Originally posted by: Siasia2014
No no she isnât redeemed. She is still being selfish thatâs not redemption. If she is redeemed she would accept Abhir. She is still only thinking of herself. She is asking AB to leave his son for her daughter. How is that redemption? She has done a lot more worse. But if Ab really chooses Ru then only way out is ivf track. Wish Neilâs spirit comes and haunts him for leaving Ak and abhir. Also when will AA go off. Nothing matters as long as he is around.
Why is being selfish so wrong? A character being redeemed doesn't mean they become textbook good person who is always selfless. Redemption means a character becomes the best version of themself. Arohi was selfish, manipulative, jealous, insecure, etc - these are her core traits. There is no changing them. What can be changed is the motivations and the actions she takes. She hid Abhir's truth and tried to send Abhir away to US. Both are wrong things, but I don't see them being that different from Ak herself hiding Abhir's truth and everything she did for that.
I am not considering any past actions of Arohi, only post-leap. I feel like her stance here is completely justified. Birlas told her they would support her unconditionally for her child. Then when Ruhi was born, Abhi took it upon himself to be her poppy and give her undivided attention. Arohi may have tried to shield Ruhi at that time, but I am sure the Birlas manipulated her into accepting that she means the most to them and they will do everything for her. Since then, you see Arohi being the perfect bahu. She has never considered leaving Birla house ( maybe her own selfish reasons like wanting Abhi), but the Birlas also made it hard for her when she did want to leave. All for Ruhi. Arohi also knew that her position is due to Ruhi. Manjari made her believe she is her mother.
Now suddenly things have gotten so uncertain and its true, the Maa-Beta duo do not care. Abhi cannot see Ruhi's issues, and Manjari can see them and ignores them. They are playing with a little girl's feelings. As a mother Arohi is NOT wrong here. Can she teach ruhi to accept Abhir as a brother and live as happy family together? Yes, she can. But from her perspective, in front of Abhir, Ruhi will always matter less. She doesn't want her daughter to be second choice. What's wrong in that? I
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