• GHKPM Frustration Thread • DT NOTE P.49, P.83- P.92 - Page 72

Originally posted by: NayaNehaD31

Mrs Virat over anything lol

Let's not get chatty over her lol nahi toh warning aa jaega😭😭😭😭 kahi aur chalo lol.😎 🤗

@bold

Yeh padhke, school yaad aa gya.

Zyada baat mat karo daant padegi and punishment milegi.😆

Originally posted by: Srijeeta06

Aaj to aur pakka ho gya Sai ka POV sunke.

How can someone still love a man like Virat?

A man with completely no personality and such narrow mentality who amazingly has not changed a bit in these 5-6 years, rather have achieved and is achieving new lows every single day.

Actually just wanted to ask you I don't want to hurt any Saiya fans but narrow mentality-- ma'am I just want to ask you, being woman definitely you can answer this you hate Virat or whatever it's your choice respect to it but if Sai would have heard of Virat's affair with another lady in her police station by his associates and would have seen the clip of the flirt that they both shared in his cabin and police canteen the way Saiya did and ultimately had seen Virat blowing dust off her eyes when she hold both of his hands and he didn't hesitated even once and was like are you feeling good now, if Sai would have said him having an affair with her, I don't think so it would have termed as wrong infact right...... you hate Virat or love Sai whatever is your emotional state I am not against that but I think Virat wasn't wrong there.....pls don't say she is single or these things I am just with the vision of Sai's egoistic mentality leading to this marriage that she herself addressed today as in hindi it's aham Is she right with the vision that Virat did wrong to her when at the first sight when Sai saw Virat with kid she assumed that he moved on and is having a kid......🙏🏻 I am just 19, but according to me Sai crossed lines and she isn't accepting just going by getting hurt for no reason where Satya is flirt everyone knows that and you weren't????

Originally posted by: Ashane25

Actually just wanted to ask you I don't want to hurt any Saiya fans but narrow mentality-- ma'am I just want to ask you, being woman definitely you can answer this you hate Virat or whatever it's your choice respect to it but if Sai would have heard of Virat's affair with another lady in her police station by his associates and would have seen the clip of the flirt that they both shared in his cabin and police canteen the way Saiya did and ultimately had seen Virat blowing dust off her eyes when she hold both of his hands and he didn't hesitated even once and was like are you feeling good now, if Sai would have said him having an affair with her, I don't think so it would have termed as wrong infact right...... you hate Virat or love Sai whatever is your emotional state I am not against that but I think Virat wasn't wrong there.....pls don't say she is single or these things I am just with the vision of Sai's egoistic mentality leading to this marriage that she herself addressed today as in hindi it's aham Is she right with the vision that Virat did wrong to her when at the first sight when Sai saw Virat with kid she assumed that he moved on and is having a kid......🙏🏻 I am just 19, but according to me Sai crossed lines and she isn't accepting just going by getting hurt for no reason where Satya is flirt everyone knows that and you weren't????

During Shruthi track inspite of Virat being innocent Sai had made a big issue. She accused him of having an extra marital affair and handed him the divorce papers. Virat had never crossed his limits still she doubted his intention. During that phase she hadn't even accepted their marriage. She was in a deal mode but still behaved as his wife. And, now after flirting with Satya and doing all the cheap things when Virat asked her about their relation her ego got hurt. Why? Is she a saint? According to Sai she can assume things but Virat can't and to satisfy her ego she is getting married to him. Why are there different rules for Virat and Sai?

Originally posted by: Ashane25

Actually just wanted to ask you I don't want to hurt any Saiya fans but narrow mentality-- ma'am I just want to ask you, being woman definitely you can answer this you hate Virat or whatever it's your choice respect to it but if Sai would have heard of Virat's affair with another lady in her police station by his associates and would have seen the clip of the flirt that they both shared in his cabin and police canteen the way Saiya did and ultimately had seen Virat blowing dust off her eyes when she hold both of his hands and he didn't hesitated even once and was like are you feeling good now, if Sai would have said him having an affair with her, I don't think so it would have termed as wrong infact right...... you hate Virat or love Sai whatever is your emotional state I am not against that but I think Virat wasn't wrong there.....pls don't say she is single or these things I am just with the vision of Sai's egoistic mentality leading to this marriage that she herself addressed today as in hindi it's aham Is she right with the vision that Virat did wrong to her when at the first sight when Sai saw Virat with kid she assumed that he moved on and is having a kid......🙏🏻 I am just 19, but according to me Sai crossed lines and she isn't accepting just going by getting hurt for no reason where Satya is flirt everyone knows that and you weren't????

Rules or moral codes aren’t different for a male and a female.

But Virat has this constant tendency of accusing her of having an affair.

He may love her but he doesn’t trust her at all.

In the initial tracks, Virat sunaofyed her even with her male friends in college?

