How can you say that abhimanyu did nothing wrong to akshara - Page 10

Originally posted by: gopi2929

No one is talking about intentions

It was an accident and it's already established

The point here is AK’S accountability...did she take any? Did she realize what was her mistake in the whole fiasco?

She is blaming Abhimanyu to throw her out...but what about her own actions? Did she even say once post that incident that yes "I was irresponsible"?

So basically if she says "yes, I was irresponsible" that in turn would make her understand Abhi's pain and make her say "you were right to have presigned divorce papers lying around to throw in my face when and if I miscarry"? Matlab kya hi hai lol

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

@ bold Ak is his mother and she risked her life to bring him into the world so she will never ever can cause him any pain! She was only trying to protect him from this pain all the time! Kids can have many questions like he asked is his bio dad bad that he left his mom ?Ak and Abhinav handled the situation very well or else what the kid would have felt ? if they reveal the reason do u think Abhir will love AbM? He will start treating him the same way how he treated Harsh!

Judgment was not based of birth certificate but purely on financial conditions! That’s what judge clearly said ! In all this why r u ignoring the pain of Abhir ? Why is AbM not feeling or understanding the pain of Abhir when small kid Ruhi can do ?

If you will listen to today’s dialogues then you will get Abhi is clearly understanding everyone’s pain and he himself said he never wanted to separate his foster father and real mother from Abhir all he wanted was his recognition as Abhir’s father. Also he called out BP or no one can take decisions on Abhir-Manyu’s behalf. This is the sole reason he agreed to court when BP instigated. And during the trail also he wasn’t hopeful that he is going to win.

AK would have handled the situation maturely she shouldn’t have forged the certificate and have asked Abhinav to legally adopt Abhir with Abhimanyu’s consent if she was so sure that Abhi never wanted the kid.

All in all Abhi never started any custody case, it was first done by AK’s dhamki then Kairav’s notice and now BP’s challenge. All Abhi ever wanted was to be part of his son’s life, that’s all. And he has called it out in multiple episodes that his intentions were never to separate Abhir from anyone. Since Kasauli he is the only parent who is thinking about the mental turmoil the kid is going through unlike his mother who is conveniently choosing to ignore what is obvious just to protect her dream of perfect family.

All these years she was preparing herself to revenge Abhi but didn’t prepare her son for the repercussions which are going to come along that.

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

Akahara is expected to to forget everything she went through ( I am not going list them here as everyone already knows) and go back to Abhimanyu and forgive him. She may forgive him eventually but will never forget.

Originally posted by: Deltablues

So basically if she says "yes, I was irresponsible" that in turn would make her understand Abhi's pain and make her say "you were right to have presigned divorce papers lying around to throw in my face when and if I miscarry"? Matlab kya hi hai lol

No husband has presigned divorce papers...this was a crazy scene with no head or tails.

The question is for AK to address and reflect on her actions. She asked Abhimanyu a lot of things post leap but not once mentioned or displayed any remorse for what her actions led to years ago. She was only addressing "her hurt". Even after 6 years she made it about "herself"

She has no guilt at all...what so ever that a wife lost a husband and a kid lost a father. All AK thinks about is "I was wronged - but I did no wrong. I am superior than anyone"

Originally posted by: gopi2929

No husband has presigned divorce papers...this was a crazy scene with no head or tails.

The question is for AK to address and reflect on her actions. She asked Abhimanyu a lot of things post leap but not once mentioned or displayed any remorse for what her actions led to years ago. She was only addressing "her hurt". Even after 6 years she made it about "herself"

She has no guilt at all...what so ever that a wife lost a husband and a kid lost a father. All AK thinks about is "I was wronged - but I did no wrong. I am superior than anyone"

There's a difference between realising "I had an error in judgement (which btw Akshara didn't)" and using that to rationalise abuse.

The chain of thought does not go from "I was wrong" to "therefore my spouse was right to kick me out after a miscarriage." Lol

Originally posted by: Deltablues

There's a difference between realising "I had an error in judgement (which btw Akshara didn't)" and using that to rationalise abuse.

The chain of thought does not go from "I was wrong" to "therefore my spouse was right to kick me out after a miscarriage." Lol

First and foremost AK made an error of judgment. She had good intentions absolutely (as some claim due to her kind nature - which is another topic of discussion altogether). If there was no error nothing would have gone wrong. Things went wrong because someone made an error. So this point is totally irrelevant

And likewise the chain of reaction also does not go to...I was never wrong and hence I have a right to claim the same. Every story has 2 sides and AK has never seen the other side. Her 1st statement was ....maine kuch nahin kiya

That's a horrible misrepresentation of the truth. She did the same in hit and run case.....hid the facts. It's easy to draw parallels

Most importantly no one is blaming AK for trying to help the girls...but she is still accountable for her actions on that day. Some facts don't change regardless of how one feels about it

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Why reply to posts when you block the user after that ?

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Originally posted by: shahsb_26

@Bold 👏👏

Wow!!!! It's surprising that people blame Akshara for losing their baby! But such sad is the reality.

Hoenstly, no one responsible for. Anything that happened during first part... It was just a risk and innocent attempt to save lives... But let it be!

Dts what I dnt get. It was an accident. It ws situational. Still people keep saying she was to be blamed fr losing not "her " or "their" but "HIS" child.

Originally posted by: Deltablues

There's a difference between realising "I had an error in judgement (which btw Akshara didn't)" and using that to rationalise abuse.

The chain of thought does not go from "I was wrong" to "therefore my spouse was right to kick me out after a miscarriage." Lol

Exactly this..

It's nothing but victim shaming ..akshara provoked akshara lied akshara risked akshara didn't listen akshara did this did that ..all this is justification to abhimanyus kaali kartoot that day.... It's given he went crazy with the deaths but akshara was also his own plus she too lost "their" babies ..he acted as if akshara got Neil killed and aborted his babies out of spite. He wanted to break them apart , it was good ..he cud have at least waited for her to recover ....divorce decision is never one sided...what was her say in it ? She was made to sign the papers and kicked out ..

Nothing changes with aksharas realisation of her mistakes..its not glorification but common sense.... It will only serve to justify abhimanyus actions that day ...her 1 dialogue says it all "its imp to forgive others and yourself too"..none of this would be discussed if akshara went to goenkas and there was a happy reunion after abhir is born.

Thanks for calling out Mrs Sharmas vile violent actions! I too have said before - Manjiri slapping him that day and Akshara time and again holding his collar - earlier for Kairav and post leap for Abhir - is violence and holding Mr Sharmas collar too. This atrocious behaviour shouldn’t be hailed as mothers love. Just because both are women they get away with this crap. Viewers calling this empowerment are delusional. Rules are same for both genders in eyes of law. So both Manjiri and Mrs Sharma should stop playing this nonsense gender card/mother card