Is serial mein Jo ritual hote hain na Maine woh dekhein aur na sune na padhe hain
Kabh8 aaj tuk aisa ritual nahi dekha dadi dadi ek saath jhule baith ke pota ya poti ko jhula jhulaya ho
Leave divorce couple Maine to shaadi Shuda daada daadi ko ek saath jhule pe Baith kar pota ya poti ko jhulate hue nahi dekha 
Shivratri mein husband dwara Kangan wife ko pehanate nahi dekha 
Aur waise bhi according to writer if maata pita are compulsory to sit at ritual for children then how they did sagaai of toshu without anupama tub to yeh baa vanraj anupama ko bol rahe arey to kya hua aisi Kaun si Aafat aa gayi 
How baa vanraj toshu discuss about marriage of toshu with rakhi without involving anupama .they even did not inform anupama for this then rakhi coming to shah to talk for marriage 
Now in shaadi most of ritual done lby adies only isme jode ki jaroorat nahi padti 
Future mother in law can alone give jewelry to Future bride during engagement no jode required 
In haldi rasm only ladies do ritual 
Mehndi no require of couple 
Couple is only required in kanyadan 
Ladies Sangeet no.couple is required 
In olden d ays Future mother in law never go in Barot of her si 
My dadi did not go at Barot of my father marriage 
She stay at home only to do preparation of bahu while my grand father and my Bua went to marriage of my father 
Even lord ram mother did not go at lord ram wedding they stay at home to do preparation of welcoming bahu