Was it fair on his part?

With Satya, was she really flirting?

Why can’t she be just concerned about Satya as a friend?

Sai in any case has lots of gratitude for Satya since he saved her and Virat knows this extremely well.

So to directly accuse her of having an affair whatsoever be the circumstances be, do you really think it’s fair on his part?

When you claim to love someone, you automatically should trust them as well.

Without trust, with just love a relationship cannot survive.

@bold neither I am a Saiya fan nor I am of narrow mentality.

Rather I think opposite genders can have a beautiful friendship as well.

And if the person who claims to love you will doubt you just based on the gossips of the associates of the workplace then I would certainly think twice about that love.

In a relationship, trust and respect is of utmost importance.

Originally posted by: Fats24

During Shruthi track inspite of Virat being innocent Sai had made a big issue. She accused him of having an extra marital affair and handed him the divorce papers. Virat had never crossed his limits still she doubted his intention. During that phase she hadn't even accepted their marriage. She was in a deal mode but still behaved as his wife. And, now after flirting with Satya and doing all the cheap things when Virat asked her about their relation her ego got hurt. Why? Is she a saint? According to Sai she can assume things but Virat can't and to satisfy her ego she is getting married to him. Why are there different rules for Virat and Sai?

You were absolutely right in this, I don't know why there are different rules for Virat and Sai, why the guy who forgets about past just because he is having a present and it's priorities and wants happiness and in this doesn't always addresses his serious and painful side gets hate and assumed to be shameless and selfish, on the other hand, the woman who always lives with the past and shows pain wrt to it and present and prioritises her own mentality in the name of morality and care is considered mahaan......I am really annoyed now by this show's biased portrayal, my mind always gets conflicted with my heart ,after seeing this type of crap depictions, they just show non sense and want acceptance but how??? Aren't we having any kind of IQ to assess the things in a rational way? Are we really this dumb to just go with the flow and accept anything??? No na...but the makers are sick they are just in business, making money and nothing else.... unfortunately this process will keep going....

And definitely I totally agree with you ,that why Sai behaved there as his wife when she herself insulted or abused him in Mahabaleshwar and continued it in Shruti drama also, I haven't found a single scene there where Sai didn't abused him and added it with her creative mannerless insults what I felt annoyed about there is when you started developing feelings for him you want his attention but what about the selfless one sided love which Virat showered on you from the last 5-6 years of MBBS which you didn't even respond infact kicked in your childish nature, Virat was truly loving creature there, who was being godly though having human complexities and fighted with the whole world to let his died friend's pregnant wife get to see their baby's face, I really applauded him for his selfless nature there but here is our Sai who wants Virat to get died in pain because of her getting married to someone else as how dare he doubted her?????😔 And specially when her inner self is saying that it's her ego and hate for Virat and not the right thing that situation wants......sorry but I will never to able to respect a human, who prioritised her own self over her daughter's life and shamelessly given the name of love towards his son when she knows that what actually is she doing but as always she is what she is..... stubborn

Sai didn't assume anything in Shruti track. She gave him umpteen chances to explain but in front of her eyes she saw him in hospital as Shruti's husband, and in birth certificate as father to her child. He didn't clarify even then. Yet in all this she kept insaaniyat , farz above everything. She didn't let him lose his job. She convinced Pulkit to treat Shruti. He was hiding things,. Lying. She kept asking what the issue is and he just said sahi vakt with no end in sight.

Its frustrating that a person as kind hearted as Sai who has always shown her righteousness and love even in anger/hurt is being punished like this.

Sai deserves better. She doesn't deserve to deal with Vs BS over and over again.

The audacity of V who married P to talk about Sai's "affair" is appalling. Who the F is he?! Hes her EX husband. He's the one who married another, flaunted it and now suddenly he thinks if he wants to divorce P and get back with Sai then Sai should want the same thing. What entitlement. Who the F is he to make decisions for Sai?!

Sai is single. Who she's with or not is her business.

Originally posted by: Nja91

Sai didn't assume anything in Shruti track. She gave him umpteen chances to explain but in front of her eyes she saw him in hospital as Shruti's husband, and in birth certificate as father to her child. He didn't clarify even then. Yet in all this she kept insaaniyat , farz above everything. She didn't let him lose his job. She convinced Pulkit to treat Shruti. He was hiding things,. Lying. She kept asking what the issue is and he just said sahi vakt with no end in sight.

Its frustrating that a person as kind hearted as Sai who has always shown her righteousness and love even in anger/hurt is being punished like this.

Sai deserves better. She doesn't deserve to deal with Vs BS over and over again.

The audacity of V who married P to talk about Sai's "affair" is appalling. Who the F is he?! Hes her EX husband. He's the one who married another, flaunted it and now suddenly he thinks if he wants to divorce P and get back with Sai then Sai should want the same thing. What entitlement. Who the F is he to make decisions for Sai?!

