Anupama doesn’t deserve Anuj Kapadia!

No no I am not kidding. Ppl said Anupama doesn’t deserve a man like Anuj Kapadia and I finally agree w them. She absolutely doesn’t deserve a weak, coward and a fake man like Anuj Kapadia.

No one deserves a weak and a coward man like Anuj Kapadia (except Maya cuz she’s desperate for him). Abandoning his wife at the first major roadblock in their life. Disgusting. Her personality, her life, her baggages, how she was wasn’t hidden from him. He has seen semi circle drama himself & been involved in it multiple times before he got married.. Anupama has been an open book to him. She didn’t lie to him about who she was, what her life has been, what her baggages were. Yet he chose to marry her knowing fully well what he’s getting into. Anupama didn’t want to get into a relationship or marry for that matter cuz she knew her trauma but this man showed her fairytale life, made fake promises, lied to her at every point when she doubted whether she’ll be able to keep him happy saying she’s enough for him. Forced her into believing she will be happy w him and he doesn’t want anything more than being with her. She never once said she’ll abandon shahs after marrying him. She infact always told him she can never be his fully and asked if he was okay w it.. she never gave him fake promises..

All she wanted was to GROW OLD WITH HIM.. little did she know that came w a condition.. he wanted her to be a mother again & forced more responsibilities on her.

Emotional blackmailed her for adoption knowing fully well she can’t say no (which was never discussed when he proposed marriage to her). Didn’t let her tell her kids about the adoption beforehand which created distance between her and her kids (Pakhi/Toshu/even Samar). As despicable as they were, they deserved to know if their mother was planning on adopting a kid. But he forced her to stay quiet and not tell them. And a fool that she is agreed. Took M to picnic… Lied to her about picnic debacle w Maya knowing fully well what Anu’s traumas were. Yet this fool defended him infront of everyone and called him her god 🥴

Since Maya is desperate to be w a weak, stupid man like Anuj Kapadia, she can have him and deal with his bullshit. So yeah pls get Anupama and Anuj divorced. Let him go w Maya to USA or Bermuda triangle for all I care. Such a weak, coward and a stupid man, always running and never able to make a decision … and end his character. He is anyway not important if he’s not connected w Anupama. Chhoti isn’t their bio kid and w M in picture still, there will be no connection between Anupama & Anuj unlike other itv shows like Rishta where a bio kid connects exes.. so yeah end his chr. He’s doomed. He turned out to be a typical toxic ML who can’t do shit himself but will blame him wife for everything…

Writers ne start Mein anuj ko itna strong n samajdar dekhaya itna cool mind

Ke bas jo sirf anupama ki fikar karta hai

But suddenly all change

CA more important to him

Saari wisdom gi tail lene

Sari respect gayi bhar mein

Sara cool mind gaya sea mein

Because baap ke pyar ka kiya

N now what excuse he feels guilty that because he can't face her rabbish 🤢

When he say i love you anupama in front of shah next day he meets anupama tab guilt se bhag nahi gaua

I know it's show but really disappointed with writers

I concede. Someone should point out to MAA the flaws AK has. But, she is in a defensive mood. Even if AK strangles her, she will find 1001 reasons to justify his actions.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

I concede. Someone should point out to MAA the flaws AK has. But, she is in a defensive mood. Even if AK strangles her, she will find 1001 reasons to justify his actions.

She worships the ground he walks on. She’s dumb to trust this stupid and weak man. If he can leave you once, what guarantee do you have that he won’t leave you again? Even if they get CA back tomorrow, CA might go to a playground and get hurt in Anupama’s watch which is unintentional but what guarantee there is that Anuj won’t get a fit and leave her again? Abandon her again? If Vanraj can’t be trusted to not cheat on Anuapama again, how can you trust Anuj Kapadia to not abandon you again? Woman open your fcuking eyes.

Get divorced and move on from this toxic man. He can go disappear in thin air along w Maya.. she’s such a fool. She should have never married this fake man who only gave her fake promises..

Originally posted by: YoungHeart

She worships the ground he walks on. She’s dumb to trust this stupid and weak man. If he can leave you once, what guarantee do you have that he won’t leave you again? Even if they get CA back tomorrow, CA might go to a playground and get hurt in Anupama’s watch which is unintentional but what guarantee there is that Anuj won’t get a fit and leave her again? Abandon her again? If Vanraj can’t be trusted to not cheat on Anuapama again, how can you trust Anuj Kapadia to not abandon you again? Woman open your fcuking eyes.

