.


And I don't know why Sahiba is being the Saviour here always though there's no problem with that if the Brar family acknowledged Sahiba's efforts?


Angad is not able to save Kiara's honour not he was able to save Daarji from going to Prison? I mean what is the USP of his character then? Even Virat in GHPPK could fight the terrorists and save the nation or perhaps sided with Sai sometimes against the Chavan Family? What has Angad done so far to call himself as Sahiba's husband except the Shop Renovation part?


Only thing Angad can do is blame Sahiba then seek forgiveness.Daarji values Angad so much why was Angad not able to save Daarji from going to Prison? Why did not he use his Business Contacts or hire the best lawyers for Daarji?Why is he not able to track down the actual culprit?


@bold - This may sound bad, but I think Angad has trouble thinking for himself. And I am not saying this because I am bashing his character. This is based on observation.

In the very beginning of TMD, Inder made a comment that Akaal treated everyone like his puppets on a string. I think Angad is one of those puppets not just for Daarji but for his family. He runs around trying to please his family and is suffering because he never thinks about himself and what he wants. He is always doing what is best for the family which turns out to be detrimental for him every time.

For example, proceeding to marry Sahiba was what was best for the family, but it caused him agony. Getting Gary married to Seerat was what he did to keep the family together, but has created this triangle for him that may cause great strife later on. He even decided to let Sahiba go to school based only on the fact that he thought it would be best for the family which of course upset Daarji and it of course upset Sahiba because it was not in support of her dream but solely based on the fact that it was best for the family.

@bold - The one decision we do see him taking was as you said, renovating the shop which no one knows about in his family (except Veer). Which is why Sahiba asked what will he do when his family finds out.

So I agree that for once he needs to think about what he wants in regard to his relationship with Sahiba which is going to cause him to go against his family who apparently despises her.

Sahiba is the same as Angad. She is always thinking about family first. The decision to help Kiara was for family. Her decision to marry Angad was for family. The only move she has made to do something for herself is to go to college and that’s only because of Ms. Menka’s harsh but true words. Sahiba too needs to think about what she wants in regard to the relationship.


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@bold - This may sound bad, but I think Angad has trouble thinking for himself. And I am not saying this because I am bashing his character. This is based on observation.

In the very beginning of TMD, Inder made a comment that Akaal treated everyone like his puppets on a string. I think Angad is one of those puppets not just for Daarji but for his family. He runs around trying to please his family and is suffering because he never thinks about himself and what he wants. He is always doing what is best for the family which turns out to be detrimental for him every time.

For example, proceeding to marry Sahiba was what was best for the family, but it caused him agony. Getting Gary married to Seerat was what he did to keep the family together, but has created this triangle for him that may cause great strife later on. He even decided to let Sahiba go to school based only on the fact that he thought it would be best for the family which of course upset Daarji and it of course upset Sahiba because it was not in support of her dream but solely based on the fact that it was best for the family.

@bold - The one decision we do see him taking was as you said, renovating the shop which no one knows about in his family (except Veer). Which is why Sahiba asked what will he do when his family finds out.

So I agree that for once he needs to think about what he wants in regard to his relationship with Sahiba which is going to cause him to go against his family who apparently despises her.

Sahiba is the same as Angad. She is always thinking about family first. The decision to help Kiara was for family. Her decision to marry Angad was for family. The only move she has made to do something for herself is to go to college and that’s only because of Ms. Menka’s harsh but true words. Sahiba too needs to think about what she wants in regard to the relationship.


agree with you Angad needs to put himself first and what he wants from life first..his happiness is at stake thanks to his putting his family first … which is why I said they both need to sit and decide what is it they want from their relationship and how they need to move forward instead of this everyday blaming lecturing and guilt tripping
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Radhika_r

agree with you Angad needs to put himself first and what he wants from life first..his happiness is at stake thanks to his putting his family first … which is why I said they both need to sit and decide what is it they want from their relationship and how they need to move forward instead of this everyday blaming lecturing and guilt tripping



I second that, after watching todays’s episode it seemed like to me that makers are not interested to show Sahan’s love story anymore.😔


Precap: Now they are going the original GC way, glad but I feel seerat’s inclination towards Angad would still be there. She would not leave any given opportunity to garner his sympathy and the family’s as well.


