Father vs father love - Page 2

Originally posted by: bhshre95

I didn't notice that but now that you mentioned it, saw it again and it does seem like that. He was definitely concerned when he saw Abhi hugging too tightly.

And is it just me or it felt a bit odd when Abhi was kissing and hugging Abhir. It kind of seemed forced.. I don't know but their bond just doesn't feel organic.. I just don't get father son vibes. Its actually looks like a cheerful doctor greeting his patient.

On the other hand when I see Abhinav and Abhir together there is completely different level of warmth. Even he carries Abhir around, showers him with hugs and kisses but it it feels so warm and adorable. I don't know if they mean to show it that way. And maybe its just me but I feel the way Abhir clings to his mamma and papa is very different from how he clings to other people

I only watched NavBhir scene in the whole episode 😆that was so adorable..

Aptly said. I think it is meant to be like that. AbhiM as character can rarely love for the sake of love. He knows possession/haq/duty. He loves Ruhi as she filled the void in his life and as a duty. He does not love ruhi for ruhi's sake but for his own sake. A thing you possess, you want to preserve, protect, garnish but if you love you want it to grow and flourish even with if it comes with pain. That is why AbhiM overprotects, pampers her but does not descipline her whereas Abhir's parents do.

AbhiM has a savior complex. He thinks he knows best for people he loves and imposes his ideas on them, not allowing the person explore and grow. AbhiM's love is pet love, you pamper them, but also cage them.

Hence, you see two AKs, one who becomes so mick in front of AbhiM but sherani in front of AbhiN. It is the same AK in company of caged love vs skylove respectively.

I agree with what you're saying. It seems like AbhiM's love for Ruhi is more about possession and duty rather than pure love. He loves her because she fills a void in his life and he sees it as his duty to protect and preserve her. However, true love should allow the other person to grow and flourish, even if it comes with pain. AbhiM's overprotectiveness towards Ruhi is like caging her instead of allowing her to explore and grow.

It's also interesting to see the difference in AK's behavior around AbhiM versus AbhiN. This could be because in the presence of AbhiM, AK is under the influence of caged love, whereas with AbhiN, he experiences sky love which is more free and open.

Originally posted by: Krinya

Too much love is toxic and suffocating . Ruhi suffers frm it ..we can't measure love and we can't say that abhin and akshu love abhir any less..yet their love for abhir is fulfilling 💖 its not that only abhim is the best father in this whole wide world while others r just opportunists ..he just wants to hold tightly everything that's dear to him..

In the camp abhim forgot abt ruhi while abhinav Nd akshu both were trying to divert her mind ..they cud sense that ruhi is disturbed. That's how much abhinav is sensitive to other kids , not only his..

Clearly abhimanyu lacks how to balance between kids. he wants both the kids but ends up hurting one. He should learn from Abhinav

Originally posted by: MyThoughts

Aptly said. I think it is meant to be like that. AbhiM as character can rarely love for the sake of love. He knows possession/haq/duty. He loves Ruhi as she filled the void in his life and as a duty. He does not love ruhi for ruhi's sake but for his own sake. A thing you possess, you want to preserve, protect, garnish but if you love you want it to grow and flourish even with if it comes with pain. That is why AbhiM overprotects, pampers her but does not descipline her whereas Abhir's parents do.

AbhiM has a savior complex. He thinks he knows best for people he loves and imposes his ideas on them, not allowing the person explore and grow. AbhiM's love is pet love, you pamper them, but also cage them.

Hence, you see two AKs, one who becomes so mick in front of AbhiM but sherani in front of AbhiN. It is the same AK in company of caged love vs skylove respectively.

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

Totally! She can live the way she wants with AbN but she feels caged with AbM ,he always tried to control ,imposed his rules on her when she didn’t follow them he always reacted in extreme ways.. she loves the freedom she have with AbN. That is the reason she wants to protect her happy kasauli family and Abhir away from toxic Birla’s

Post kasali 2 im seeing the opposite ,in front of abhimanyu she is in fighter mode,sherni mode and in front of nav she is in pacifying ,kasali 1 was different she was in herself

Originally posted by: sweta2005

Post kasali 2 im seeing the opposite ,in front of abhimanyu she is in fighter mode,sherni mode and in front of nav she is in pacifying ,kasali 1 was different she was in herself

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

Here it is all about her freedom n being herself when she is with AbN, she can show her real emotions and free to do or say what she wanted to which lacks with AbM, he never gave her that freedom, he always loved her with conditions. Remember the dialogue Umar khaid in the temple confession scene . Now they r not in kasuali so they don’t need to discuss their finances or any other family matters. She pacifies AbN as he is feeling low thinking of losing Abhir . She is in Sherri mode with AbM because she was hurt with his behaviour earlier and even after listening all the struggles she went through her pregnancy he didn’t even regret or felt sorry.. He also wants to take away 6yr old kid from his mother when he 40yrs old still staying with his mumma throwing his papa out of the house

Why can't I find abhiM's dad post leap ..any damaka happened or simply character is in states ..

Originally posted by: RiAnsh21

Why can't I find abhiM's dad post leap ..any damaka happened or simply character is in states ..