Sai is single. Who she's with or not is her business.

You see Virat was not actually cheating with Shruti, he was just acting like he had someone else in front of his legally wedded wife and the whole family. A man can't even have a pretend side chick anymore....what will feminism take away next from men??

Itna gaslighting toh chalta hai

Seriously tho, Sai thought he was having an affair and as a normal, sane person she asked for a divorce...that is the normal thing to do. You are certain your partner is cheating on you? you get separated. You don't force them in a marriage and keep insulting them.

Constantly CA-ing a woman, then proposing her, then again CA-ng her anytime she is with a man and STILL expecting her to stay with you is abusive and pathetic (its funny Virat does this Sai and Pakhi was doing exactly same with Virat.)

Originally posted by: Srijeeta06

Rules or moral codes aren’t different for a male and a female.

But Virat has this constant tendency of accusing her of having an affair.

He may love her but he doesn’t trust her at all.

In the initial tracks, Virat sunaofyed her even with her male friends in college?

Was it fair on his part?

With Satya, was she really flirting?

Why can’t she be just concerned about Satya as a friend?

Sai in any case has lots of gratitude for Satya since he saved her and Virat knows this extremely well.

So to directly accuse her of having an affair whatsoever be the circumstances be, do you really think it’s fair on his part?

When you claim to love someone, you automatically should trust them as well.

Without trust, with just love a relationship cannot survive.

@bold neither I am a Saiya fan nor I am of narrow mentality.

Rather I think opposite genders can have an extremely beautiful friendship as well.

And if the person who claims to love you will doubt you just based on the gossips of the associates of the workplace then I would certainly think twice about that love.

In a relationship, trust and respect is of utmost importance.

Ma'am I was mainly talking about how she behaved with Satya in his cabin and when she smiled of Satya's flirt instead of getting hesitated or annoyed, when he came so close to her in canteen that's it according to me these two were much more than flirt with hidden feelings ,when you are not restricting to the behaviour that you generally act like and if you saying of regular accusing I agree with this that Virat is having as big jealousy factor but I can also understand his end everytime....when you say he doubted her with friends what I felt wrong about is that why you should not know your boundaries specially when you don't even consider him as your husband I mean boundaries here as respecting sentiments of your partner, family and society....which she never did in being adult child and it resulted in big problems....

And if you like constant tendency of accusing of having affair is not right because Sai also accused him in Mahabaleshwar and in Shruti track without any evidence or any resource to rely on from his side.....on the other side when Virat did all this, situation was so different and accomodated by a series of conflicted events whether you consider Ajinkya, Jagtap and Satya now, in all of this a strong background made him do that.....Virat really trust Sai, you can see it in a way that when he ever gets heard of Sai's character assassination by others like kaku, Vitthal, Gulab rao, some of his family members, Pakhi he always gets offended and defends her but after a time his jealousy crosses lines and he starts bursting out unbelonging words to her....

And I don't think he was right to directly say that but Sai was wrong first as I have said that she didn't even hesitate in all that she could have dealt it in another way possible nothing was emergent there but she acted the way she wasn't and didn't even think of drawing the lines there it was definitely care as friend but at the some time crossing lines......I am also the guy who believes in opposite gender having good friendship ,but with specific limitations, as everyone is aware about that and it shows the difference between relationship and friendship between opposites you should prioritise stepping back instead of spontaneity in this when it is anything about herself/himself and specially the ones related to him/her and this is what Sai forgot and didn't even think once I am also in college I have some girls in our group we don't even shake hands with girls if they aren't comfortable so let aside this of blowing dust off a girl's eye if it's not that serious....you viewed it so fair in positivity that you ignored it's negative end just because your intentions weren't wrong doesn't mean you were right and others will see it in your way, that's why I felt Sai wrong there as compared to Virat....I was saying the flirt not here but in above two situations and openly in hospital friendship is totally a different element a pure term but Sai was much more than that as she also got stucked in the eyes of Satya during their catch and fall scene so after all this she is not allowed to insult Virat on his proclamations...

And definitely as you said Love is not enough you should have trust and respect both should know this not only Virat..... because as far as I can see he is with the thought that if Sai wanted to marry someone else why didn't she in all these years he just said all that in anger after getting insulted that's it he believes in Sai from his depth of heart there is no doubt in this....

I didn't say you narrow minded infact I commented on your message of Virat as narrow minded I think I have clarified it I don't want to discuss further but other side also exists this is what I wanted to say Thank you....

Ashane ji no one reads such long essays on this forum. All the members, including myself, are afflicted with short attention span who come here to get some respite from the drudgeries of life and regale themselves in the company of others.

So, I would just like to suggest don’t take either the show or the nonsense spouted by fd seriously. There is no point in incurring stress over nonsensical itv shows which are devoid of any logic.