• GHKPM Frustration Thread • DT NOTE P.49, P.83- P.92 - Page 75

Originally posted by: nikita05

SaiYa becomes Chaiya for SaiRat fans...

SaiRat becomes ChaiRat for SaiYa fans...

Meanwhile, Sai be like mere aaba ke diye naam ko kyu toda...

And my favourite chai DDP...koi nahi samajhta use... Chuskiya lo, khush raho...kya use bhi is shipping game me phasa liya...

Ikr. Its kinda ridiculous that Sai and V , Satya and V are even being compared.

Sai has tolerated a LOT in the name of love, her farz as Vs wife and in return she has been treated like crap by them all

Use and throw.

Some audacity V has to throw in her face that she hasnt moved on and therefore apparently that gives him the right to harass her. What nonsense is this?!

If he genuinely repented and wanted to reconcile with Sai, he'd be considerate and grateful that he has a woman like Sai in his life who loved him so much that she never moved on, remained single and focused only on their child. He'd feel sad to see that she has probably never even considered the idea of moving on due to the bad experience of being with him rather than gloat about it in a condescending way.

The way he behaves- challenging her, mocking her- that tumse kaun shaadi karega, tim toh vaapas mere hi paas aaogi- you have no other option except me- that is SO crass.

this is Vs so-called love for Sai,

And Sai just because she is a mother needs to tolerate any crap done to her and go back to this man.

I can understand if people arent entirely happy with sai marrying Satya in a rush- in an impulsive decision but to say that Sai should lose her kids, or Sai is characterless or that sai is egotistical just because she refused the proposal of a man who has cheated her innumerable times- that I just cannot understand. I cannot understand how anyone in their right mind can root for a couple where the man is blatantly abusive. He has ZERO regret, introspection.

HE is full of arrogance, hypocrisy and cruelty.

The audacity he has to say- I am giving you a spot in my life again rather than requesting her for a place in HER life- that shows his POV.

The audacity of BK to go blame Satya for breaking V-Sai family when it was she who supported P years ago, forcing Sai to leave, she supported VP marriage and forced V to make babies with P and go on honeymoon and now she goes to sai as if nothing ever happened and expects her to return as Vs wife. Hadh hai.

I wish Sai would get better written dialogues. In her monologues she is focused on Vinu, P, Ash etc and less on her own pain, angst and broken trust. This man has only ever lied- why cant she highlight that instead of saying she wants V to love P like a wife and give Vinu a family etc etc

Despite Sai's poor dialogues, Ayesha makes Sai's pain palpable and her heart continues to be in the right place. She shut UM up for speaking nonsense about Satya and Amba and she has been clear about her priorities and her reasons for marrying. She is not cheating anyone. I dunno what people expect from Sai.

Maybe because they are not giving proper dialogues to Sai some people are not able to her pain. They are giving good dialogue to Pakhi so sometimes it look like it’s Sai who did all the wrong.who starts seeing the show are not able to relate with her but Virat and Pakhi.

Who are watching the show from starting can relate with her that how much she suffered in this love and marriage. Now also we can see in Sai’s expression that how was she only living for Savi. What are her fears regarding Vinu that she have to give up on him. How she is pushed in doing things.

Why can’t people see the chain that first pushed her to leave the house then city and now pushing her to marry someone when she is emotionally not ready for It. She is doing it because Virat vinu and Ashwini pushing her for it. Why can’t she just told Ashwini in front of all that’s what you told me that day. You wanted me to move on so Virat don’t come behind me. Why can’t she told in front of everyone what Vinu told her. Why he go in trauma again. Why can’t she ask Virat that if she agree to marry him will Pakhi gonna leave the house. Will he prioritise her over his Pakhi or how will he make Vinu accept her as aai.

V's divorce with P is immaterial. Even if she leaves V isnt trustworthy. It'll take time. but it'd be a step to show Sai he is serious about getting P out of his life. and if V cared about Sai's rights on Vinu he'd have already acted on it. infact even now instead of harassing Sai he'd focus on Vinu accepting his divorce with P and accepting Sai as aai. but no. he got the info that Vinu has weakness again because of psycho trauma of him pushing P which he saw and still he hasnt realized that Vinu needs to be talked to. He was hiding his proposal to Sai from Vinu. Only Savi knew, not Vinu. So if we assume Sai had accepted his proposal 100% Vinu would hate Sai and hold her responsible for VP marriage breaking. once P leaves and Vinu accepts Sai as aai, he has all the time in the world to coax Sai if he really wants that...but he is pressurizing Sai to reconcile even though she has NO reason to. why is he giving ultimatums to Sai instead of focusing on kicking P out and actually repenting his deeds?!

He already knows how Ash, ninad etc feel about his decision to divorce P and propose to Sai. so i dont think if sai told him - Ash is asking me to move on- that'd make any diff. Right now BK is the only one who supports Sai-V reunion and that also for no good reason. its just BK being her regressive self. whatever the raja beta of CN- V- wants should happen and so she feels obligated to make it happen even if its utter crap.

If BK had any sense she'd make sure P is sent packing and Vinu knows truth before harassing Sai or going to accuse Satya and his family

And V has no realization that Sai refusing him is not out of ego but because of the bitterness that she has faced and that she needs space and time.

He seems to think that just coz he wants something, it should happen. he has no care for how Sai feels.

