Public opinion on Kerala Story. - Page 5

Originally posted by: PangaNaLe

@red, is there any study or data to prove it?

In India not everyone is religious (in any religion) but everyone is patriarchal. Also why Hindu men don't get trapped in same way if its not patriarchy?

I've read many cases where Hindu guys have converted to the girls' religion to be able to marry them. Not only themselves, they subsequently tried to convert their other family members too.

Originally posted by: lalakhun

i have a God who can protect me from those ppl.. Do you?

This line was there in the movie tks too 😆

Originally posted by: PangaNaLe

Women converting because of marriage doesn't just happen because of religion but also because of patriarchy. Women are expected to give sacrifices in a marriage. She's the one changing her surname, leaving her parents and home, sometimes even her city and her job. That is why its considered natural for her to change her religion as well. While its legal in India for two people of different religion to get married and still practice their own religion, its still very uncommon, especially in small towns and rural areas.

Men still live with their parents. How common is it for a joint family to accept a daughter-in-law from a different religion AND let her practice it in their house even after marriage? Its not even just limited to Islam. I come from a Christian family and in Christianity there are different churches (Catholics and Protestants). I've seen it in my own family. While love marriages are not forbidden and couples from different churches can get married even in an arranged marriage setting, the girl is still expected to leave her church and join the church the man follows. Their kids would also follow the church of the father.

My mom has a colleague who is a Christian who married a Hindu guy. Neither of them changed their religion even after marriage. My mom and her friends make fun of them. Ask why she didn't change her religion and convert into a Hindu. They call their kids "half breed". I tried to make her understand how bad her mentality is but she doesn't understand. That's how deep rooted patriarchy is. Even for Hindu families, its very uncommon to accept a muslim daughter-in-law.

That is why inter-religious couples find it convenient for either to change their religion. Most of the time its the woman because of course she's expected to give all the sacrifices. Especially when they're not very religious.

I think is different i'm also a Catholic and I don't see the people of my community converting others. On the other hand, one of my friends married a Muslim man and since then she has changed a lot, she hardly goes out with us anymore, she stopped going to church, she only eats halal food or whatever and she doesn't want to know anything about ham or pork when here everyone eats it and she did too before. Why do u have to change ur religion and traditions? why they can't respect others faith? that's the point.For example I would never marry someone who is not Catholic but if it happens, I am very sure that I would never leave my religion for anyone or force him to do it.

In fact the other day we talked about this among ourselves, how she has changed and how he influences her but we can't do anything just hope for her best 🙄

Originally posted by: NatkhatPyare

This line was there in the movie tks too 😆

So the answer is no, because bad things happen? What was the answer given..

Originally posted by: lalakhun

So the answer is no, because bad things happen? What was the answer given..

So are you trying to say that in your life no bad things have happened? 🙄

We believe in karma. What u get is based on your karma. No one can escape the laws of karma.

Originally posted by: Khalidimagh

My My!!!!

The character of sweet girl asifa came alive right here right now n is right in front of me!!!

Everyone who is reading this will realize once they watch the movie...😆

I was like yahi sab to film me wo bhi bol rahi thi 😆

Sabko ek hi script di jati hai shayad 😆

Originally posted by: NatkhatPyare

So are you trying to say that in your life no bad things have happened? 🙄

We believe in karma. What u get is based on your karma. No one can escape the laws of karma.

i am asking what answer did the movie give.. ?

i still see a lot of ppl escape karma.. Queen elizabeth is one..With the brutality she has commit... See this your believe, keep with you.. Dont say God does the same ... Unless you mention your god..

If Allah were to seize the people for their transgression, He would have spared no creature on earth, but He lets them go on up to an appointed time. So, when their time will come, they will not be able to delay it for a moment, nor to bring it soon.

They attribute to Allah what they hate ˹for themselves˺, (punishment) and their tongues utter the lie that they will have the finest reward. Without a doubt, for them is the Fire, where they will be abandoned.

Originally posted by: lalakhun

i am asking what answer did the movie give.. ?

i still see a lot of ppl escape karma.. Queen elizabeth is one..With the brutality she has commit... See this your believe, keep with you.. Dont say God does the same ... Unless you mention your god..

If Allah were to seize the people for their transgression, He would have spared no creature on earth, but He lets them go on up to an appointed time. So, when their time will come, they will not be able to delay it for a moment, nor to bring it soon.

They attribute to Allah what they hate ˹for themselves˺, (punishment) and their tongues utter the lie that they will have the finest reward. Without a doubt, for them is the Fire, where they will be abandoned.

Mast item ho tum lala 🤣🤣

Ab tumse kya hi serious discussion karoon 🤷🏼‍♂️😆

One Asifa is right here in this thread. Ab bolo ye bhi propaganda hai 😆

I watched the movie. It isn't well made at all and it seems directionless and unclear in what they are trying to show.

To anyone who wishes to watch it - it has violence & rape scenes which can be triggering to some people.

As people said that they have shown a lack of knowledge about self religion, to me it wasn't that - and the brainwashing didn't make any sense either. It was more like brainlessness. When she spat on her father in the hospital - I completely lost it.

The real issue is lack of values.

The argument against the Hinduism were so juvenile - they didn't make any sense at all. The whole movie didn't make any sense to me and didn't shed light ob anything at all. Another thing the movie failed to highlight was - how many keralites are settled in the Middle East and how many have the gulf connection.

The movie has tried to make these girls look like victims - which in reality these ISIS brides are not. They are well aware of what they get into. Watch some real documentaries and news guys, - this movie ain't it.