Father vs father love

I do not know even if this deserves a thread, but I could not stop myself from analyzing this tiny scene from yesterday's episode.

AbhiN and Abhir are talking about Abhir's dream. Docman comes. Abhir gets excited. AK and AbhiN are shocked and anxious. Docman hugs Abhir. After few moments you see flinch on AbhiN's face, his baby is getting too tightly hugged. He feels the pain. Next mement, Abhir says, ' Apane itane jorse hug kiya ki muze susu aa gayi..'. Docman laughts.

I personally found this scene so telling about father vs father love. One can feel his baby's discomfort as his own and other can make his baby feel uncomfortable just to express the love.

Navbhir fans can go and watch that scene again and enjoy..❤️

And they are not giving any POV of father love. Don't how they are heading towards Abhira reunion?

Originally posted by: MyThoughts

I do not know even if this deserves a thread, but I could not stop myself from analyzing this tiny scene from yesterday's episode.

AbhiN and Abhir are talking about Abhir's dream. Docman comes. Abhir gets excited. AK and AbhiN are shocked and anxious. Docman hugs Abhir. After few moments you see flinch on AbhiN's face, his baby is getting too tightly hugged. He feels the pain. Next mement, Abhir says, ' Apane itane jorse hug kiya ki muze susu aa gayi..'. Docman laughts.

I personally found this scene so telling about father vs father love. One can feel his baby's discomfort as his own and other can make his baby feel uncomfortable just to express the love.

Navbhir fans can go and watch that scene again and enjoy..❤️

And here I was about to quit...😆

But anyways... I don't think the makers intended that... but we are open to interpret as we can. The audience have the right to do that.

It is so fun to see others interpreting the scenes.

ITV does not exactly feel like a place subtle hints are made for intelligent audience...

But I like this interpretation 👍🏼👍🏼

When Nav does something as little as blinking... We have people interpreting the scenes as gaslighting, emotional manipulation, creepy...🤔

So seeing a post about positive interpretation of his actions is nice...a breath of fresh air if you will

Too much love is toxic and suffocating . Ruhi suffers frm it ..we can't measure love and we can't say that abhin and akshu love abhir any less..yet their love for abhir is fulfilling 💖 its not that only abhim is the best father in this whole wide world while others r just opportunists ..he just wants to hold tightly everything that's dear to him..

In the camp abhim forgot abt ruhi while abhinav Nd akshu both were trying to divert her mind ..they cud sense that ruhi is disturbed. That's how much abhinav is sensitive to other kids , not only his..

Originally posted by: Krinya

Too much love is toxic and suffocating . Ruhi suffers frm it ..we can't measure love and we can't say that abhin and akshu love abhir any less..yet their love for abhir is fulfilling 💖 its not that only abhim is the best father in this whole wide world while others r just opportunists ..he just wants to hold tightly everything that's dear to him..

In the camp abhim forgot abt ruhi while abhinav Nd akshu both were trying to divert her mind ..they cud sense that ruhi is disturbed. That's how much abhinav is sensitive to other kids , not only his..

Yes. Even during Mimi's birthday party AbhiN sorted the fight by making pieces of cupcake and telling Abhir and Ruhi the importance of sharing. AbhiN is a father goal.

Overall the beauty of AbhiN character is that he can love immensely without expectation and does not hv yours vs mine mentality. Even AK has the 'haq' feeling. If situation comes and AbhiN feels Abhir is better without him, he will move away.

I think this is going to be the outcome of custody battle. More and more, Birlas prove him unworthy of being Abhir's father, there are chances that he would part ways from them.

AbhiM is not only has a clutchy love. He does not have ability to love multiple people at the same time. When it mom, its all abt mom, same with AK, at sm point AK was only thing for him, then ruhi and now Abhir...

I think it's nice to notice and analyze small details in a series that show the relationship between characters. The scene between AbhiN and Abhir, where Abhir is hugged by Docman, actually shows a difference in the way the two fathers express their love for their children. It is interesting to see that AbhiN immediately senses his baby's discomfort, while Docman only pays attention to his own emotions and need for affection. This shows that in parenting there are many ways to express and show your love, and that everyone has their own way of doing it. Overall, I think it's nice when the show includes scenes like this that deepen the characters' relationships and make us as viewers think about them.

Originally posted by: umawanderer

And here I was about to quit...😆

But anyways... I don't think the makers intended that... but we are open to interpret as we can. The audience have the right to do that.

Need not be makers but actors do analyze and exhibit their skills. AbhiN has upper hand in expressing subtle, fatherly emotions which makes his screen presence as father so delightful to watch.

Sometimes, I feel it must be so suffocating for the directors and actors to enact useless plots and OTT emotions onky because that brings TRP. Finally they are creative people at heart.

It is so fun to see others interpreting the scenes.

ITV does not exactly feel like a place subtle hints are made for intelligent audience...

But I like this interpretation 👍🏼👍🏼

When Nav does something as little as blinking... We have people interpreting the scenes as gaslighting, emotional manipulation, creepy...🤔

So seeing a post about positive interpretation of his actions is nice...a breath of fresh air if you will

Originally posted by: MyThoughts

I do not know even if this deserves a thread, but I could not stop myself from analyzing this tiny scene from yesterday's episode.

AbhiN and Abhir are talking about Abhir's dream. Docman comes. Abhir gets excited. AK and AbhiN are shocked and anxious. Docman hugs Abhir. After few moments you see flinch on AbhiN's face, his baby is getting too tightly hugged. He feels the pain. Next mement, Abhir says, ' Apane itane jorse hug kiya ki muze susu aa gayi..'. Docman laughts.

I personally found this scene so telling about father vs father love. One can feel his baby's discomfort as his own and other can make his baby feel uncomfortable just to express the love.

Navbhir fans can go and watch that scene again and enjoy..❤️

I didn't notice that but now that you mentioned it, saw it again and it does seem like that. He was definitely concerned when he saw Abhi hugging too tightly.

And is it just me or it felt a bit odd when Abhi was kissing and hugging Abhir. It kind of seemed forced.. I don't know but their bond just doesn't feel organic.. I just don't get father son vibes. Its actually looks like a cheerful doctor greeting his patient.

On the other hand when I see Abhinav and Abhir together there is completely different level of warmth. Even he carries Abhir around, showers him with hugs and kisses but it it feels so warm and adorable. I don't know if they mean to show it that way. And maybe its just me but I feel the way Abhir clings to his mamma and papa is very different from how he clings to other people

I only watched NavBhir scene in the whole episode 😆that was so adorable..

Abhimanyu s emotions when he first knew and dreaming of Abhir - was good and emotional. But post that, after his bad mouthing AbhiN i feel all are to show look I am far better off than you. May be I am biased. Love is not enough to raise a child and that will be brought again and again making way to his exit. Akshara why was she scared in the court. I want her to give apt reply and fight without shedding tears and holding hands.

Originally posted by: Sonali1968

Abhimanyu s emotions when he first knew and dreaming of Abhir - was good and emotional. But post that, after his bad mouthing AbhiN i feel all are to show look I am far better off than you. May be I am biased. Love is not enough to raise a child and that will be brought again and again making way to his exit. Akshara why was she scared in the court. I want her to give apt reply and fight without shedding tears and holding hands.

Akshara has got to know how the custody case can be now she will defend and fight.