Originally posted by: Ashane25

Actually just wanted to ask you I don't want to hurt any Saiya fans but narrow mentality-- ma'am I just want to ask you, being woman definitely you can answer this you hate Virat or whatever it's your choice respect to it but if Sai would have heard of Virat's affair with another lady in her police station by his associates and would have seen the clip of the flirt that they both shared in his cabin and police canteen the way Saiya did and ultimately had seen Virat blowing dust off her eyes when she hold both of his hands and he didn't hesitated even once and was like are you feeling good now, if Sai would have said him having an affair with her, I don't think so it would have termed as wrong infact right...... you hate Virat or love Sai whatever is your emotional state I am not against that but I think Virat wasn't wrong there.....pls don't say she is single or these things I am just with the vision of Sai's egoistic mentality leading to this marriage that she herself addressed today as in hindi it's aham Is she right with the vision that Virat did wrong to her when at the first sight when Sai saw Virat with kid she assumed that he moved on and is having a kid......🙏🏻 I am just 19, but according to me Sai crossed lines and she isn't accepting just going by getting hurt for no reason where Satya is flirt everyone knows that and you weren't????

You know that Virat is married to Pakhi, right? Your hypothetical is faulty. Virat owes loyalty and fidelty to Pakhi now. Sai owes nothing to no one and would owe fidelty to only Satya in the future IF they get married. Your hypothetical should have been : "how would have Pakhi felt seeing her husband flirting with some subordinate?"

Sai, on her part, already sees him with his wife— raising her son with Pakhi.

Originally posted by: Deltablues

You know that Virat is married to Pakhi, right? Your hypothetical is faulty. Virat owes loyalty and fidelty now. Sai owes nothing to no one and would owe fidelty to only Satya in the future IF they get married. Your hypothetical should have been : "how would have Pakhi felt seeing her husband flirting with some subordinate?"

Sai, on her part, already sees him with his wife— raising her son with Pakhi.

I don't understand this, the whole message doesn't come with a factor of fidelity of Sai towards Virat when she herself said yesterday that she is doing all this in her ego that how can a man whom she loved the whole life can doubt her character or having relationship with Satya so what you said is not even a topic definitely when Sai herself thinks that she didn't do anything wrong and Virat is misjudging her.....the problem is that, you know ma'am here the only topic that is considered is who is right or wrong with a background of favouritism and in this course you lose logic and put yourself over neutrality and if you are this then pls never say next time that Virat do anything wrong with Sai after leap because their marriage became void because of her and Sai is not allowed to ask anything to him about his attitude towards her as no one...... and this is not an archaeologist analysis that you are justifying hypothesis over the exact situation it's really too much..... according to you when Sai said deal marriage to Virat and was like I don't care about what you do with someone else so she wasn't allowed to ask if Virat would have flirted the way Sai did.....no naa the way you said the above stuff is really undigestable and totally with no aptitude of understanding the basic scenario in a non biased way I can say thousands of things like this but it will be foolish of me to ghumao firao things when I know the exactness of the situation.....and definitely she will not be having fidelity towards Satya as she termed it as deal marriage with no expectations so every point gets nullified as said by you..... Virat always maintained his celibacy for Sai but this will not be the case of Sai wrt Virat....

If this is how logically, practically and over the emotional fragmental analysis in the condition is started na then everything was wrong for Virat from the start as he didn't get married life though being married with Sai and he didn't want married life even after Sai's death with PL and never wanted but conditions made him move on which he didn't so here is the ultimatum and pls be in the course.......

Are you sure that Virat was gonna kick out Pakhi from home because according to me she will live in CN and Chavan will be indebted to her forever. Vinu will hate Sai and Virat will enjoy everything.

No I'm not sure what V would do but my point was even if he somehow managed to get P to actually divorce then also Sai should not trust him.

You are proving me right when you for every wrong doing of Virat blaming someone else but Sai’s reaction to them are her ego according to you. Why can’t Virat take the responsibility of his actions.He is not a child where other peoples are who are making him do things.

He was the one who give a stupid vaada to Pakhi who he didn’t know for 2 days properly. They didn’t knew each other full name at that time. It was he who propose a deal marriage and told Sai to not have any hope because he have Pakhi in his heart. He was the one who always protected pakhi’s respect and threw Sai under the bus.

Maybe his intentions were not wrong but his actions were.His surrogacy decisions also was not wrong because Pakhi and kaku didn’t leave a choice but after that when Pakhi made Sai stay away from fetus then he was wrong to accompany Pakhi. Ashwini can take care of Pakhi. He was wrong to not sign contract when Sai wanted it. He had to realise Sai’s insecurities that time. And Sai was proven right when he snatched Vinu from Sai and gives him to Pakhi. But na he did because of family. He can bail out Pakhi but it was not needed for her to come back to Chavan house she can go to her mothers house but na he brought Pakhi home because of family.

After leap also I don’t have problem with him for marrying Pakhi but now I have problem because if he wants to stay with Sai he should clear the entire mess first. He doesn’t have go after Sai before that. Yes he pushed Sai with that first from house then city and with his public announcement marrying Satya. You are not ready to see it because according to you he did it because of his love. He didn’t want to loose Sai again but he didn’t want to correct things before that. Sai was not going anywhere if he made things right slowly. Virat is pushing Sai from himself.

Yes he is not trustworthy when it comes to his family or Pakhi. He can do anything for them.

With that virakhi hug it was clear if Pakhi was going to insult Sai he was gonna stay mute because Pakhi did a favour with divorcing him and Sai should be greatful.