Get divorced and move on from this toxic man. He can go disappear in thin air along w Maya.. she’s such a fool. She should have never married this fake man who only gave her fake promises.

As long as Anuj does not sleep with other women, she is not going to divorce him. He can slap her multiple times, yet she will ask for more slaps. Leaving her, blaming her, and cutting contact with her are not mistakes for her. Only EMA can cure her Meri Anuj Jaap.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

As long as Anuj does not sleep with other women, she is not going to divorce him. He can slap her multiple times, yet she will ask for more slaps. Leaving her, blaming her, and cutting contact with her are not mistakes for her. Only EMA can cure her Meri Anuj Jaap.

That is what is so disappointing. She never considers her husbands her equal and always puts them on a higher pedestal. Pati is her god. It is so stupid, atleast in her second marriage she should not behave like this. Accept her faults but also not excuse anujs mistakes.

She thinks Anuj is her Bhagwan and she is his slave. How differnt it would have been if she goes to Mumbai after sometime and proactively confront Anuj ?

Now it’s worse than teenage nibba nibbi .

It’s a show about second chances and women empowerment but they show none, it’s back to being about soul connections wala love nonsense.

Anupama is absolutely wrong in her choices so far but once I agree with you. AK is weak and coward. No one, I say no one deserves a man like him.

I agree with the title👍🏼

Anupama's journey is a circle actually. She comes back to the same point after traveling a long perimeter. And its because she simply cannot walk her talk.

If someone, god forbid, asks her to define equality she will give her signature 5 pages bhashan but forgets to implement these herself.

If she ever completed her school I bet she would have been the one taking extra sheets in theory but fails in practicals!

She can lecture all women on earth on equality with spouse but when it comes to her she worships her patidev even when they do not deserve that.

And I completely agree, Anuj married her knowing everything her vulnerabilities her attachment to her kids but still expected her to change her ways and abandoned her for the love of a child he fostered. Irony died right there!

Aap mujhe ek baat bata sakte ho anupama ka kya contribution hai Maan ke relationship mein?

I agree anuj's current behaviour is pathetic, he should had not gone 4 adoption lekin still I don't see her contribution in this marriage if u can help me to see .

I agree anuj accepted anupama with her baggage but logically anupama's responsibility is only for her kids not 4 vanraj or shah family. Anuj never stopped anupama from fulfilling her responsibility in return he got insult from Leela & vanraj with babuji mute spectator. Anuj ne anupama se shaadi ki hai to insult uska gift hai or aap mujhe bata sakte ho why should anuj bear this

Anuj is 10000000000 % is right to ask anupama to draw line which anupama fails to draw ,

Agar aap anuj ke dialogue suno ge na jitni baar usne anupama se shah family ki nataunki se dur rehne ko kaha hai vo bahut sahi or logical dialogues hai vo khud ke liye nhi anuj ne anupama ki mental sanity ke liye kaha hai kyunki she get effected badly by shah family drama. Koi bhi sensible person yahi suggest karega .

In reality also divorced couple who r parents still fulfill their responsibility towards their kids but don't get into each other lives or family. Jin logo ki past ke baggage hote unki khud bhi responsibility hoti hai unka present disturb na ho unke past se , kya anupama ne responsibility nibhayi

Even kanta ben called it loud that 2 which level shah family is dependent on anupama which can irritate anyone , kanta ben know what triggered anuj, now kanta ben is also wrong.

if u see now anupama is maintaining a distance from shah family vo baat alag hai shah family khud uske ghar pahunch jaate hai nataunki karne , ab kaise distance maintain ho raha distance yahi kaam anuj se shaadi ke baad kar leti to ye sab nhi ho raha hota

To be very true anupama kabhi aage nhi bad sakti jabtak vo shah family or specially vanraj se dur nhi hoti as vanraj usse kabhi aage nhi badhne dega , she has to stop taking responsibility of shah family nataunki , her 3 idiots r not toddlers who want her full attention all the time.

Divorce ke baad anupama ko therapy ke liye Jana chahiye tha lekin vo therapy to uske mahan bapuji ne di usse shah family se na Jane deke. He is the biggest villain of this serial

Yes anuj is also wrong but anupama is 95% wrong in this relationship when u know u don't want to move forward coz of ur obsession towards shah family why to destroy anyone else life.

If Maan has to reunite which will happen for sure anyone like it or not then anupama needs solid changes in her character varna reunion ka kuch matlab nahi.