Does everyone believe marriage is marriage and should be held above love? I used to think that way all my life until few years ago when I realized marriage is a religious and/or social construct. What matters first and the most is love as that’s real and the most important than a piece of paper or some ritual called marriage. The only time I don’t like that love or unable to support it as much if it’s made after betraying or hurting someone else. Also, if people are married and in love, but then suddenly one partner falls out of love, then I would be on the marriage side as that’s still cheating and betraying that love and marriage both. But other than that, love over marriage. Marriage is important once there’s love between two people and none has hurt someone else over that marriage/love or at minimum basic promises and commitment of some sort. That’s when marriage mean importance as it has pure love from both. When I would watch these shows like MB where the male would force marry the female lead, I would ship them as they were the main couple and also because they were married so I was like marriage is marriage and that should be respected and above anything like I see many doing here or elsewhere. At that time, marriage meant a lot and bigger than love. I even supported Ajay’s marriage with Aish even though Aish was in love Salman’s character and was forced married to Ajay’s character in HDDCS. I was like Ajay is her husband and she should respect her husband and marriage. But now I realize that was wrong. I was young and naive. Even more so when marriage can’t even be a valid marriage if it’s a forced marriage or some sort of deal marriage.
I don’t understand why ITV leads love to make their lives miserable by their own. Why did Virat leave his love Pakhi for his brother and ruined all three of their lives? I can’t relate to Virat at all. I can’t relate to Sairat either as it was made on top of Pakhi’s heartbreak and was a wrong relationship from the start. I didn’t watch the show regularly then but knew here and there. I never saw Pakhi as some sort of coming in between Sairat when Sairat was a mere marriage and nowhere comparable to love. Even after Virat started to fall in love with Sai, I couldn’t support it as it was done after he had wronged Pakhi and ruined lives. I didn’t like other actions of Pakhi like taking away Vinu at the time and few others of hating or trying to harm Sai when it was Virat who had betrayed and wronged her. But not that she supposedly was together with Virat or she came in so called marriage when that marriage didn’t mean an importance. It was also a deal marriage at the time.
Now again Saiya’s marriage. How is it wrong if Sai meets Virat and longs for him? It’s not like she can control herself and neither did she promise anything to Satya? She’s coming across wrong because she believes in marriage and all so she’s would be hypocrite if she starts to meet Virat and all which she used to hate about Pakhi or Virat that why are they not respecting the marriage line. But if I put the way her character is written aside, I don’t find her wrong loving or running after Virat. Her marriage with Satya is nowhere important to what she has with Virat which is love. That’s the real relationship. It’s another matter that she is being written to hold marriage ritual more than love so she will come across wrong if it continues. But other than that, these ITV leads complicate their lives themselves even without any villains. KZK was my fav show and it still is. Sometimes back after I got Hotstar I started watching and couldn’t watch after some episodes seeing how the leads would destroy their lives themselves over deal marriages and keep respecting that and society over their love and happiness 😆
Sai is free to be with Virat and Virat with her. Why is she ruining her life and happiness by being stuck with Satya? Why should she stay away from her love and happiness over some ritual she had with Satya? Now Pakhi also left and Virat is no good for Pakhi either. Sai loves Virat and Virat loves her. That’s what matters at the end of the day. I don’t understand why can’t Sai be with Virat and find her happiness with kids. They can have a nice family with love and happiness rather than the current misery all these leads are in. I hope Satya doesn’t fall in love with Sai. That will be sad
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