I really don’t know what to write any more as ph and writers of this show are an expert in making blunders.

Seerat is also quite strategically placed, She dislikes and is jealous of her sister Saheba for no reason. If This ph’s famous USP i.e Ema of Jeth/Bahu touching works then they will make Seerat the super lusty bhabhi and if Ema which is like the most common track dose not work here, then these people wound show seerat to be jealous and insecure sister type.



The only good thing about today’s episode were Veer/Kirat scenes. ❤️


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I second that, after watching todays’s episode it seemed like to me that makers are not interested to show Sahan’s love story anymore.😔


Precap: Now they are going the original GC way, glad but I feel seerat’s inclination towards Angad would still be there. She would not leave any given opportunity to garner his sympathy and the family’s as well.


I really don’t know what to write any more as ph and writers of this show are an expert in making blunders.

Seerat is also quite strategically placed, She dislikes and is jealous of her sister Saheba for no reason. If This ph’s famous USP i.e Ema of Jeth/Bahu touching works then they will make Seerat the super lusty bhabhi and if Ema which is like the most common track dose not work here, then these people wound show seerat to be jealous and insecure sister type.



The only good thing about today’s episode were Veer/Kirat scenes. ❤️


Seerat's jealousy of Sahiba makes zero sense like every other thing in the show.

In og, Dyuti was jealous of Khori because she was genuinely the apple of everyone's eye. Here Angad himself misbehaves with Sahiba , forget family members.

Here Angad makes Sahiba apologise for catching Seerat red handed changing his clothes. Riddhi threatened to send Dyuti to jail for Khori, even when their equation was bad, Riddhi never promised Dyuti anything and got annoyed whenever she spoke ill about his wife, he literally did not let Khori even press Dyutis head and said my wife is not your maid. All this made Dyuti jealous as Rahul did not defend her as much.

Here Angad would believe Seerat and every person in the world before Sahiba, he even complains about Sahiba to Seerat but she is jealous. Seerat should see how he behaved with Sahiba in this track, he will kill someone if Seerat sheds a tear but did not even care Sahiba was seriously injured by punching her hand against mirror or came back in a terrible state to meet his clients. Then Seerat should realize being Angad's wife is not some prize but also technically she is the perfect partner for him, one who will not work, who will doll up and agree to everything he says so they are on same wavelength and she will likely never face his anger.

Seerat even flinched when Angad threw the remote towards Sahiba , if after all this she does not realize what she will face if he and her don't see eye to eye on a topic, she is dumb like usual.

She is better off as his saali/bhabi than wife. She needs to open her eyes.

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I second that, after watching todays’s episode it seemed like to me that makers are not interested to show Sahan’s love story anymore.😔


Precap: Now they are going the original GC way, glad but I feel seerat’s inclination towards Angad would still be there. She would not leave any given opportunity to garner his sympathy and the family’s as well.


I really don’t know what to write any more as ph and writers of this show are an expert in making blunders.

Seerat is also quite strategically placed, She dislikes and is jealous of her sister Saheba for no reason. If This ph’s famous USP i.e Ema of Jeth/Bahu touching works then they will make Seerat the super lusty bhabhi and if Ema which is like the most common track dose not work here, then these people wound show seerat to be jealous and insecure sister type.



The only good thing about today’s episode were Veer/Kirat scenes. ❤️


yup at the moment not clear what they will do with seerat. They made her intentions known to Sahiba as seerat has acted in front of Sahiba and Sahiba has seen her physical actions towards angad and heard her words to her. Am quite surprised why Sahiba did not Expose seerat in that hall drama and kept quiet ..it was in her place to expose seerat and Manveer clearly mentioned about changing clothes ..Sahiba kept quiet , even the hug Bebe questioned but Sahiba never talked of it , the touch on the shoulder Sahiba saw but again kept quiet … Sahiba is clear that advances are from seerat side and Angad is oblivious to those advances ..they have made that clear …so they are going towards a sister confrontation but how when. We don’t know .. end of the day all depends on numbers

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